A message for women in relationships: 'Understand your man'

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Australian sex workers have a message for women in relationships: 'Understand your man'

http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/rel...fc78048016212e

Summary:

“Men are looking to be understood and be heard. They’re looking for that bit of love that they’re obviously missing. I could open up a school to teach women how to be intimate because there are so many out there that are not giving intimacy to their husbands.”

90% of her clients, ranging in age from 20-45, pay $350 for half an hour to engage in a heightened degree of emotional intimacy.

In some cases, they engage in reciprocal sexual pleasure (girlfriend experiences), but in other cases, they won’t have sex at all (companionship experiences).

The rise of dating apps, specifically an app designed to connect sex workers with clients, Rendevu, are revolutionising the sex work industry as more and more men look for connections outside of their relationship, online and off. The platform helps sex workers and users organise availability, pricing, location and type of services.

“A lot of guys just want to share things they may not be able to share with their wife about personal stuff because their lives are too busy at home with the kids and everything.”

She said that most of her companionship experiences involve “cuddling” and “talking” and conversation can stretch from politics to the world to even their own relationship.

“It takes a while for guys to open up and talk. Men don’t talk about deep issues with each other, they need someone to talk to. They don’t talk to their wives about it, so they talk to the escort. They’ve had some kind of disconnect, for someone to open up to an escort you must think, what happened to your marriage? What kind of marriage do you have? Women have so many different issues they have to deal with, and children can be a big reason for a disconnect.”

Yet she assured, “it doesn't mean they’ve lost interest in their partner, they still want their loving relationship at home”.

And last, but not least: “Don’t hold off on the sex. Always have sex. Learn to enjoy it.”