if u r just having fun n not leading to marriage, is ur choice.
however if u now planning to get one for a wife, a life time partner.
this is how i would advice u
PRC gals r princess to their parents, they will request a big sum of money to marry their daughter off. u r also demanded to pay two locations for the wedding, one in singapore and the 2nd one in china, when their time in sg, u r also required to pay for their expenses. hotel, air ticket n their food etc
i had some friends who marry their prc wives did all these, avg amount would mount 60k excluding wedding ceremony in sg.
so if u r rich enough, n sure ur prc gal wont fly or run away after getting her PR or pink ic, u can go ahead. i have nth against prc woman, but do expect all these to be done by u. further more if u r playing with the prc woman, things might go ugly when u break up with her, some are prone to violence due to their culture. as the ratio for prc men to women are 7:3 receptively.
u r consider marrying a princess in their eyes.
do serious consideration btw the two. i not saying marrying a malaysian gal will be perfect, but surely saves u a lot of trouble handling a prc family
plus if the prc -in-laws decided u also do the paperwork and expenses for them to come once or twice a year to visit u and ur wife? how would tat cost? how many years can u go on? there are some nice prc families for sure, but is really ur luck
malaysian gals wise r more family caring, as i have work in a factory i have came across both countries gals. to be HONEST, malayisian gals r down to earth, u may claim u know them inside out, but it is when u date them long enough, u will find they are all wearing mask. i had both malaysian n prc gf before, i would still consider malaysian gal to be wife.
lastly, open ur eyes BIG, dont be blind by the goodness they have presented before u right now. to start off, get to their circle of friends, see how they behave or talk abt the gals u r targeting right now, it do help a bit knowing
i wish u good luck and all the best!
Doesn't means they want means u have to give. Hold your grounds n stand firm. Not happy then u can always break up
Hope you won’t mind me adding some facts. If any provinces are flood or earthquakes, OMG you have to fork out monies to rebuild their hometown. If their mom or other family member gets sick, it'll cost you $$$$$. Chinese women are a terrible choice if you don't have much money, or you're laid back, if she's too ambitious. Mostly china ladies if they find better opportunities, they might ‘leave’ you because they are too materialistic and status oriented. They can become a tiger mom to your kids, demanding that they excel in everything - grades, piano lessons, honors, etc, but not passionate or sensual on bed, they are not like hot lain lovers. Cares too much about what other people think.
My 2cents: get a Malaysian girl, but hor depends on which state also. If can don't find JB ones... Most of them already behave like a boss... Get further away one eg: other states. If you like Malay looking ones can go for a Sabahan / Sarawakian. They are very pretty, down to earth and "very open" to new suggestions (read in between the lines: sex positions) as well!
There’s no difference in nationalities......it’s just depend on the upbringing of that girl u meet.
There’s sure to be girls with bad characters in every country....even in Singapore, there’s alot of girls who only want money and then go around cheating guys money, this is how other Asian countries labelled Singapore girls. However, there’s also good one too.
Be it Malaysian or PRC, it’s depend on yr feel & the views of yours on her. I got 20+ Friends (some r rich & some r middles class) who married PRC. Their families never request any single cents from them. The wives even contributed to half of the family expenses. These are the experiences I see with my own eyes on the 20+ families, with PRC wives.
There’s no difference in nationalities......it’s just depend on the upbringing of that girl u meet.
There’s sure to be girls with bad characters in every country....even in Singapore, there’s alot of girls who only want money and then go around cheating guys money, this is how other Asian countries labelled Singapore girls. However, there’s also good one too.
Be it Malaysian or PRC, it’s depend on yr feel & the views of yours on her. I got 20+ Friends (some r rich & some r middles class) who married PRC. Their families never request any single cents from them. The wives even contributed to half of the family expenses. These are the experiences I see with my own eyes on the 20+ families, with PRC wives.
Hope you won’t mind me adding some facts. If any provinces are flood or earthquakes, OMG you have to fork out monies to rebuild their hometown. If their mom or other family member gets sick, it'll cost you $$$$$. Chinese women are a terrible choice if you don't have much money, or you're laid back, if she's too ambitious. Mostly china ladies if they find better opportunities, they might ‘leave’ you because they are too materialistic and status oriented. They can become a tiger mom to your kids, demanding that they excel in everything - grades, piano lessons, honors, etc, but not passionate or sensual on bed, they are not like hot lain lovers. Cares too much about what other people think.
I got friends marry very good china girls. I also got friends marry bad china girls
Is depend on how you see it sometime. China girls dont give face when the are angry or they have support from they family.
But some china girls just want a simply life with you.
Some will ask for + + +. Some once pr/pink IC will change lei
Some meet same kampong people will start to change
Malaysian girls
I admit one thing they very very very hard working. They will give you face outside even you all have a big fight. But one thing bad about them is they keep all the anger inside till 10 yesr 20 year will all bomb out.
Also you treat they parents good they will also do the same.
I got friends marry very good china girls. I also got friends marry bad china girls
Is depend on how you see it sometime. China girls dont give face when the are angry or they have support from they family.
But some china girls just want a simply life with you.
Some will ask for + + +. Some once pr/pink IC will change lei
Some meet same kampong people will start to change
Malaysian girls
I admit one thing they very very very hard working. They will give you face outside even you all have a big fight. But one thing bad about them is they keep all the anger inside till 10 yesr 20 year will all bomb out.
Also you treat they parents good they will also do the same.
Both is from oversea and will definitely want to go home as and when possible. Do consider if you can afford yearly trips back to their home country.
Obviously malaysia is much cheaper!
Yes. Malaysia by car whereas PRC by plane. A big of difference
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Another point for your consideration.
Airfare.
Both is from oversea and will definitely want to go home as and when possible. Do consider if you can afford yearly trips back to their home country.
Obviously malaysia is much cheaper!
if u r just having fun n not leading to marriage, is ur choice.
however if u now planning to get one for a wife, a life time partner.
this is how i would advice u
PRC gals r princess to their parents, they will request a big sum of money to marry their daughter off. u r also demanded to pay two locations for the wedding, one in singapore and the 2nd one in china, when their time in sg, u r also required to pay for their expenses. hotel, air ticket n their food etc
i had some friends who marry their prc wives did all these, avg amount would mount 60k excluding wedding ceremony in sg.
so if u r rich enough, n sure ur prc gal wont fly or run away after getting her PR or pink ic, u can go ahead. i have nth against prc woman, but do expect all these to be done by u. further more if u r playing with the prc woman, things might go ugly when u break up with her, some are prone to violence due to their culture. as the ratio for prc men to women are 7:3 receptively.
u r consider marrying a princess in their eyes.
do serious consideration btw the two. i not saying marrying a malaysian gal will be perfect, but surely saves u a lot of trouble handling a prc family
plus if the prc -in-laws decided u also do the paperwork and expenses for them to come once or twice a year to visit u and ur wife? how would tat cost? how many years can u go on? there are some nice prc families for sure, but is really ur luck
malaysian gals wise r more family caring, as i have work in a factory i have came across both countries gals. to be HONEST, malayisian gals r down to earth, u may claim u know them inside out, but it is when u date them long enough, u will find they are all wearing mask. i had both malaysian n prc gf before, i would still consider malaysian gal to be wife.
lastly, open ur eyes BIG, dont be blind by the goodness they have presented before u right now. to start off, get to their circle of friends, see how they behave or talk abt the gals u r targeting right now, it do help a bit knowing
i wish u good luck and all the best!
Fantastic advice! Wanted to up you but time lapsed awhile since your last post. If you see this, do post something and PM me. Will up you.