How to get your ex back

[otamay]

Originally Posted by tantanmoe

be a better man and get a better girl bro, don't waste time

Precisely should be this way.

[UncleOng45]

Originally Posted by xterm8

Recently I was dumped by my ex GF (of 18 months). Wonder if there any samsters advice on how to get her back. What are your experience here ?

Did u ever c thing u throw cm bk?
D best way 2 win a girl is 2 upgrade yourself. Improve embrace so that she’ll fall in love & cm bk herself.

[giggz83]

for what? no point mate

upgrade yourself, earn more $$, get to know more girls (internationally better still), save alot of $$, get a car, improve internally i.e. confidence, gentlemenly, proper speech etc.

when she crawls back, then give her a good f*k, and apologies to her; she cannot anyhow jump queue, and join the queue from the back.

life's good

[tantanmoe]

Originally Posted by giggz83

for what? no point mate

upgrade yourself, earn more $$, get to know more girls (internationally better still), save alot of $$, get a car, improve internally i.e. confidence, gentlemenly, proper speech etc.

when she crawls back, then give her a good f*k, and apologies to her; she cannot anyhow jump queue, and join the queue from the back.

life's good

true story

[ddog]

Keep female interested must message gal once a day min.
Out once 2 weeks min.
No contact helps, contact gal after few weeks sound casual.

[RinxRin]

just 1 cent worth from a female POV....

I guess it really depends why she dumped u. If u cheated on her, forget it, move on, dont ever appear even in front of her. Don't even try to initiate contact. Cause she's probably still having a difficult time healing and by doing so, you will only hurt her even more. Unless that's your intentions. If she wants and can forgive u, she will come and look for u. if not, let go.

If the only reason u meet her once a month is to fuck, den again, let go of her ba. she probably finally wake up to her senses and realised that you are not worth her investing more emotions anymore. dont try to say good words to get back to her anymore. moreover, if u can only afford to meet her once a month, how much do u actually love her? are u just wanting to get her back cause u feel like ur ego/pride is hurt? this girl gives 18 months of her time to u. more den enough for her to get into a proper and committed relationship w someone else whom will love n cherish her normally, bring her to dates etc. So unless u gonna be able to do that, on a LONGTERM basis, means meet her maybe 2-3 times a week, sometimes once a week etc, dont go disturb her life liao.

As for ways to get her back.

Only got one : willing to change, and show her that u can change. if shes willing to u turn, she will.

PS. there's a reason why a girl finally left u. go think about it first before thinking about how to get her back.

[king2525]

Originally Posted by RinxRin

just 1 cent worth from a female POV....

I guess it really depends why she dumped u. If u cheated on her, forget it, move on, dont ever appear even in front of her. Don't even try to initiate contact. Cause she's probably still having a difficult time healing and by doing so, you will only hurt her even more. Unless that's your intentions. If she wants and can forgive u, she will come and look for u. if not, let go.

If the only reason u meet her once a month is to fuck, den again, let go of her ba. she probably finally wake up to her senses and realised that you are not worth her investing more emotions anymore. dont try to say good words to get back to her anymore. moreover, if u can only afford to meet her once a month, how much do u actually love her? are u just wanting to get her back cause u feel like ur ego/pride is hurt? this girl gives 18 months of her time to u. more den enough for her to get into a proper and committed relationship w someone else whom will love n cherish her normally, bring her to dates etc. So unless u gonna be able to do that, on a LONGTERM basis, means meet her maybe 2-3 times a week, sometimes once a week etc, dont go disturb her life liao.

As for ways to get her back.

Only got one : willing to change, and show her that u can change. if shes willing to u turn, she will.

PS. there's a reason why a girl finally left u. go think about it first before thinking about how to get her back.

Well said!!

[xterm8]

Well said. It was long distance relationship. Different country. I could only meet her once or twice a month. After a while she felt neglected and she wanted to meet other people. Maybe those people can meet her needs. I do take everyone advice about moving on.

[RinxRin]

Originally Posted by xterm8

Well said. It was long distance relationship. Different country. I could only meet her once or twice a month. After a while she felt neglected and she wanted to meet other people. Maybe those people can meet her needs. I do take everyone advice about moving on.

At least shes honest in telling u she wants to meet other people instead of doing it behind your back.

Maybe if u want her back first thing you need to think is can you commit to spending more time together like flying over on weekends (assuming shes not too far), and just spend time with her as friends to let her know u r willing to change.

If not just move on ba for everyones good.

[extremewealthy]

TS must commit in spending more money too

[FireDragon]

How much? $25?

Originally Posted by twentyfiva

Don't forget to get your money back

[HottieQ]

Originally Posted by conquer

First of all, it was her who dumped you. You don't get her back, she gets you back.

Certainly, you don't have chips to bargain.

Fully agreed with you on this!

[fuckvirgim]

TS should move on.

[FreebiezWanker]

TS intro ur ex to us. If we get to fuck her, will send u the vids....

[twentyfiva]

S$25millions

Originally Posted by FireDragon

How much? $25?