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So you want a FB, or just a ... date?
FB, FWB or quite simply, you want a date...
It's not that hard, and what's holding you back is frankly not: A) not being rich B) not having a car C) being good-looking If you believe what's preventing you from getting one is any of the above, quite frankly you are just looking for excuses. Anything you can use to excuse yourself for FAILING. Getting a date/fb is far less daunting than you think,subject to the usual caveats (eg if you have no money, no looks and no nice car, you should probably not expect to get a date or a sex session with somebody who is obviously OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE). Yes, this shit happens. But if you cut your clothes according to your cloth so to speak, there is NO reason why any of you guys should not get a date/FB. I have seen many other guys here giving good advice on how to score, but I have seen even more giving terrible easy-to--accept advice that is as easy to digest as it is untrue designed to make you give up without trying. You guys do not deserve to be alone. You can break out of that cycle. |
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Re: So you want a FB, or just a ... date?
I don't have all 3 .
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Re: So you want a FB, or just a ... date?
Nowadays no (a) no (b) . Have (c) also not much use
U no (c) but have (a) or (b) high chance bo leh |
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Re: So you want a FB, or just a ... date?
Camp here to learn from the experts how to score a FB
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I know how easy it is and comforting to believe that the guy driving the Ferrari is getting all that sexual attention simply because he presumably has money. Odds are however, it's the very traits that brought him the riches to buy the Ferrari that also happen to be very attractive to (some) women. Maybe the drive or the ambition that a man would need to attain that sort of power. And power is a strong aphrodisiac. But you'd be surprised how few women are interested in spreading their legs for men simply because they have money. And that's not what you want anyway, right? Having a car is another one. So what if you don't own a car. So what? Lots of people don't own a car. And yes, there will be women for whom you not having a car is a deal breaker. Alright, move along. Find a girl to whom this doesn't matter enough because you have already shown yourself to be attractive in other ways. I meet my friends online (I must admit that's where my strengths lie), but by and large these general rules apply no matter where or how you get to know them. I establish rapport up to a point where I know my odds are good, and very rarely have I been asked prior to that, whether I drive. It often does not matter once you've made yourself likeable enough before that. And being good looking, I guess (without any statistical evidence) probably makes the biggest difference of the three, especially when making a good impression. And the good news is, almost every guy has the power and means to overcome the curse of physical ugliness. And luckily for guys again, it really is far less deadly for guys to be fugly than it is for girls. If you aren't happy with your appearance, go lose some weight, stop going to places where there're pretty girls wearing cheap sandals and ugly ARMY singlets and thinking that it's okay. It's not too hard, nor too expensive with so many options (if unsure, just go to Uniqlo) to dress decently well. Well enough to feel good about yourself every time you step out the door to go out. Sure it's mostly the same you, as if you'd been wearing cheap sandals and a disgusting ARMY singlet, but that bit of difference is huge in terms of the impression you can make. And more importantly, the way you feel about yourself. And you don't even need to hit the gym. I see plenty of gym guys with arms so big they walk like gorillas or with skin so bad (they show a lot of it because they think their muscles look incredibly sexy). I doubt they're getting any. And those that are, is because their going to the gym is part of an overall routine designed to keep themselves feeling confident and good about themselves. And that is the most important part, feeling good about yourself. It just shows from the clothes you wear, your body language. People simply like being around people who feel good about themselves. Of course that should not cross over into arrogance which is unattractive to everyone. They are many methods that a guy can go about finding women to meet, but before even going there, you simply have to work on yourself. Very specifically, how you feel about yourself, and your ability to compete with other males for female attention. If you don't feel good about yourself, and feel inferior or anything, you aren't going to get anywhere, no matter how much you 'try your luck' Yes, I started this thread because I keep on reading guys here attributing success or failure to luck when blind stupid luck has not that much to do with it. Yes, having a), b) and c) do help, a lot. But there are so many things a guy can do to tilt the odds in his favor, and I'm pretty sure the main reason why so men don't do it is sheer PASSIVITY. That passivity may have many causes, but if you wanna do something about it, there really is so much you can do. You just have to stop the self-pitying and believing that a lot of what you can and hope to achieve are beyond your ability to influence and effect. It's a nasty mindset that adds no value to your life. |
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Hey yes !!
I like the positivity this guy is preaching! And I don’t think it’s all BS.. I don’t have a car, great bod or even a alotnof money but I fuck a lot because I think I have a positive mind side. You would not guess how many FLs or SBs reject me! But I don’t let it affect me, keep having a positive attitude and effect positive change to my current profile and I think it has helped. From having 0 physical relations with women before 2005, I have since gone on to at least more than 20 since then! More than one a year! Get in!! I am a success story to a positive mindset! |
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I always pay a lady for the honor of letting me smash her punani.
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Glad to hear Jabwemet's affirmation as well.
The truth is I have, to some or full extent all three of a), b) and c) and I have also seen enough to know how overrated they are. I know there are some of you guys who are simply curious to know the exact methods, and procedures to follow in order to get a date/FB. Unfortunately we can't, and won't share those publicly because they're like trade secrets,and frankly you must have your own method, otherwise you'd be following some silly template which frankly makes you look stupid more than anything else. You must have your own method of operation. I must admit I'm writing this more for the guys who are struggling to establish any kind of connection with the females, even more so than for those who simply want to ... fuck many women Most importantly, before you even start your search for a date or a FB, you must believe strongly in your bones that: a) There are a lot of women out there who feel as unfulfilled as you are, emotionally and/or sexually b) YOU are capable of fulfilling this void that women have, and that's something no one can help with but yourself, and as long as you have recognized your own limits If you don't believe these to be true, retreat back into your shell and blame everyone else for your misfortune. But once you do believe these to be true, there's s much you can do to connect with women, and maybe get a date (yes, there are so many waiting and wishing that guys would try to date them, with or without a, b and/or c) Make sure you are: a) Interesting, have a good story to tell. And no, NS stories don't count. Everyone's watched Ah Boys to Men. It doesn't even have to be your own story, but it must be something emotionally engaging. If it's not meaningful to you, it won't be meaningful to anyone you're trying to talk to about it. b) Passionate about something (helps with a). People are always drawn to somebody passionate about something. If you think about it and realize you have no passions, or nothing that you'd be really happy to achieve.... Now's the time to start thinking... Nobody cares about the person who's passionate about having a good body cos that's just too clichéd. Have a dream,an ambition of some sort, and it doesn't even have to be about money cos most people will never ever have a lot of it. c) Be ambitious Kinda like B, and ambition does not necessarily have to be about money (again). Have something you want to achieve don't be shy about saying it if you believe it. Women love it, especially if you're willing to admit your fears about ever achieving them d) Be honest Don't pretend not to be looking for sex, especially if that's what you are I see so many guys trying to be 'nice guys', pretending they aren't in it for sex. Forget it, you're just losers. Women know it, they get propositioned all the time, and they know that what you want i sex, no matter how you deny it. And believe me, many want it as much as you do They just need to know who they want to give it to. State what you want, be tasteful about it. (Almost) No woman wants to be think of themselves as being easy That men should want to fuck as many women as they can does not mean men should should, or can get away with thinking of every woman as a sex object c) Be well groomed I think I'd gone over this before . If you can't look in the mirror and say 'I'm happy with how I look today', forget about a woman giving you the time if the day. These rules are general in nature, but by and large true. If you can't be love yourself, no one else can. I'm writing this more for the guys struggling to get a date than the ones just wanting to fuck more women without (paying) because nobody should have to feel unloved , or unloveable and society still places the burden of action on men. Within reasonable limits, nobody should need to feel unloved and unwanted |
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Looks, money and cars are secondary. Make us laugh and shower us with the right amount of attention!
I agree with TS. Actually, you just need that one quality/thing to get the game rolling. The littlest thing can get guys in our pants. I'm trying to get into my colleagues pants but Idk how. TS CAN YOU DO A GUIDE FOR LADIES PLEASE? |
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Wow some very good advice here, for the Bros who need them. Whether or not it’s to look for FBs (I’m currently not looking), we should still apply what’s in this thread. Look good, have ambition, and a good story to tell (ideally recent).
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Yea. Honestly if guys just want a FB it'd be better if they weren't rich or really good-looking. Girls might see them as boyf material instead of FB material.
If I could give a piece of advice, work on your banter. A girl can tell everything from your banter (or lack of it).
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