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If she not in the mood to tell story I also interested in what she thinks most men who are SDs want?
Companionship? Sex? To feel young? Hao lian at parties?
I have been asking myself that and tbh I don’t think I can pay the $$$$$ that real SBs desire andnalso have nfi how to buy a handbag or jelwelry.
I like FLing because it’s mostly f and go.. some of the ladies are really nice and I do enjoy the banter and stories they tell me.
However I am pretty anti social and most of the time I stay home instead of socializing.
Have you met SDs who are socially awkward, vivward?
Hi there.
Most SDs would not take SBs to hao lian at parties because of the need for discretion (married/affluent). But there are such cases.
Mostly companionship. By companionship it means sex is also involved. Yes I have met SDs who are socially awkward
Just went from page 1 of your thread all the way to here in the last page, I just read your latest post here and i just feel that i gotta come out and say these few bits of encouragement that i sincerely feel you're most well-deserving of considering the stuff you have been thru.
Dun rush into dating blindly again just bcos you've finished your sugaring and would like to have ur chance at a normal lifestyle. Your "fateful" one will be out there somewhere and will definitely appear in front of you when the time is right. There are always guys who only look towards the future with the one they love and care about, and could not care much about what has happened b4 in the past.
The past, as we call it, is already past as in it's history. It's there not for us to dwell on, but rather life lessons for us to gain, learn from mistakes and to grow. That's how i feel personally, but there are also guys who will not hesitate to dig up the past when in an argument. So it's kind of like a double-edged sword as u call it, find the right one and you'll be happy, end up with the wrong one and you'll have misery practically everyday.
Guys who are able to look beyond what has happened in the past stays in the past, are far and few. But i'm sure you'll eventually find 1 such person. So never give up and best of luck there.
This is why sincere SD/SBs might wanna try going to seekingarrangement.com for their fixes instead of SBF. Just gotta watch out for cat-fishing and scams.
Seriously man, most adverts here look like glorified FL/escort services. IMO the SD/SB dynamic is akin to cultivating a proper relationship. There shouldn't be the "meet x times a month" caveat you see on practically every thread here nowadays. How is that any different from visiting the same prostitute 4 times a month on a fixed schedule?
Now I'm not saying that the SB should be at the SD's beck and call 24/7. But putting a hard cap on the frequency of meetups is just too transactional. The SB should - within reason - do whatever it takes to fulfill the SD's desires. He is taking care of your financial needs after all. If your SD wants you to binge watch Game of Thrones with him, it shouldn't be a "session". You should do it because you want to make your SD happy (and if you like dragons and titties).
On the other end of the equation, what is with all the flaming and complaining we see here when some SBs post relatively high expected allowances? Like c'mon dude, this is not some wet market where you can haggle over the cost of poultry. Every SB has her price. Can't afford it? Don't low ball, don't haggle, don't slut-shame, don't cry "spoil market", don't be bitter - just walk away with dignity.
Too many losers whining about sour grapes these days. Its ok to be poor. Nobody will judge you for that. But if you're gonna bitch about the product just because you cannot afford its price, that's just pathetic. And if you can afford it but think the SB isn't worth her asking price? Why trash the SB? She's just trying to make this shit work on her terms. If you think its a bad deal, just go get your kicks somewhere else man.
Just my 2cts on this topic. Stay cool, and have a great weekend ahead.
I’m not on this forum much. Stumbled upon this thread which made for an interesting read. Having been a SD for about 3 years now, I do agree with the above well articulated piece. Thanks for sharing out what’s on the mind of many SDs.