Ladies love being appreciated and reassured. SG guys tend to be sweet until they become the BF/husband and then stop being sweet. It is a big mistake to cut back on the appreciation and reassurance. No matter how successful/independent the lady is, she will still need guys to put in effort to appreciate and reassure her (of how important she is to you). I have a female colleague in her 50s. Whenever life throws up a problem, she is always looking for her husband to come offer her reassurance. Reassurance that she is not facing the problem alone.
Just ask your normal female friends, at what stage in a relationship will a lady stop looking for appreciation and reassurance from their bf/husband? Do your own survey.
This is why ABCs and white guys are so successful. They can build up a woman's self esteem so high and continue to maintain the level of effort. The problem is many Asian ladies know they can maintain the level of effort and so throw themselves at these ABCs and white guys even though the guys are married/attached. Temptation beckons then.
Try this method. Stop thinking of yourself in a relationship. Stop thinking of her in the relationship too. It should not be a 'Her Vs Him' scenario whenever there are issues to consider. The relationship is not about him or her. A relationship is about 'US'. Try thinking of solutions from the US (him and her) angle. Whenever you act from the 'US' angle, fewer quarrels already.
If too chim, just put a daily reminder at 1 pm in your calendar. When the daily reminder goes off, send her variations of such a whatsapp message (have you eaten? thinking of you) (what did you have for lunch?). The point is not what you type but you did think of her.
Ladies love being appreciated and reassured. SG guys tend to be sweet until they become the BF/husband and then stop being sweet. It is a big mistake to cut back on the appreciation and reassurance. No matter how successful/independent the lady is, she will still need guys to put in effort to appreciate and reassure her (of how important she is to you). I have a female colleague in her 50s. Whenever life throws up a problem, she is always looking for her husband to come offer her reassurance. Reassurance that she is not facing the problem alone.
Just ask your normal female friends, at what stage in a relationship will a lady stop looking for appreciation and reassurance from their bf/husband? Do your own survey.
This is why ABCs and white guys are so successful. They can build up a woman's self esteem so high and continue to maintain the level of effort. The problem is many Asian ladies know they can maintain the level of effort and so throw themselves at these ABCs and white guys even though the guys are married/attached. Temptation beckons then.
Try this method. Stop thinking of yourself in a relationship. Stop thinking of her in the relationship too. It should not be a 'Her Vs Him' scenario whenever there are issues to consider. The relationship is not about him or her. A relationship is about 'US'. Try thinking of solutions from the US (him and her) angle. Whenever you act from the 'US' angle, fewer quarrels already.
If too chim, just put a daily reminder at 1 pm in your calendar. When the daily reminder goes off, send her variations of such a whatsapp message (have you eaten? thinking of you) (what did you have for lunch?). The point is not what you type but you did think of her.
Totally agree. Some bros asked me why I always seem to get lucky. I always invest mentally more than material.
I had Pinay FBs flying back here for good week’s fuck after they left SG. Their reasons are the same. I never disrespect them or look down on them.
Girls are attracted to looks, money and status. Expats by being able to come here have higher status and money. That is why girls will go to them.
They are also attracted by ambition, character, sense of humour and the effort a guy puts into making them feel desired. Interestingly enough, almost anything that attracts girls can be worked on!
It's basically the whole "grass is greener on the other side" syndrome. White guys are relatively rare in SG compared to local guys or any Asian race. Hence their "rarity" makes them more desirable for girls who are out to boost their egos by catching someone that not everyone has. Furthermore westerners are usually a lot more extroverted and better at selling themselves and boosting egos than local guys. Local guys are more hidden substance, western guys are more flair and surface charm than anything else. You don't usually see MILF level Asian women or older go for western guys unless they were SPGs in their youth and are still trying to relive those times. That's because they are far more immune to surface charms without substance backing it up, and that's where a lot of western guys fall short.
Ladies love being appreciated and reassured. SG guys tend to be sweet until they become the BF/husband and then stop being sweet. It is a big mistake to cut back on the appreciation and reassurance. No matter how successful/independent the lady is, she will still need guys to put in effort to appreciate and reassure her (of how important she is to you). I have a female colleague in her 50s. Whenever life throws up a problem, she is always looking for her husband to come offer her reassurance. Reassurance that she is not facing the problem alone.
Just ask your normal female friends, at what stage in a relationship will a lady stop looking for appreciation and reassurance from their bf/husband? Do your own survey.
This is why ABCs and white guys are so successful. They can build up a woman's self esteem so high and continue to maintain the level of effort. The problem is many Asian ladies know they can maintain the level of effort and so throw themselves at these ABCs and white guys even though the guys are married/attached. Temptation beckons then.
Try this method. Stop thinking of yourself in a relationship. Stop thinking of her in the relationship too. It should not be a 'Her Vs Him' scenario whenever there are issues to consider. The relationship is not about him or her. A relationship is about 'US'. Try thinking of solutions from the US (him and her) angle. Whenever you act from the 'US' angle, fewer quarrels already.
If too chim, just put a daily reminder at 1 pm in your calendar. When the daily reminder goes off, send her variations of such a whatsapp message (have you eaten? thinking of you) (what did you have for lunch?). The point is not what you type but you did think of her.
Ddog totally agree.
Also had white chicks in doggy time, because Ddog more active chasing pussycats. Most Asians passive, mouth no sweet, lacks charm, must admit that.
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1. Domination of Western cultural ideals through the media. Everything from how an ideal relationship should be like to how love is expressed, is now dictated by what we see from Hollywood. Local girls watch this and get brainwashed thinking that an ideal partner looks like XXX and behaves like YYY. And of course, given these are western culture, and Western men are like that, they suddenly become the epitome of all manhood. The perfect ones. Local girls often complain that "is not I SPG, just that I like XXX sort of guy and no local guy is like that". BS! U like XXX cause Hollywood says XXX is what it should be
(Quick side track: I know white a number of Ang mohs. Alot of them actually complain that Asian girls are too sticky and non-independent for them. They just date Asian girls for a quick fuck while they here)
2. Somewhat related to the first point is... Because of said proliferation of Western norms, we Asians subconsciously have this mentality that anything white is superior. Which then feeds into the cycle of anything white man say and do is the best (back to first point)
3. Simple case of $$$$. Ang mohs are here on packages. They earn package money. Simple as that. Ah, forgot, they also stay in package housing. If go over to Ang moh house to fuck no need to say hi to uncle and auntie and bring gifts over.
4. Novelty. An escape the know the lives and norms they are so familiar with. A point of differentiation from other local girls
Based on your logic, Asian guys should be raped every day in US or Europe!
Ha depends on the crowd. You'd be surprised that whilst the demand for Asian and Oriental guys is still pretty niche in western Europe those that do exist are some pretty kinky girls themselves. Can testify to that with personal experience!
01-04-2019, 10:47 AM
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