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Re: long term whore vs current potential wife.
i guess womens 6th sense are extremely strong...
broke up with girlfriend unofficially. most likely she knew about the whore... extremely stressed at the idea how my life with my girlfriend would have been so great..planned everything ticket to japan holiday, wedding money prepared $50k+, just needing to get rid of my past whore, but its too late she found out before i can get rid of the whore... this fucking whore ruined my life kinda by not wanting to let go.... i wonder how harsh do you have to be to send a break up massage to another person who is in denial of breaking up... well i've digged out the trouble myself...serves me right to letting go a bright future but life goes on...plenty of fish in the sea. for the moment..i'll stay single.. |
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Two cents bro. No offense meant.
The whore didn't break up or mess up your life if you are the one who can't let go. It's like quit smoking. No such thing as smoke less then slowly quit. Once decided, go cold turkey. It's that simple. All about will power. |
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Agree with wonderfix.
A whore-monger who cannot escape his livid world is best not to destroy the happiness of others.
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its only human to think that way. greedy is nature of man.
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bro, if i were you, i will pay her some money and break off from her
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TS...stop calling her a whore...Show some respect la |
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i am in my 30s. parents keep nagging me to start a family already.
i didn't break up with my potential wife...apparently i think too much the girl is just playing hard to get...and extremely.. the more she knows about me, the more she complains like a noisy wife. very judgemental of my financial capabilities and telling me i should be more independent financially and not be tied to family business so bad. complaining i am in my comfort zone and not working hard enough to progress. everytime date with her she will talk about other richer man comparing this and that. but in the end those richer man end up with divorce due to having mistresses outside. her life surroundings consist of wealthier people than her that is why she wants me to get rich else no cigar. her room is shared along with her 2 sisters so small. while my room is perhaps 4x4 huge and i stay alone. my salary, my car, my house are all better than hers. yet she still whines like a bitch that's never satisfied. the more i know her, the more it looks like she wants a rich man and not love....very irritated.. she's got a lot of positive points that i like about her. but her negative points are glaring...makes me wonder am i playing way too high above my league. this year i am in economic slump so bad until im actually struggling to keep up my expenses. and without any word this whore just borrowed me $4k to get by. and females are super detectives when they are jealous. i accidentally slipped out my potential wife name a little(just her nickname). she went full detective finding my friends facebook for anything relevant to the her name. and she found it. Because she knows about the potential wife she just backed off from me and went to malaysia to try and forget me...whoring over there perhaps...while saying trying to forget me still contact me everyday nonetheless...pointless sia... i can tell this whore truly loves me (or perhaps im overthinking) but she is still a whore while the potential wife is.... sometimes thinking of both choices...i think i rather stay single....fml. |
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Think that you should find someone else....Nothing wrong that she want someone with more financial capabilities....i mean everyone have different things they want in life.....she wanted more and you dun seem to fit the bill....
Though one thing i agree with her....u should be more financially independent especially when u r only in ur 30s....u should leave your family bizness and explore the world outside to gain some real working experience...You can always come back later on in ur 40s...it is never too late to learn.... Like u say economy is not doing well now, you should take this chance to explore other industry if u r in a sunset industry... Don't wait until the whole house collaspe before you start the search...And in family bizness u r usually paid a measely salary....the only thing nice is it is ur own bizness..lol And you should never lend ur girlfriend money.....probably not getting back.... End of the day, the only thing i agree is that you should leave ur family bizness unless ur family bizness is a huge conglomerate that takes years to take over..otherwise don't waste ur time....But then again if u r a huge conglomerate you won' be bothered about 4k...so time to go out to the real world.....
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well i do have business outside. but its barely making ends meet but hey im paying people salary rather than being an employee.
my family business is paying me an amount that is difficult to achieve working outside....which is why... bugger. in the end we men have to keep progressing to get better things in life... and leaving my family business my parent will cursed me for it. calling me unfillial and stuff. coz it happened once already just talking about leaving brings hell lot of problems. ps. i didnt lend money from girlfriend. i borrowed money from the prostitute...sounds bad... |
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the whore (your word, not mine) lent you money?
she's not that bad right? just that you need to get over the whoring that she has done. what a whorrible situation to be in. |
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I agree that you are too dependent of your family biz income and not really focus on your own biz so maybe that's y u cant breakthrough from the financial situation. I know biz take time to build but I think all these drama of your "whore" have distracted you too much. The "whore" you call really lend you the money, I don't think you should calling her a whore. How many friends you have that can lend you money when u in need? She do love you so she helped you. She can't get out of been a SB is also part of her problem and you cant get out of having the sex with her. Maybe you really need to cold turkey from her and the potential wife first and focus on yourself and your business. If it mean to be yours, the one return and maybe u need to get over the "whore" you term on her. |
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Honestly AADD, I'm sure you already know but perhaps you need outside affirmation, all I can judge from you have written is you certainly would not be happy long term with either lady. For guy 30s is indeed not early for marriage but certainly not late.
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I think you are not mature enough to settle down and get married. No doubt the 'whore' you keep referring to has some genuine feelings towards you, and has even lent you money no questions asked. Very few friends can do that. And yet you consistently name call her, instead of just using girl A or girl B as reference.
Her choice of lifestyle to earn an income is not something evil, it just goes against social norms. You choose to engage in all that you have with her, the least you can do is show some responsibility and not stoop so low as to name call. Utterly disappointing. |
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Re: long term whore vs current potential wife.
It's very difficult to give a right answer bro. Sometimes you need to trust your gut feelings.
I can share a short story of a close friend, he was married for many years. Wife refuse to bang n have children. Always complacent about life. Altitude very bad and always can't work for months and always jobless. Husband work of his ass to pay multiple debts, from home to car to dream wedding. Can see him very Jialat state. His parents always pressurised her to have babies. Alas, things didn't work out between there, she force him to sleep in the living room for months. One day, during working trip in Malaysia, he met a massage prc with special. The lady is like a typical milf, quite chao lao. He visit her a few times and finally got into serious relationship. And finally, she bore him a child in Malaysia there. Since there is no point to maintain the relationship in Singapore, he divorce her, sell the flat and ask her to FO. After months of paper work, finally the prc lady move in to singapore. Now she is a housewife taking care of child, my friend can finally piak piak. Now he looks happier and although still deep in debt. But it works out for him this way. Sorry for lengthy story. Hope it helps you. Cheers bro |
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