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With the high cost of living in sg, it brings about a lot of stress in a marriage which is unhealthy. Do you feel that this govt has caused divorces that are unintended? I certainly feel so.
So, you blaming the govt for your divorce?
I don't like the govt either but the marriage is our own making & breaking. Deal with the cost or move somewhere cheaper. A good wife will help you to save money & not spend it so if she does not understand this & insist on a lifestyle beyond your means then you married the wrong woman!
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Originally Posted by LeeHsienLoong
I have had 2 wives.
What do you think?
The keyword is "had"
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Originally Posted by Metzloff
I read somewhere that " if it flies, floats or fucks - it's always cheaper to rent than to buy"
I like this mate.
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got zapped by one balless creep for my comment here. aiyah zapper if u don't agree y don't u state your point of view openly so we know what u think? no balls to post reply?
Having a wife & having a lover r 2 diff things altogether. Many r confused thus they bundle them up together as the same thing & gets fucked! MANY
I hv written this many yrs ago, cant remember exactly word for word but here it is again.
Wife:
U marry a woman who has integrity
U marry a woman not because she's sexy, pretty or because she's the best fuck u ever had
U marry a woman because of her sense of responsibility
U marry a woman because she knows how to plan for her future & urs not just live a day at a time
U marry a woman who has no yearnings for a materialistic life
U marry a woman who wants to SETTLE DOWN not because of pressure but because she wants to move on to the next phase in her life
U marry woman who supports & listens to u unconditionally
Lover:
Best fuck of ur life
Always there to be wild n make u happy
Says tks when receiving presents instead of making a serious point of PLEASE DONT WASTE MONEY
Suggest where to go to be happy
Suggest u try new clothes, cars, ex restaurants, wallets, getaways etc
Princess mentally
Many still don't get this. Then they fail cos they hooked the wrong fish & then proclaim marriage is madness.
Seriously?
Do not complain when u go fishing & u cant get a fish. Hv u ever asked urself if u fished at the rite spot & used the rite baits?
PS: There's no such thing as marrying too early or too late due age. The only thing is r u matured & stable enuff mentally & financially to get married. Age has nothing to do wif it. I married my wife at 25(she was 24). She's very matured for her age. Her youngest sis, just hit 40 this yr, still single, U grad, but hugs dolls all around the house & bed like those babies wif their pillows. Wat do u tink!
__________________ The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life:
1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己
是你的,就是你的。
不是你的,不要抢!
人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
got zapped by one balless creep for my comment here. aiyah zapper if u don't agree y don't u state your point of view openly so we know what u think? no balls to post reply?
PS bro, unable to upz u. Upz b4 liao years ago
__________________ The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life:
1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己
是你的,就是你的。
不是你的,不要抢!
人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
no prob at all bro. how time flies i rem seeing that advice of yours few yrs ago in matters of the heart. still seeing many fellows in agony over love with their fav WL after many yrs. most guys just unrealisticly expect to have the best of both world.
no prob at all bro. how time flies i rem seeing that advice of yours few yrs ago in matters of the heart. still seeing many fellows in agony over love with their fav WL after many yrs. most guys just unrealisticly expect to have the best of both world.
Cycle of life. Old timers ORD new players enlist. Just like the one who say 1 in 10 has heart lol
__________________ The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life:
1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己
是你的,就是你的。
不是你的,不要抢!
人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
I will never understand why guys even get married nowadays especially when woman charter is totally against them...every guys that I know once they reach mid to late 40s regret getting married...To them it is like a responsibility in the end......So much freedom if you are single...
I agree a lot with this. Our legal rights are so few. It is similar to South Korea, except the opposite.
Although the government says that they are relooking the law. Time to remove the gender bias...
I interpret for you: don't force me to stop looking for u
meaning: do not force you to stop looking for me. muahahhah!!!! no one is stopping you... PUR-LEASE go ahead to stop looking for me!!!
blur_king! blur_king! blur_king!
wakakakakaa!!!
*walks away laughing in stitches! and rolling on the floor laughing out loud!
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Pisces are ULTIMATE sluts in bed, gian song till you feel like a damn PORN STAR!
Scorpios are willing to go to the extreme to please you
Aries IS the ULTIMATE SEX GOD!
Having a wife & having a lover r 2 diff things altogether. Many r confused thus they bundle them up together as the same thing & gets fucked! MANY
I hv written this many yrs ago, cant remember exactly word for word but here it is again.
3 thumbs up for this... truly agree n thats y we r married but still cheongsters
wives for life man!
eh how to upz? i cant find the tab!
OK UPZZz u already bro!
Last edited by phantom777; 29-07-2014 at 12:06 PM.
Reason: dunno how to up
PS: There's no such thing as marrying too early or too late due age. The only thing is r u matured & stable enuff mentally & financially to get married. Age has nothing to do wif it. I married my wife at 25(she was 24). She's very matured for her age. Her youngest sis, just hit 40 this yr, still single, U grad, but hugs dolls all around the house & bed like those babies wif their pillows. Wat do u tink!
well said bro ..
btw, your 40 yo SIL still available?
__________________ life is too short to be living somebody else's dream
Having a wife is equivalent of owning a car, totally not advisable, the reasons are as follow;
1) Paying extremely high COE (during courtship, things that you have bought for her, expensive dinners that you spent on her etc. When you propose to her, you will have to bear the wedding expenses, and not forgetting the dam expensive stupid wedding rings, wedding album etc, worst still if she's from a traditional family, you still have to fork out tons of money just to buy her over from her parents.)
2) High maintenance (after buying her over, you will have to spend a big portion of your pay check taking care of her and your kids as well as tons of bills that makes you feel suffocated etc. After paying so much, sometimes she allows you to drive her and sometime not, depending on her mood. WTF?)
3) Depreciation (Value of your wife gone down the hill when she slowly transforms from a sexy young lady to a freaking nagging old hag year by year.)
4) Compulsory renewal of COE (at least for a car you can get back some scrap value by scraping it after 10 years and buy a new one but as for your wife you can't scrap her, you are forced to keep her as long as she's alive and carry on paying for the high maintenance fees. Suppose you insist of scraping her, the court will still demand you to pay for her monthly maintenance fees.)
Morale of the story, there are so many fancy cars for rental at a very affordable price in the market without having to worry about COE and maintenance, why must you make yourself suffer by buying a car which you are force to keep it even if it turns rusty and also having to shoulder on the financial commitment for your entire life?
So far I always rent a car if I feels like driving and I also get to drive different cars with different engine performance. No way will I ever buy one and stick to it for the rest of my life.
There's always 2 sides to the coin. Those who are within it (marriage) would want to get out whilst those who are outside it, wants to jump in. This is reality.
I will never understand why guys even get married nowadays especially when woman charter is totally against them...every guys that I know once they reach mid to late 40s regret getting married...To them it is like a responsibility in the end......So much freedom if you are single...
Sometimes, i dunnoe the wc in the marriage r doing more harm than good or doing good more than harm. With so much bias, a family can be easily broken down. Wonder is the recent divorce rate up has anything to do with all those underage sex or bribery sex. Juz couldn‘t believe a woman who got married can straight declare handicap, cannot work n muz be given maintenance fee till she dies. I think i feel that it is the best n wise n profitable investment ever heard of.