How to learn to make girl come.

[nunon]

I and my GF never have a real fuck. We only have a oral, hand.... I think I already everything you can do without put it inside.
She do want to save it until we have a clear plan about married (which I not ready yet).
I accept that.
The issue is, I rarely make her come. She need to do herself.
I can make her feel good and get hot but when the time is coming to finish it I can't.
I want to be better at this.
I don't want to loss her because of sex.
Worry about this so much, last time we had sex I failed her a lot and made her upseted. Afraid to start it again.
Want to practice and learn to do it.
Prostitute their job is make us satisfy so they are fake. Also I afraid STD, had bad experience to be worried about got STD from sex worker.
Bro please tell your story how you master it.

[jinwolves]

Lick her v. Plus some fingering

[nunon]

Originally Posted by jinwolves

Lick her v. Plus some fingering

I do that but it not easy to make her reach climaxed.
How to lick how to use finger, it is not the same thing on the AV.

[Ilovebanana]

Originally Posted by nunon

I do that but it not easy to make her reach climaxed.
How to lick how to use finger, it is not the same thing on the AV.

Are there lessons we can take to up level???

[Sgchiongster]

Originally Posted by nunon

I do that but it not easy to make her reach climaxed.
How to lick how to use finger, it is not the same thing on the AV.

You need more practices.

Anyway, you need to work with your gf to explore her body and find out all her sensitive areas. And please don’t just confine to her pussy.

Start exploring from these few areas: behind her ear, down her neck, near her nipples, down from centre of her boobs to her belly button, from her stomach down to her inner thigh, her toes and ankle. Teasing should be done in all these areas using a combination of tongue and fingers.

Once you get her really shiok, then u start attacking her pussy but keep a combo with 1 hand massaging her boobs and kneading her nipples with 2 fingers. Throw in a little teasing by brushing your finger on her lip and inserting to let her suck.

While this supporting action is ongoing, your main actions should be her pussy. Most guys think that gals like fiingering. That’s where they are wrong. Girls don’t really like fingering at the start as the guy’s nail will easily scratch the pussy skin. Leave the fingering for the last.

Instead, rub her outside to tease her. Throw in a little actions like vibrating your fingers and poking a little bit here and there. Her body language will tell you if she gets aroused or not.

Depend on some girls, you might arouse her by rubbing her anus but don’t poke. Most girls don’t like it.

As you explore, talk to her. She will guide you when she starts to get aroused.

Go enjoy.

[Jax_]

Firstly forget about the goal to make her climax, female orgasms are very affected by their mental state and if you have a sexxion just to make her climax, the pressure of trying to reach this ‘goal’ will backfire and she will NOT reach orgasm.

Start by exploring her ENTIRE body, learn which areas she is more sensitive in. The vagina and breasts are NOT the only erogenous zones on a female body. Be curious about her body, experiment, have fun with her about this. Have her experiment on you too! Try touching, licking, stroking, kneading, massaging, tickling caressing her! Be gentle at first then as she gets into the mood can get rougher but always read her mood about it first! Try a whole month just doing this everyday. You’ll find some ladies can cum just from arousing their nipples, some requires specific positions. I had a lady who was not able to have an orgasm from licking her v but cum violently when we had intercourse and I lick her feet on a spur of a moment thing. Even she have no idea she would do that.

Make it about enjoying the pleasures of the body, not the orgasm itself. Sometimes she will have an orgasm, sometimes not but she will still enjoy the pleasures you bring to her. If you cross that it means forcing her get an orgasm is solely for your own selfish needs so no wonder she got upset.

Lastly sometimes if she’s not able to have orgasm with you does not mean the problem is with you. Her stress due to everyday life, moods, insecurities can all contribute to it. She may also be more comfortable with self masturbation(she knows her body better than you do) in which case, do the above to know her body better!

As a specific tip to your case I can recommend next time she masturbate herself ask her to use your fingers instead, that is, by placing your hand on her v and her hand on TOP of yours than she will move your fingers in the way she likes. Learn how she likes it than use it next time. Does she prefer g spot stimulation? Or clitoral? Does she stimulate the clit directly? Or to the side? Does she rub it circularly? Up down motion? 1 finger or 2? Or 3?

Hope you benefit from my simple 2 cents.

[youmee]

its all about communication. As simple as "like this can anot"? " Got feel anot"? Should i go slow or faster"?

[White Lotus]

Why not just simply ask her ?

[dyelook]

if she lets you finger her then why she dont let you fuck her?

[LoveCoolSex]

Just find out where is her sensitive areas, vibrator can help but need to place on correct area. Pm me if you need help

[jinwolves]

Originally Posted by nunon

I do that but it not easy to make her reach climaxed.
How to lick how to use finger, it is not the same thing on the AV.

I made a fl water flow out. Haven't reach tt level till squirt. Need to keep practice.

[wings32]

Here is a nice sex educational videos:
http://catch-women.com/2012/10/educa...ex-videos.html

from finding g Spot, best oral techniques, fingering, sex positions, etc, etc, one of best collections of videos about this topic (satisfying a girl)

[staminadick]

Originally Posted by nunon

I and my GF never have a real fuck. We only have a oral, hand.... I think I already everything you can do without put it inside.
She do want to save it until we have a clear plan about married (which I not ready yet).
I accept that.
The issue is, I rarely make her come. She need to do herself.
I can make her feel good and get hot but when the time is coming to finish it I can't.
I want to be better at this.
I don't want to loss her because of sex.
Worry about this so much, last time we had sex I failed her a lot and made her upseted. Afraid to start it again.
Want to practice and learn to do it.
Prostitute their job is make us satisfy so they are fake. Also I afraid STD, had bad experience to be worried about got STD from sex worker.
Bro please tell your story how you master it.

step 1: spell your "cum" correctly

step 2: every time chat with her use "cum" instead of "come"
i.e. when are you cumming home tonite darling

step 3: fuck it whether she cum or not. let her relac and enjoy! try different pattern and see how she and her body react.

warning !! dun let her eat fish b4 sex. research have shown eating fish 3 hours b4 sex will make a girl turn into deadfish

lastly, Cum On bro U can one! if this one really deadfish then your next gf will be better!

as always HUAT AHHHH!

[Voorhees]

If you cannot make a girl come it’s a matter of time she will find someone that does.

Every girl is different so have to explore. But if you got experience easier,

Some I know can only come through licking her, some must come with the finger.

When she gets adventurous, like teasing her ass and the combo treatment her orgasm even more intense.

I ever lick a pussy, finger her pussy and ass together, her orgasm was very intense. But for another gal when I touch her ass she freak out and warn me to leave her ass alone.... then you have those that ask for 3 fingers instead of the usual 2 in her pussy.... some must fondle the nipples ...some like to grind your face....

Pleasuring a gal is more or less customise ...

[ILOVEMOLES]

Originally Posted by Ilovebanana

Are there lessons we can take to up level???

I like your nick . So what type of banana you like ?