My wife said I cannot touch her...

[kt88_2]

Originally Posted by rainforestkk

I have maid
I play with kids very frequently
I lose 10kg weight to very standard normal BMI range. I am
I don't have stomach / belly at all. My colleague said I looks in my late 30s
I don't like eating meat. Eat it once a week only. Most of the time vegetarian
I exercise at least 2 times a week
Yeah I admit I don't cook. But I give her back, neck and head massage almost everyday. Just massage only cannot touch sensitive area. Will get scolded... Sigh

Very obvious, she got a bf outside,

[ChristJohnny]

I am really confused … cannot touch but can f... ???

[abcitbats]

does she love drinking and clubs?

Originally Posted by rainforestkk

Pretty. Mother. Work oriented. Very like shopping with millions of dresses

[abcitbats]

Low sex drive is common to many working mothers

Originally Posted by sexcision

True, my Wife like that also. Super Low sex drive. But I can be sure that she is not cheating (i know ppl will sway towards that direction).
But having to say that she had Low sex drive. She never reject my caressing, hugs or touch.

Maybe TS need to say how’s the tone of rejection from her? Is it the soft soft tone, or hash tone of DUN TOUCH ME! Kind. It means a lot of difference.

[larue]

To have low sex drive is one thing, to be disgusted or angry enough to scold the husband for touching her?

That’s something else altogether.

[maleescort7]

The reason is:
You have small dick.
You have premature ejaculation.
She loves money.
She has Boyfriend who is better fucker than you are.

Low sex drive is something else. Scolding is something else. If she scolds you, she wants to prove that here i am the boss and you are a slave. Now the question is "why she says you are slave"? The answer lies in the above mentioned reasons.

And yes one more thing "this thread does not look real, TS just wants to gather others point of views".

[I Love Boobs]

Go to Thailand.
Fuck an 18 year old university girl who can cook for you after fucking.
And ties your shoelaces for you.
Then you will see the true value of our local SG girls with their Ivy League education!

[tryying]

Since TS got the $ power, can hire a PI to check on wife. If she got someone else, time to get rid of her and then find another one which will make you happy till old. No need to be control by her, since you are suffering, not enjoying. Think for long term, wait one day she come back crying and says lover dump her etc, too late liao!

[otamay]

Originally Posted by tryying

Since TS got the $ power, can hire a PI to check on wife. If she got someone else, time to get rid of her and then find another one which will make you happy till old. No need to be control by her, since you are suffering, not enjoying. Think for long term, wait one day she come back crying and says lover dump her etc, too late liao!

Very good idea here, TS must plan for his future or else end up alone with nothing.

[HeLovesMe]

Originally Posted by rainforestkk

I don't know. I felt like stupid. Every month give her money.. car give her to drive. I take public transport. I got scolded by her now and then...

TS, Looks like you are a good hubby to your Wife. Yet she takes you for granted.
Self entitled people will take things for granted.

[ibanezjem555]

Hire a PI. But you may not like what you see Bro TS. However, you can't keep living in self-doubt.

Update us.

[whatever123]

Have you tried giving her one of those increase libido drink or something? I think she is just low sex drive.

Or did u cheated and she caught you? So she thinks u are “dirty”

[andy888]

Really hope some lady can provide a good insight on why this happen. Like why cannot touch and all.
Bro, u are Not alone

[Penguin23]

I'm about your age, TS. My wife has similar attitude to yours. For years I felt guilty, maybe I am not good enough a provider that's why she refuses sex especially after the second kid is born.

But I've woken up to the fact that as the main breadwinner of the family, I must take food care of myself. No sex can drive me mad. So I go outside

And I've never looked back. Just be careful not to bring anything home. The rest, I see it as women treating sex mainly for procreation and once they hit pre menopause (my wife hit hers when she is just 40) there is no more desire for sex, no more eggs to fertilize and obviously no more desire to service my sexual needs.

Unfortunate,but the point is that the problem may not lie with you and the solution may lie outside of the two of you.

All the best
.

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by TomMAffolter

I take it you are neither educated in this area nor are you even in the health industry as a true professional would never dare to make such a unsubstantiated and uneducated statement.

There are many studies that show women approaching 40 have the highest libido, just because you wife has now interest in having sex with you and she is 40 doesnt mean "no more eggs to fertilse" and thus no libido. You are making the the error of mistaking causation with correlation.
http://content.time.com/time/magazin...007422,00.html

In future please keep in mind the quote “It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt”

― Mark Twain

I was just making a reference to my own case and not to women in general, hoping that sharing my case may be provided some reference for TS. On a sample size of one many things do not obey the law of averages.

Yes I am neither educated in this area (female sexuality) and I am not a health industry professional. I do understand statistics, however and I am a professional in that area. So, outliers exist, and when talking about a single case (TS or mine), it is useful to refer to studies showing the results for the median or the mathematical average, but we do not always marry the median woman and she is likely to be pure statistical construct.

So, chill bro.