Feeling desperate and suicidal. Need advice and help.

[camoman]

Originally Posted by JOGK

How old are you? Married? Family?
Did you go to social welfare?
If you are geniune broke and no one to turn to
They will help you like
Free medical care...monthly espenses
Pub bills and conservancy fees...
My friend just approved and got 6 months
If you are a gambler ..hard luck
Because you not allow to enter casino
And join singapore pools as member

The casino thing doesn't bother me at all since I don't even gamble.

[camoman]

Originally Posted by screwu

Bro Camoman
I have done what I promised. Now and then you
will have brothers from this forum to help you in
kind. You need to emotionally pull yourself up.
Nobody else can but YOU.

Thanks so much bro.

[camoman]

Originally Posted by kanachu38

There is many way to do things in life. Somestimes society always paints that this is the only path to take. Example apply a job good office job straight school and etc. But all this may not work for everyone circumstances. My advice is just take small steps and move on with life. You will find one path that will bring you out. I leave a quote in from the net. Bamboo seed take 2 years start growing shoots. Because it is developing its large network of roots in the ground.

I also hope to make something for myself in future. I just don't feel its right to punish someone for a couple of mistakes when younger.

If ex convicts can have a second chance why not people like me? I've never hurt anyone or been to jail before.

But oh well that's Singapore.

[camoman]

Originally Posted by ourworld

Hey TS!
I feel you!
Yeas ago when my hubby’s father fell and went into bedridden state,
He is the one person working making ends meet
To support his paralyses father, his mother whom is a housewife and need to stay home to take care of his father
And his sister who was still schooling,,
He need to work dbl hard to make ends meet,,
But he didn’t give up,,
Everything will eventually get over,,
Just need to bite the bullet

If you still have any assets,,
Maybe you might wanna pawn them or sell them in exchange for some cash,,
With the money,,
Fund for your daily expenses
Get a part time job first,,
I’m sure as a sporean
If you aren’t choosy,,
There is always jobs available,,

I don’t believe you go shops by shops asking if there is any job offers you won’t get one,,
Depends if you wanna do it or not!
Try those coffee shop
Stall assistant or whatever,,
My hubby use to work in the bank,,
In order to make ends meet,,
During weekend, he went to help a coffee stall as an assistant

Instead of coming here asking what you should do,
Find your own survival,,
People on the internet lack of compassion,,
They will shoot you and run you down
Becoz over in the internet,
Nobody identity is real therefore they speak irresponsibility
They don’t take accountability for their words here,,,

加油！

Your hubby is a strong man. I wish I can be strong like him.

I'm pretty sure I can pick myself up as long as I can take the first step out.

Originally Posted by I Love Boobs

Work part-time in McD or any food place.
Even food court clearing plates.
That would give you some cash.
I was broke a few years back and my ex-Wife cheated on me, swindled my money and saddled me with her debts....

Wow that sucks. Want to share how to came out of it? I'm sure it can inspire a lot of people.

[camoman]

To those bros who told me to go to msf or other gov agencies, let me explain.

Because those agencies look upon your personal issues collectively as a whole this means I have to involve my whole family.

Now I'm not on really good terms with my family members. So if involve them sure fight and quarrel and everybody blame here blame there and talk about history. Given a choice I don't even want to stay with them. See their faces make me even more fed up.

[ulysses84]

First, recognize what is the problems that puts you in current state.

Next, there is no instant magic to resolve all the problems, start by crafting a list of actions items to improve your current state. E.g spend 3 hours shortlisting potential jobs, spend 2 hours to call various job agencies, spend 2 hours to learn and upgrade own skillsets relevant to your nature of job search.

Last, don't keep procrastinating, e.g I do not know , I don't have $, I do not have qualification. Take MASSIVE actions right now!

[lonesome1]

U give me your bank account. I transfer money to u

[JOGK]

Originally Posted by camoman

To those bros who told me to go to msf or other gov agencies, let me explain.

Because those agencies look upon your personal issues collectively as a whole this means I have to involve my whole family.

Now I'm not on really good terms with my family members. So if involve them sure fight and quarrel and everybody blame here blame there and talk about history. Given a choice I don't even want to stay with them. See their faces make me even more fed up.

You staying alone?
My friend just divorce
He is staying alone at present
But have to give up his hdb flat soon
His daughter already married
Since he is staying alone
The officers only look on him

[thedevil666]

Originally Posted by camoman

Your hubby is a strong man. I wish I can be strong like him.

I'm pretty sure I can pick myself up as long as I can take the first step out.



Wow that sucks. Want to share how to came out of it? I'm sure it can inspire a lot of people.

Stop wasting your time and get out the first step alr. U can walk, can talk, 有手有脚, don’t want to find work and keep procrastinating here. The time u spent replying to us is enough for u to earn $10 if u start collecting cardboard boxes and used alumininum can.

I gonna be straight, and I hope this can wake u up. The world will continue to spin with or without u. Tbh, your plight isn’t as bad as the really desperate ones. If u really commit suicide, nobody here will sympathsize and mourn for u.

Bloody hell wake up!

[FreebiezWanker]

Is damn obvious TS looking of nothing short of cash handouts on his terms... so just give him a freaking pan, he can go pan handle....

[hhlover]

A desperate person tat no money.. no job.. no idea.. WILL NEVER STILL GOT TIME TO COME post on a sex forum asking for advice.. PLUS REPLIES ALL BRO QUESTION N ANS..
Is so obvious TS is a fucking joker with nothing better to do..
Dun need go see ur MP.. straight away go rob him.. government will happily look after ur 3 meals for the next 3 to 5yrs.. come out still got some pocket money for u to travel look for job n tahan for one month..
This shld be the best idea for u joker..

[supershaft]

Originally Posted by camoman

I have no one else to turn to and no way out. Just hope to claw myself out of a bad situation.

First of all I have no job now. So why not find one? Find job also need money to travel and tahan for a month. I don't have those. So I'm lost as to how to start. In fact right now I'm surviving on 1 meal a day. Mostly instant noodles and an egg.

I don't even have the money to replace my broken spectacles. Have to use scotch tape to tape the side together and it keeps wobbling up and down.

To make things worse I have thyroid problems that causes slightly blurry vision and sweating. I cant continue with my treatment anymore because I'm broke.

All these things put together is driving me to the point of no return. In fact my back is so far up against the wall I just feel like ending everything. I think really no way out anymore. Even someone successful like Kate spade can kill herself what about lesser mortals like me?

Its the only thing I think about nowadays. Any advice or help would be appreciated

find a job

[camoman]

Originally Posted by JOGK

You staying alone?
My friend just divorce
He is staying alone at present
But have to give up his hdb flat soon
His daughter already married
Since he is staying alone
The officers only look on him

I not staying alone so that's why.

[camoman]

Originally Posted by supershaft

find a job

Already on it. Thanks.

[jerko121075]

First of all, dun be choosy and learn to take hardship. Service industry needs lots of people, these are jobs that local shiam then kpkb gov give to FT.