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hi Bro Freman,
Your confession is a good one... and I'll like to say my few cents worth, hope you will accept what I say... if not... well, dun read on heehee Not many people can get a 2nd chance (I do NOT mean bonking the girl again!! read on..) at righting their mistakes etc (if you wanna call it that..) or I should say 'regrets'. And even lesser people have a chance of getting off easy. You are right when you are wondering why she didnt blame you for it that you got off light. But I realised girls have a strange view to life than guys, guys take things more seriously and sometimes more heavily than girls and girls usually recover better than guys... still that doesnt mean you can go round two with them which would probably yeah definitely hell in the afterlife. I feel that most of us cheong because we need to fulfill that lust that our other half can't provide but making things complicated is something none of us should do unless we feel we can shoulder and live with it... lust and nothing more because men have needs, but if we start playing with feelings or abusing our understanding of other's feelings, thats crossing the line to being bad or evil. Most of us will try not to do that I would believe and I think by writing this confession here you may be, in a very small sense confused about what to do next (unless you done it liao). Its very simple I think, correct me if I am wrong... you have been given a 2nd chance to make things right and apparently you believe that God may be testing you yet AGAIN! You are thinking there is a chance that she is willing to go to bed with you again perhaps you think she wants closure too or something. The question here is: (a) do you wanna keep things as being good friends and help her along the right path, show her ethe right way etc? or (b) do what you do best, get her to bed for short medium term satisfaction? I would believe in your heart, you really do know the answer to that question... I won't name it to you but I would just advise you that short and medium term gains are usually not very good for the long term There really are cause and effect in this world and sometimes playing with feelings could just tip the balance too much and cause pain and suffering to one self or to others (e.g. adeline, your wife, whoever, the guy putting newspapers at your doorstep in the morning etc)... So think twice before you let your natural instincts, that side of your brain that knows what you do best with girls takes over. Remember that sometimes being good have their own rewards and satisfaction... it may not be material or can be seen wit hte naked eyes but its there all the same... and maybe... maybe you wont need to listen tothose sad mp3s anymore.... Cheers!! If you dun like what I said, just treat it as a joke... just trying to help. Take care!
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i'm actually v curious and have some qns for u (if u dun feel comfortable answering, its ok. cos like i mentioned, i'm jus curious) hmm .. has it ever occured to u y after so many years, u still regret/ feel remorseful/miserable over wat u did to her? was it cos she's ur 1st encounter or was it she's the only one u've "made use of" or .... ?? |
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A very interesting confession.
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maybe she just needs a friend.... just take it 1 step at a time and don't do anything silly. all the best!
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Revenge is a dish best served cold. You would not know what she is intending to do. Better to be safe than sorry if you wish to keep your current life in a stable state. Bro freman, IMHO, i think you better dont proceed any further with this adeline other than being as a simple fren.
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ya agree with bro dirtymonk... better be safe than sorry.
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I think my behavior at that time was really bastard. My regret is to let my lust take over what I should have done as a good person. I think I objectised her, without basic respect. etc, when she's having period, I would find excuses not to meet her etc. *bastard reasons again*.... I once talked to another brother, he was telling me abt PRC FL, "no need to be gentle one, just enjoy, shiok, even pattern they dun want, just whack, PRC onli what, whole street full of them, 1 drop, 2 will take their place, they here to sell body mah !". Needless to say, you can imagine how I felt. Feel damn hot, then her name pops in my mind again. I was once this sort of people. People cannot treat people. yes, I hoped I can just be a friend to her from this point onwards. But this is now, calmly sitting in my room. On my part, I think I wouldn't initiate anything. How many brothers can resist ? if given the chance. maybe just thinking too much. |
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Hi bro,
I support you and your control... good job! Remember the two beacon of lights running in your house if you are lost. |
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continuation of story?
and then you turn back meet her and bonk her raw? after bonking session she told you that congrats you are also HIV positive? cos she passed it on to you? haha just a joke .. |
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Bro,
So we are not going to have bonking story fron adeline is it??? Hope that your big head can control over the small head |
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Friend...the fact that we are here means that we ARE all bastards in one way or another. Just that some are not aware and therefore write so moralistically.
Didn't it occur to you that Adeline, though 16, was also on the net trawling for a 'partner in crime'? Wasn't she also unfaithful to the bf who knocked her up and left her dangling with a problem which in a way you helped her solve with the $300. Didn't it occur to you that... if it wasn't you it could have been some other bastard (and perhaps there were others who only used her as a ons) who did not help her with even 1 cent? She was probably a problem teenager BUT fortunately for her she has matured and has set her life on the right track. An angel she may not be (wasn't she on the net trawling again in spite of having a steady relationship, a fiance?). She probably did not tell you the whole truth about her life and relationships. Perhaps she is highly sexed and her fiance is unable to satisfy her...therefore she is still looking for no strings attached ons! Now it boils down to your own maturity...if you want to be a good husband and father...don't even think of paid sex or free ons with adeline or anyone like her. Whether paid sex with a fl, a geylang pros or a willing ons... you are still cheating on your wife. Period! But if you are an 'honest' bastard like most of us here...who cannot resist another pussy, then I think Adeline will turn out to be the perfect sex buddy. You satisfy her needs and she satisfy yours...no strings attached and no past baggage to lug along. Just 2 mature adults who know how to be descreet and keep the affair under wraps so as not to hurt the other parties. My 2 cts...and take care.
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I prefer paid sex though, no string attached and no trace...just touch and go |
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Women can be very dangerous. Who knows if she is getting back at you, slowly ... so better not to step beyond the line. Just my 2 cents worth.
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After reading the pages, I think Bro Freman should just take it as it come ... go with the flow, don lose sleep over this , if meet again, see wat happen, no necessary bonk again rite ... regarding the past, forget it lah, take both hands to clap ... at least u got give her some $. Chit chat on msn, meet up, bonk, .... no strings attached lah ..
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Brother Freman,
It is good to confess your misdeeds in the past which clearly evidenced that over the past 8 years, you have indeed matured ever since those days. I fully understand the plight u are in, but hope you can treat it as a learning experience in life and move on from this point. Future is behold in your hands - any imprudent decision could cause severe repercussion to your family and career. |
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