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Re: Anxiety while waiting out 1 mth period

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The best way to cope in my opinion is to visit more hookers to take your mind off matters
This sounds like a very good idea
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Re: Anxiety while waiting out 1 mth period

why? would it not extend the window period? TS will probably go mental by then...


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Re: Anxiety while waiting out 1 mth period

Have shut myself in the room for 5 days. Upon reflection it's somewhat my fault too.. never pcc 8 mths cannot tahan. Now just hope the tests will work out fine. Hais.
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Re: Anxiety while waiting out 1 mth period

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why? would it not extend the window period? TS will probably go mental by then...
It extends the window period but it changes the mindset.

Those who fuck hookers on a regular basis aren't consumed with worry.

They are fully aware that commercial sex poses a risk but they treat it as part and parcel of life's uncertainties.... no different from the risk of crossing the road or a plane trip.

They go for check ups as a matter of routine to mitigate the risks posed by undiagnosed STDs and treat hookers as a source of pleasure and not the cause of anxiety.
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Re: Anxiety while waiting out 1 mth period

yes yours is a very good suggestion... i am the perfect example...
but i am afraid it will usually happen only after a period of time and after many scary encounters..

depending on how paranoia the person is.. it will work for most, not all..esp not for a newbie who locked himself in the room for 5 days after a exposure..

at this stage, he is probably better off staying away from another visit to the whore..



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It extends the window period but it changes the mindset.

Those who fuck hookers on a regular basis aren't consumed with worry.

They are fully aware that commercial sex poses a risk but they treat it as part and parcel of life's uncertainties.... no different from the risks of crossing the road or a plane trip.

They go for check ups as a matter of routine to mitigate the risks posed by undiagnosed STDs and treat hookers as a source of pleasure and not the cause of anxiety.
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Re: Anxiety while waiting out 1 mth period

Some ppl say HIV doesn't cause AIDS. An interesting viewpoint to consider. Of course not implying it's necessary true -- which will promote dangerous behavior.

Inventing the Aids virus, Peter Duesberg:https://www.researchgate.net/profile...AIDS-Virus.pdf

Dr talks abt aids and inejects himself with HIV + blood:



But STDs are a real threat though -- HPV & Herpes.
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Some ppl say HIV doesn't cause AIDS. An interesting viewpoint to consider. Of course not implying it's necessary true -- which will promote dangerous behavior.
That's a load of bullshit.
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Re: Anxiety while waiting out 1 mth period

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Transmission of HIV and herpes with condoms intact is almost impossible.

If this helps to make reduce your anxiety, but yes, get tested to be 100% sure.
even with the condom intact the chances are reduced from anywhere between 80%-97%. There is still a 3%-17% chance that you can contract the virus even through the proper use of condom . The 3%-17% is determined by many factors like how strong one's immune system is, whether the positive individual is on medication (PEP) and whether he or she has reached AIDS.

Of course, this is all under the assumption that the hooker is HIV-positive. It is not almost impossible but I would say that it should not be enough of a reason to be overly anxious about like how TS is.
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Re: Anxiety while waiting out 1 mth period

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Have shut myself in the room for 5 days. Upon reflection it's somewhat my fault too.. never pcc 8 mths cannot tahan. Now just hope the tests will work out fine. Hais.
Go to Dr Tan for 2 weeks 4th Gen Combo. Although not conclusive, but at least a good indicator at 14 days, if negative means good chance not infected. If you go AFA, they did mentioned at 14 days, 4th Gen Combo can pick up P24.
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Re: Anxiety while waiting out 1 mth period

I've been in my room for 13 days liao. Fast becoming hikkomori.

Will never ever visit prostitutes again. No more.

At the end of the day, hope no STDs.
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I've been in my room for 13 days liao. Fast becoming hikkomori.

Will never ever visit prostitutes again. No more.

At the end of the day, hope no STDs.
I guarantee that you'll soon be fucking prostitutes regularly once this crisis is over.

All cheongsters start of with a bit of paranoia. It's just a matter of degree.
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I guarantee that you'll soon be fucking prostitutes regularly once this crisis is over.

All cheongsters start of with a bit of paranoia. It's just a matter of degree.
Totally agreed
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Re: Anxiety while waiting out 1 mth period

You still can go find lol maybe get a hj

As Long as you dun get hiv nothing much to worry the rest of the std 90% is still curable so the most is Tio go see doc get a jab and Med rest for a while and you can go back fucking whores

In the mean time if you too anxiety can always go get a hj or boob job haha no need fuck what... still can release your stress from waiting the one month period
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Re: Anxiety while waiting out 1 mth period

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It extends the window period but it changes the mindset.

Those who fuck hookers on a regular basis aren't consumed with worry.

They are fully aware that commercial sex poses a risk but they treat it as part and parcel of life's uncertainties.... no different from the risk of crossing the road or a plane trip.

They go for check ups as a matter of routine to mitigate the risks posed by undiagnosed STDs and treat hookers as a source of pleasure and not the cause of anxiety.
I think the chance of getting into accidents on the road is higher than getting HIV. Am I right?
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Re: Anxiety while waiting out 1 mth period

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Hi all,

Had sex with gf.

Blood was raging so didn't care much about risks prior to the act. Wah immense regret afterwards.

Insomnia for many days - spent countless hours reading threads here.

Learnt that condoms do not protect much against things like Herpes & HPV. Would not have went if I had known this earlier. FML.

Going for 4th gen test HIV after 1 mth and a comprehensive STD test as well.

Tried being stoical -- regarding everything as already preordained & necessary..

..but concepts cannot outweigh immediate feeling. How do you cope with the anxiety and stress during the long wait? Please advise.
Sex with gf not so bad la. You didn't raw with a working lady. Usually risk not super high unless your gf is like public asset.
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