I currently like this girl a lot and we have been going out together a lot. We are not "officially" a couple yet but we definitely have feelings for each other. Recently, we are more comfortable with each other and she started to ask me about my past relationships(including sexual activities). The thing is I've never had a gf but have had sex with prostitutes before when I was a raging hormonal teenager and stopped ever since I wanted to quit this habit. So, I told her I never had a gf but deep down inside I know its not the full story.
So I would to ask for advice from both bros and sisters on this issue? I really really like her and see a future with her but I dont know if she will take this issue well if I told her the truth. Like some girls just see guys who go to prostitues as the "scums of the earth". On my part, I am also clean and free from any STI/STDs after my checks so even if I lie to her, she wouldnt know. But then again, the trust is not there. Im really really confused on how to go about this issue
I currently like this girl a lot and we have been going out together a lot. We are not "officially" a couple yet but we definitely have feelings for each other. Recently, we are more comfortable with each other and she started to ask me about my past relationships(including sexual activities). The thing is I've never had a gf but have had sex with prostitutes before when I was a raging hormonal teenager and stopped ever since I wanted to quit this habit. So, I told her I never had a gf but deep down inside I know its not the full story.
So I would to ask for advice from both bros and sisters on this issue? I really really like her and see a future with her but I dont know if she will take this issue well if I told her the truth. Like some girls just see guys who go to prostitues as the "scums of the earth". On my part, I am also clean and free from any STI/STDs after my checks so even if I lie to her, she wouldnt know. But then again, the trust is not there. Im really really confused on how to go about this issue
if i can, i will reach over and slap you until you wake up !!!.. never never NEVER admit you had sex with prostitutes ...
I currently like this girl a lot and we have been going out together a lot. We are not "officially" a couple yet but we definitely have feelings for each other. Recently, we are more comfortable with each other and she started to ask me about my past relationships(including sexual activities). The thing is I've never had a gf but have had sex with prostitutes before when I was a raging hormonal teenager and stopped ever since I wanted to quit this habit. So, I told her I never had a gf but deep down inside I know its not the full story.
So I would to ask for advice from both bros and sisters on this issue? I really really like her and see a future with her but I dont know if she will take this issue well if I told her the truth. Like some girls just see guys who go to prostitues as the "scums of the earth". On my part, I am also clean and free from any STI/STDs after my checks so even if I lie to her, she wouldnt know. But then again, the trust is not there. Im really really confused on how to go about this issue
Since she never ask, why must u say? Even if she ask, die die also don't say....understand?
if i can, i will reach over and slap you until you wake up !!!.. never never NEVER admit you had sex with prostitutes ...
LOL!!!!! I like how you say it!
Yeah, I will do the same to TS.
Never ever ever ever admit...
Never ever discuss the sex of previous gf... or girlfriendsss..... avoid this topic at all cost.
my hubs was very open with his past experience cos i insisted on being honest. I kept saying no matter what I will accept his past. Wont judge.
But the truth is, whenever I come across a girl with the same name as his Favourite wl, i die a little inside. So no matter what a lady says, some secrets are meant to be known by only you.
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Strictly 10 points and above please
when a woman tells you, "it doesn't matter.", that will matter alot. when she says, "it's not important.", then it is important.
当女人说没事就是有事, 不要紧就是要紧。
but so glad you voice out here even it sounds stupid.... most samsters here probably have walked a difficult and painful path, which we called life experiences.
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when a woman tells you, "it doesn't matter.", that will matter alot. when she says, "it's not important.", then it is important.
当女人说没事就是有事, 不要紧就是要紧。
but so glad you voice out here even it sounds stupid.... most samsters here probably have walked a difficult and painful path, which we called life experiences.
Thanks everyone for all the advice. Just fyi, I didnt tell her about my romps and I didnt tell her Im a virgin. I think she just assumed no gf= no sex. Anyways, I guess I have to be practical about this and like what bro tatata21 said, my actions speak louder than words.
I currently like this girl a lot and we have been going out together a lot. We are not "officially" a couple yet but we definitely have feelings for each other. Recently, we are more comfortable with each other and she started to ask me about my past relationships(including sexual activities). The thing is I've never had a gf but have had sex with prostitutes before when I was a raging hormonal teenager and stopped ever since I wanted to quit this habit. So, I told her I never had a gf but deep down inside I know its not the full story.
So I would to ask for advice from both bros and sisters on this issue? I really really like her and see a future with her but I dont know if she will take this issue well if I told her the truth. Like some girls just see guys who go to prostitues as the "scums of the earth". On my part, I am also clean and free from any STI/STDs after my checks so even if I lie to her, she wouldnt know. But then again, the trust is not there. Im really really confused on how to go about this issue
Play victim lah. Tell her u were rape. Confirm she
feel more for u and love u deep deep. Remember to say
U tramatise now. Need super tender loveing sex to get out of the fear and dirt feeling. Confirm works wonder!
Seriously, what you dont know can't hurt you. Remember that boy.
I currently like this girl a lot and we have been going out together a lot. We are not "officially" a couple yet but we definitely have feelings for each other. Recently, we are more comfortable with each other and she started to ask me about my past relationships(including sexual activities). The thing is I've never had a gf but have had sex with prostitutes before when I was a raging hormonal teenager and stopped ever since I wanted to quit this habit. So, I told her I never had a gf but deep down inside I know its not the full story.
So I would to ask for advice from both bros and sisters on this issue? I really really like her and see a future with her but I dont know if she will take this issue well if I told her the truth. Like some girls just see guys who go to prostitues as the "scums of the earth". On my part, I am also clean and free from any STI/STDs after my checks so even if I lie to her, she wouldnt know. But then again, the trust is not there. Im really really confused on how to go about this issue
Reading your post brought back a lot of memories. Memories of eagerly waiting for the last week of the month so that I can head to the neighborhood bookshop to browse the latest edition of Teens and Teenage magazine. Always loved the sections where teenagers write in about their relationship problems.
23-06-2017, 09:57 AM
