Anyone experienced becoming friends in real life with an escort?

[assster]

No free fuck. you either pay cash as u did with escort, or you pay by going on dates etc. The dinner plus gifts etc usually end up more than you just paying for the pussy upfront

[Fazzyrim]

Originally Posted by akapat

If you want a ltr with a FL in the hope for free sex, then i said you are quite screwed up in your head. Imagaine your own specialise trade, someone try to hook you up and then ask you to do services for them for free, how would you feel?

Knowingly she is a FL, just take things slowly. Most important always lies with the men, can you accpet her continuing in her "job" while dating you?

Dating a normal woman, of cos you wun ask her to quit her job. But dating a FL and wanting her to quit her job, then you must be prepared to supplement her income, which in return , would make a dent in your own pocket and makes you feel unblance. Long term, you would think, she is with you because of the money, but to be honest, that may or may not be the truth, cos firstly, you want her quit, so she quit, she no income, she still need pay for family and expenses, secondly, it could be your mind playing you, cos of the money you fork out.

And when quarrel, most jerks would delay giving the FL money, and in return, they have problems with banks and family, and this will in fact force them back to the FL trade.

So seriously, base on your posting, i think you are not ready to have a relationship with an FL. So just pay when you bonk, thats the best.

Best option and agree with this bro here. If the situation there is different than back home, this piece of advise is well said. Also, how does the society there view FLs? Is it considered a respectable profession/career there? After all, you mentioned it's a deal breaker here, so situation may be different there.

[eche124]

I have the experience of befriending a local FL sometime ago. I saw her quite many times a month to a point that she told me I should not spend my money like that on her.

So one night after we were done, we randomly exchanged numbers and soon we would meet up for supper. I actually ended up at her place a couple of times just to hang out and have beer. I mean most of the times they are forced into doing what they do. They're eventually like us humans so I see nothing wrong.

[Arturqq]

I really tried it and was very pleased with this escort girl in singapore. You should also try it!

[cheekyfeet]

Originally Posted by Arturqq

I really tried it and was very pleased with this escort girl in singapore. You should also try it!

You must be very rich .

[xchange]

Originally Posted by eche124

..........They're eventually like us humans so I see nothing wrong.

This is probably one of the most popular topics with many threads already and I'm sure new ones will crop up on it.

There is absolutely nothing wrong in being friends with another human BUT I will avoid being too friendly with a local one due to the smallness of this place and the complications that may arise.

I think being friends with a foreign one is "safer" but when its comes to business I will still pay full rate-but you will get friendlier and better service. You also need not pay for the time she spent outside with you as say compared to an " escort service"

[worldtreeboy]

Originally Posted by akapat

If you want a ltr with a FL in the hope for free sex, then i said you are quite screwed up in your head. Imagaine your own specialise trade, someone try to hook you up and then ask you to do services for them for free, how would you feel?

Knowingly she is a FL, just take things slowly. Most important always lies with the men, can you accpet her continuing in her "job" while dating you?

Dating a normal woman, of cos you wun ask her to quit her job. But dating a FL and wanting her to quit her job, then you must be prepared to supplement her income, which in return , would make a dent in your own pocket and makes you feel unblance. Long term, you would think, she is with you because of the money, but to be honest, that may or may not be the truth, cos firstly, you want her quit, so she quit, she no income, she still need pay for family and expenses, secondly, it could be your mind playing you, cos of the money you fork out.

And when quarrel, most jerks would delay giving the FL money, and in return, they have problems with banks and family, and this will in fact force them back to the FL trade.

So seriously, base on your posting, i think you are not ready to have a relationship with an FL. So just pay when you bonk, thats the best.

Words of wisdom

[Anbunp]

There’s nothing kinky about knowing a FL. It is a cash transaction.
I had a gf which we were together for a few years. She seemed pure and innocent. But I found out later (through a friend who had a friend who booked her online) that she was a FL and that she was bao by someone. Imagine how would you feel if you were me ? She was a childcare teacher by profession...perhaps the prettiest childcare teacher there is. But I can’t accept that fact that she was a FL due to her own greed. After knowing, I tried to accept her for who she is but she kept lying no, she is not FL even though I followed her secretly and saw her get into the car of her sugar daddy and check into hotel. My sex with her started to be rough as I wanted to punish her for selling her body. In the end, I just ended it all.

[lancelim]

I had known a FL as a friend but later become some sort of sugar daddy by helping her with daily expenses only. Not the rich type of sugar daddy but still we had mutual benefitting relationship.

[squirtzer]

Originally Posted by lancelim

I had known a FL as a friend but later become some sort of sugar daddy by helping her with daily expenses only. Not the rich type of sugar daddy but still we had mutual benefitting relationship.

Had a similar, ad-hoc one with a local FL a while back. She was the one who suggested a 'package' rate because otherwise I'd be spending a ridiculous amount just to meet up. Though I enjoyed the time spent together cos we had common stuff to chat about and both relished our tipple, it nevertheless couldn't really escape the barriers resulting from the commercial nature of the relationship. I didn't like the fact that she'd never ever bother with the bills for F&B when we were hanging out for example...an FB who is a true friend would never be so exploitative and calculative, at least in my book. The sex was kinda ho-hum and while she's more interesting as a person than most of the FLs I've met, the overall cost-benefit analysis didn't quite work out for me. The sums involved weren't huge but I just figured that the money (and more importantly, time) could well be better used. So that's that.

[lancelim]

Originally Posted by squirtzer

Had a similar, ad-hoc one with a local FL a while back. She was the one who suggested a 'package' rate because otherwise I'd be spending a ridiculous amount just to meet up. Though I enjoyed the time spent together cos we had common stuff to chat about and both relished our tipple, it nevertheless couldn't really escape the barriers resulting from the commercial nature of the relationship. I didn't like the fact that she'd never ever bother with the bills for F&B when we were hanging out for example...an FB who is a true friend would never be so exploitative and calculative, at least in my book. The sex was kinda ho-hum and while she's more interesting as a person than most of the FLs I've met, the overall cost-benefit analysis didn't quite work out for me. The sums involved weren't huge but I just figured that the money (and more importantly, time) could well be better used. So that's that.

Mine wasn’t that bad. She had help me find girls to satisfy my fetish but she just disappeared once her debts are paid.