Why don't I want to have sex with my wife?

[Blessed]

Can share her pics?

[itsabt6x]

Originally Posted by tsuna7

u need help bro! u need some 1 to up ur wife infront of u den u feel ur wife actually still got value.. if not u always watch jap porn all same same wife get fk by ppl den wanna join in..

Agree. That's why hotwives are so HOT!

[naturegreen]

Likewise, perhaps she also does not feel sexually attracted to you anymore. Only thing now is talk it out with her. Most couples are in the same situation after many years of marriage. Everyday eat fried rice also will sian right?

[diputs1269]

TS must be sick with the same dish, try to introduce some something like sexton toys to enhance your love making session.

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by porn3x0004

I got married six years ago and I had two children. Now, I am 39 and my wife is 31 year old. However, I didn't really feel sexually attracted to her. Why? Help me please!

My advice n post here usually the best n now no different.

People treat their wives after they have kids as mothers. Some men even called their wives mommy.
So to a certain extent, they lose their sexual attractiveness.

[porn3x0004]

Thank you every body!

[porn3x0004]

Perhaps is due work pressure!

[Faithinpo]

Bro, I think you need to communicate more with her.

find out what is wrong, what is changed or what is not changed?

venture new areas, spice things up might help ba.

[samster101]

TS,
Find something exciting to do like mmf, same room sex, EIP?

[DavidSun]

Originally Posted by samster101

TS,
Let me try to give you some constructive feedback instead. See if you can identify. You claim work pressure. You are 39. You lost interest in your wife. You watch porn.

To me, there is still a desire in sex (porn). But you lost interest in the physical release. You find it tiring (work).

Welcome to the 40s!

It is the age where your body cannot reconcile with your mind. Your mind still likes sex. Your body finds it lazy to do the act.

Most married men with kids this age feel the same. There are a few choice of action. Some just accept it quietly for the sake of their kids. Some choose to think the fault lies with their partner and act on it - they find their release elsewhere. Some try to sort things out with their wives.

I will give you the standard advice. Talk it through with your wife. Better still, find a way to revive the spark. Some bros here explore outdoor sex, MMF, same room sex with their wives. Others do EIP, watchers. Pick your lane. Good luck TS.

Good sound advice.

[hhlover]

I oso got problem.. i 39.. my wife 33.. we r married coming to 10yrs comimg this Nov.. oso got two kids.. we only got to make love one every two wk.. so sad for me... cos it is not enough.. how i wish i can have sex with her at least one every two days.. after 10yrs.. i still cant get enough of my wife.. still like to have sex wit her every now n then.. wat can i do.. hehe

[wangzzz]

True facts of life.
if you eat the best chicken rice every day, sure sianz.
must change menu.

[charsiew]

TS,Talk to your wife before someone else does. Tell her how you feel and also find out is there any problems between the two of you. I'm sure you'll be able to find out any underlying problems which both of you might not even know. Try rekindling that spark that both of you had when you guys were dating.

Just my 2 cents

[naan1974]

Time to come out of the closet, TS , be honest and face yourself.

[Nexcunt]

Originally Posted by wangzzz

True facts of life.
if you eat the best chicken rice every day, sure sianz.
must change menu.

Very true.