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When people see thousands, they think 5 figures is a lot. When they get 5 figures, they yearn for 6 figures. when get 6 figures they yearn for 7 figures.. and when you reach the millionaire club, you realize your million can only bring you to the middle class, and to reach the upper class, you need 5 millions and above. and when you hit that, you will reach for 8 figures.. from there, you will want to maintain or keep going up. Nobody want to be poor after being rich. so yea.. a lot of things to do in life than sex.
This is why the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. I wont deny money isnt important. Not having enough money for a comfortable life can cause unhappiness, it's not so much that money buys happiness too. So its more of a balance. Money indeed is weird such that even close families can fall apart because of it.
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Originally Posted by vivianward
Am not sure if I should tell my future partner about this past of mine. I don't think men can easily accept? Yet I don't wanna lie.
To some ppl, they might not care about the past, but only care of the future ahead. Some might also valued honesty in an relationship.
The feeling of keeping a lie to a close one can be quite torturing. And also, sometimes a lie leads to another.
Also, I don't think one will want to be a SB due to special circumstances. So perhaps the partner can understand for that predicament. I dont think one will want to stay with a guy for the rest of the life that despises you just because of yr past. So yeah it can be considered as a test of your relationship how strong it is.
Well in life there is no perfect answer, it can be black or white and sometimes to the extent to grey.
SB is also using body and time , mental and energy to earn money, easy or hard, its still a work. Got demand will come with supply.
Agreed 100%. Regular office workers use their "body and time" to make money as well. But I don't see anyone calling them prostitutes.
The issue is that society is too caught up its dated, conservative norms. We were taught what is "right" or "wrong" from an early age. Unfortunately many people do not question the validity of these beliefs and grow up to have narrow, claustrophobic mindsets. This is why we aren't a progressive society at all even in the 21st century. Not by a long shot.
Not to mention the jealousy factor. There will always be petty folks who will slut-shame because they either don't have what it takes to flaunt it, or are just too darned scared to try anything out of their comfort zones.
Hey............. Am glad that everyone is speaking up for the sugar industry but no one seems to be interested in my encounter with Han
Should I continue? Or should we stick to talking about the industry?
My European SD is arriving tonight. I will be spending 3 nights with him. Am feeling quite unwell but I appreciate that he always transfers my allowance in advance so I will do what I need to do.
This is not to shame anyone, but I just went through a few threads reading about girls seeking for SDs, and here are my thoughts.
Some approaches are like FLs, some are too harsh, straightforward and too "in your face". Maybe that is why they may not have been successful in finding a good SD. I do agree that certain issues has to be mentioned upfront but the art of finding a good SD is to always be patient and never lose your cool.
Most of them state the number of times they can meet, their dos and donts on bed, the amount that they require, etc. Personally, I do not think this is the best way to negotiate their way into an arrangement. Like what someone said over here, it is just like visiting the same pro for x number of times in a month. Leave yourself some leeway for negotiation. Who knows the SD can actually afford to pay you more than 3k a month?
By flashing all your cards on the table before the game has even started, you have already lost. Yes, you may meet someone who can pay you what you want at one point, but more often than not, it will never last.
Also the journey of seeking a SD can be a painful and frustrating one. Simply because there are way too many jokers who claim that they are looking for SBs but do not actually know how the industry works and cannot actually afford one. Having said that, we should never lose our cool dealing with these people. I believe in staying classy and that makes you mentally stronger as well.
Men being men, do not like girls who are overly feisty and demanding. Leave these traits to their wife and serious girlfriends. SBs should always be someone who can give them an escape from their everyday life. This is our role to play- like it or not. That is why I said being a SB is not just about a pretty face or a good body. It involves alot of tact, tolerance, wit, intellect, etc.
SBs should always be someone who can give them an escape from their everyday life. This is our role to play- like it or not. That is why I said being a SB is not just about a pretty face or a good body. It involves alot of tact, tolerance, wit, intellect, etc.
This is not to shame anyone, but I just went through a few threads reading about girls seeking for SDs, and here are my thoughts.
Some approaches are like FLs, some are too harsh, straightforward and too "in your face". Maybe that is why they may not have been successful in finding a good SD. I do agree that certain issues has to be mentioned upfront but the art of finding a good SD is to always be patient and never lose your cool.
Most of them state the number of times they can meet, their dos and donts on bed, the amount that they require, etc. Personally, I do not think this is the best way to negotiate their way into an arrangement. Like what someone said over here, it is just like visiting the same pro for x number of times in a month. Leave yourself some leeway for negotiation. Who knows the SD can actually afford to pay you more than 3k a month?
By flashing all your cards on the table before the game has even started, you have already lost. Yes, you may meet someone who can pay you what you want at one point, but more often than not, it will never last.
Also the journey of seeking a SD can be a painful and frustrating one. Simply because there are way too many jokers who claim that they are looking for SBs but do not actually know how the industry works and cannot actually afford one. Having said that, we should never lose our cool dealing with these people. I believe in staying classy and that makes you mentally stronger as well.
Men being men, do not like girls who are overly feisty and demanding. Leave these traits to their wife and serious girlfriends. SBs should always be someone who can give them an escape from their everyday life. This is our role to play- like it or not. That is why I said being a SB is not just about a pretty face or a good body. It involves alot of tact, tolerance, wit, intellect, etc.
Well said. You seems good going to have sd of europe origin. Thats seems like business expand oversea.
Its true of what you said. The issue is how many sb or sd wanna be can understand the basic requirement to be one..
The biggest difference between local men and Western men when it comes to sugar arrangement is this:
Local men see SBs as really high class escorts more.
Western men see SBs as actual girlfriends they woo and keep with money as the top draw. Basically "I'm rich. Date me. Don't care what you call our arrangement, feels like a relationship when you're with me my ego is happy enough."
I find the latter mindset by Western men more pathetic. At least for local men, we know we're buying sex and the exclusive feeling of it with someone regular. For western men, oftentimes it really is just because they are trying to buy the feeling of love that they can't get without money being involved.
The biggest difference between local men and Western men when it comes to sugar arrangement is this:
Local men see SBs as really high class escorts more.
Western men see SBs as actual girlfriends they woo and keep with money as the top draw. Basically "I'm rich. Date me. Don't care what you call our arrangement, feels like a relationship when you're with me my ego is happy enough."
I find the latter mindset by Western men more pathetic. At least for local men, we know we're buying sex and the exclusive feeling of it with someone regular. For western men, oftentimes it really is just because they are trying to buy the feeling of love that they can't get without money being involved.
The biggest difference between local men and Western men when it comes to sugar arrangement is this:
Local men see SBs as really high class escorts more.
Western men see SBs as actual girlfriends they woo and keep with money as the top draw. Basically "I'm rich. Date me. Don't care what you call our arrangement, feels like a relationship when you're with me my ego is happy enough."
I find the latter mindset by Western men more pathetic. At least for local men, we know we're buying sex and the exclusive feeling of it with someone regular. For western men, oftentimes it really is just because they are trying to buy the feeling of love that they can't get without money being involved.
Not necessary. It really depends on individual. Don't think it is right to classify based on race/nationality. It is seldom for any SDs to talk about love. Neither are most of them desperate for attention. Most successful men are self sufficient people although yes, they may feel lonely in certain aspects, but never desperate to the extent of buying love. They are smart enough to gauge if the girl is genuine or not.
And honestly..... SBs are really not escorts. I think alot of escorts are prettier than SBs. SBs also have tougher life dealing with clients and earn lesser than escorts
My EU SD is flying me to Las Vegas next month. Not because he really needs company as his conference will last for 5 days and there is no time for leisure, but because I have not been there. He can simply find someone in the US to save air ticket money but he genuinely wants to fulfil my wish because he cares. I will be exploring on my own there and only dinner with him on some days.
My date last night with him went very well as usual. We talked about his work most of the time. He owns a IT company which has about 2000 staff worldwide.
Not necessary. It really depends on individual. Don't think it is right to classify based on race/nationality. It is seldom for any SDs to talk about love. Neither are most of them desperate for attention. Most successful men are self sufficient people although yes, they may feel lonely in certain aspects, but never desperate to the extent of buying love. They are smart enough to gauge if the girl is genuine or not.
And honestly..... SBs are really not escorts. I think alot of escorts are prettier than SBs. SBs also have tougher life dealing with clients and earn lesser than escorts
My EU SD is flying me to Las Vegas next month. Not because he really needs company as his conference will last for 5 days and there is no time for leisure, but because I have not been there. He can simply find someone in the US to save air ticket money but he genuinely wants to fulfil my wish because he cares. I will be exploring on my own there and only dinner with him on some days.
My date last night with him went very well as usual. We talked about his work most of the time. He owns a IT company which has about 2000 staff worldwide.