happened to me before, cos I focus too much is holding my cum so that my girl can enjoy longer...
ended up hold until cannot cum, and too tired to move after 1+ hours of non-stop pumping
This is an explanation I got from him and I appreciate him doing it, but he gets disappointed sometimes not being able to cum even though he tries to do it quickly (as if doing a quickie). Maybe stress or something? Or he no longer feels excited about me? Is it possible men can't cum with loss of interest?
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This is an explanation I got from him and I appreciate him doing it, but he gets disappointed sometimes not being able to cum even though he tries to do it quickly (as if doing a quickie). Maybe stress or something? Or he no longer feels excited about me? Is it possible men can't cum with loss of interest?
1. He was holding out for you to cum and ended up losing his momentum like what other bros have mentioned.
2. He has been having Alot of sex lately, masturbating too much, etc...
3. He has strong PC muscles and if he tries too hard, the muscles hold back his cum. If you push his sac upwards towards his dick, it should help make it easier for him to cum(I hope you understand the way i described that action), or just tell him to relax while you help him get off.
4. If i lost interest in a woman, i probably couldn't get hard in the first place, or it takes alot of stimulation to get hard. Since he can obviously get hard, but can't cum, i don't think its related to a loss of interest.
1. He was holding out for you to cum and ended up losing his momentum like what other bros have mentioned.
2. He has been having Alot of sex lately, masturbating too much, etc...
3. He has strong PC muscles and if he tries too hard, the muscles hold back his cum. If you push his sac upwards towards his dick, it should help make it easier for him to cum(I hope you understand the way i described that action), or just tell him to relax while you help him get off.
4. If i lost interest in a woman, i probably couldn't get hard in the first place, or it takes alot of stimulation to get hard. Since he can obviously get hard, but can't cum, i don't think its related to a loss of interest.
1. Even though he thrusts hard, he still cannot cum. I don't understand losing momentum?
2. I don't think this is the issue.
3. What is PC muscles? I don't understand the way you described.
4. That is comforting to know.
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He has worked hard to make you enjoy a a long as possible, so you will need to work hard too to make him cum.
One of my ex was really good in this, she knows how to rock and squeeze her pussy while saying sexy words in such a way that I can cum within minutes.
I am not sure if he can cum inside your pussy or use withdrawal method to cum outside. Personally I found it harder to cum if I have to control and pull out at the last minute. I prefer to cum inside pussy because it is more natural way to do it.
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This is an explanation I got from him and I appreciate him doing it, but he gets disappointed sometimes not being able to cum even though he tries to do it quickly (as if doing a quickie). Maybe stress or something? Or he no longer feels excited about me? Is it possible men can't cum with loss of interest?
1. Even though he thrusts hard, he still cannot cum. I don't understand losing momentum?
2. I don't think this is the issue.
3. What is PC muscles? I don't understand the way you described.
4. That is comforting to know.
1. Hold from cuming for too long until he lose the cuming sensation.
3. PC Muscles - Pubococcygeus Muscle which control urine flow when peeing, same as when cuming. Bascially to help him cum faster, you should hold his balls sort of like this.
He has worked hard to make you enjoy a a long as possible, so you will need to work hard too to make him cum.
One of my ex was really good in this, she knows how to rock and squeeze her pussy while saying sexy words in such a way that I can cum within minutes.
I am not sure if he can cum inside your pussy or use withdrawal method to cum outside. Personally I found it harder to cum if I have to control and pull out at the last minute. I prefer to cum inside pussy because it is more natural way to do it.
I try to make him cum by talking dirty and encouraging him. He can cum in my pussy so he has no worry about holding back.
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1. Hold from cuming for too long until he lose the cuming sensation.
3. PC Muscles - Pubococcygeus Muscle which control urine flow when peeing, same as when cuming. Bascially to help him cum faster, you should hold his balls sort of like this.
1. Do you know if this is common among men? Or just you, and maybe him?
3. How to hold his balls up when having sex?
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according to a survey with women 30-40 min sex including foreplay is usually good enough, any longer duration can be painful and frustrating for some women and men.
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1. Do you know if this is common among men? Or just you, and maybe him?
3. How to hold his balls up when having sex?
1. LOL, i don't know why but i just find that funny. Another bro already mentioned he experienced the same thing in this thread earlier. So maybe, just the 3 of us at the moment.
Anyway, all better for u right? He lasts longer. If not, HJ/BJ/ask him what position helps him finish loh. Cowgirl grinding does the job for me. Sometimes if hes doing all the work, then u shud help him so he can relax and cum.
3. I know for a fact it can be done, be creative? U hold or he hold himself... Had my balls held by the lady while doing doggie before, she just needs to reach one arm between her legs and hold. Guy can do a bit slower with long and steady full strokes.
29-08-2015, 10:56 PM
. If not, HJ/BJ/ask him what position helps him finish loh. Cowgirl grinding does the job for me. Sometimes if hes doing all the work, then u shud help him so he can relax and cum.
