I read somewhere that sophisticated women have high sex drives. The more sophisticated, the higher their sex needs.
This is the same as my previous post of not letting the women go into Mommy mode.
Sophisticated women aims to dress well, to look good, to act womenly and cultured.
For fuck?!
Exactly. For "fuck".
Re: How to make a girl more and more horny and want sex everyday.
why i didnt read this years ago ....?
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Originally Posted by Lorres
From casual discussions among sex craze perverted friends (which are essentially anyone who pee in standing position..), one way to ensure the woman remains horny is to
...Ensure she does not go into Mommy mode.
If have kids, ensure someone else take care. Do not become a mommy.
Make sure one dress up even at home.
Make sure the wife and you still socialise as lovers, attend functions/parties/ gatherings that require dressing up... so that wife & husband will still see each other as sexy. (Dressing up doesn't mean expensive clothes. It's nice fitting clothes and wear light make up) And maybe after the function or event, make a detour to hotel 81 before heading back home.
A lot of friends lament that it is hard to fuck at home. Exactly! How to?!?!
Kids are there, parents are there, maid is there.... even if its a 5 room flat.
It is very hard to get over the stigma of booking Hotel81 to fuck. Couples would rather save $ and try to find a time when nobody is at home.
But when you have kids or parents or maid... how to find such opportunity?
Both the husband and wife should really get over such stigma, and just book a place to fuck. No one will disturb you, can moan as loud as you want.
After a social event ends, all dress up, the wife is pretty & the husband is handsome, go Hotel81, fuck to your hearts content. Bliss.
Then go home.
Re: How to make a girl more and more horny and want sex everyday.
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Originally Posted by Lorres
From casual discussions among sex craze perverted friends (which are essentially anyone who pee in standing position..), one way to ensure the woman remains horny is to
...Ensure she does not go into Mommy mode.
If have kids, ensure someone else take care. Do not become a mommy.
Make sure one dress up even at home.
Make sure the wife and you still socialise as lovers, attend functions/parties/ gatherings that require dressing up... so that wife & husband will still see each other as sexy. (Dressing up doesn't mean expensive clothes. It's nice fitting clothes and wear light make up) And maybe after the function or event, make a detour to hotel 81 before heading back home.
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Originally Posted by perfection89
Disclaimer: Use the following knowledge at your own discretion / risk. I'm not responsible for anything that happens.
1. Finding the girl
First, you need to have a target. For the purpose of this thread, we are going to assume that your target is a legal > 18 years old fully riped lady. Here's a few things to ask yourself before you get started.
Are you passive or dominant?
Dominant guys should find passive woman and vice versa.
Are you in this for the long run (wife) or short term pleasure (FWB)?
The way you hunt differs based on your objective.
How much investment are you going to put in?
Money, Time, effort to please... How much are you willing to put in?
To explain / teach you the entire lesson will require a WOT that is too much to fill in this post so here's a brief summary. Assuming that you are going for a submissive girlfriend/wife material with reasonable investment. You should look for girls who are "normal". These girls talk to boys but not every boy and they are not shy/reserved until ice queen type. Once you find one, try to dig out her sexual history. See if she's virgin or had tried sex before and if she masturbated / like / hate sex. The girl you're looking for should generally be open to the idea of sex but with a close partner.
2. "Grooming" the girl
There are two ways to go about doing it.
First is reverse psychology or don't make a big deal about sex. Many guys tend to be too desperate for sex that it turns off the girls immediately. Be smart about how you approach sex. While you are still "close" friends with the girl, assure the girl that you have no sexual image of her / she's not exactly your type. But wait for those one fine night when she's drunk or texting you at 2am and start the convo like "what are you doing right now"... she will probably ask you back and you can give a frank / pervert yet not desperate comment like, "nothing, just chilling and watching porn"... but be sure not to make it too pervertic.. just enough for her to think that you're a normal guy but just now very into sex with her and treat her like a bro bro...
Second is to start dressing attractive enough for her to look at you. Guys like to ogle at sexy girl, girls like to ogle at guys too.. If you don't have the looks, make it up in the smell compartment. Get a nice fresh cologne to start with. How to know if you pick the right one? get her to go shopping with you and ask her which she feel is nice la.. then come back another day to buy it. Once you start smelling nice, you can expect to go out often with her.
When both of you finally go "steady", you can proceed to third.
Third is literally "Chemistry". Before you go down this path, I suggest you try a round of sex with her to gauge how much she's into sex first. By the time of honeymoon period, you should be able to get her to go have sex with you. Gauge if she's wet below from fingering, if she wants a second round, if she orgasm before you and so on...
The worst type are those that feel dry and not turned on. Some are hard to cure while others are due to anxiety. The wet ones should be doing ok and will crave for more sex naturally. If you kena the dry one, here's what you might wanna do.
Get yourself some spanish fly or go Japan and get a bottle of their aphrodisiac from their sex store.. I know from my experience that it works. Mix it with some lemon tea / green tea and get your girl to drink it (don't tell her so you will know if it works, usually it a small bottle so empty the whole thing).
Give yourself about 15 mins for it to kick in. Meanwhile, just do your usual kissing, rubbing her shoulders, and use your fingers to tickle her gently along the legs to increase the effect.
When you rub her pussy this time round, if should feel slightly wetter than usual and she will also complain it's hotter and warmer than usual.. That means the thing is at its full effect liao... time to get to business.
From my experience, once you turn on her "engine", you can proceed to next step.
3. Maintaining the "leash"
So now you manage to get your girl high to enjoy sex. You have to maintain it. Get a couple more bottles of spanish fly or whatever that works for you and spread it like medicine, about once every 2 weeks. What works for me was 5 rounds of japanese aphrodisiac every 2 weeks and during the interval between, i tell her "i haven't got much craving for sex" so every 2 weeks we have like intense 1 day of 3 shots because she wanted it so much. Make her beg for the sex and soon she will get into this routine of wanting sex every week, every couple of days and eventually every day. by then you don't need the aphrodisiac anymore because her body will turn into one big lusty machine.
Thanks for the psychological sharing.
In general, men also need to be proactive for pleasuring the woman, not to be begrudged the ingrained expectation that the girls are the god's only creature as often pleasuring the men as possible.
Thanks for the psychological sharing.
In general, men also need to be proactive for pleasuring the woman, not to be begrudged the ingrained expectation that the girls are the god's only creature as often pleasuring the men as possible.
I agree that its a two-way thing.
Even if the wife is horny, she may not want to fuck the grumpy slouchy frumpy husband!
We all have seen before, one spouse dress up nice and good neat clean, the other spouse looks unkempt, ill fitting clothes, uncouth.
Re: How to make a girl more and more horny and want sex everyday.
aside from money, another way of having girl always horny and wanting your cock everyday is to pay attention to her sexual needs ahead of your own.
every girl that i pleasured and got to experience their 1st or best orgasms ended up just getting hooked and they will be chasing their own ''dragon'' by wanting more like creampie, multi orgasms or just want to fuck all day.
many girls may lose their virginity but never actually experienced an orgasm because their partner(s) are inexperienced or lame dicks themselves. bridge the gap for them and they will be yours for as long as you want.