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We can't help you much if we don't know how your money situation is. Anyway, we can't lend you money but probably some people who walked the path can give u a tip or 2 to handle the issue
Actually you can state your financial status clear to her before both of you proceed any further, if she really like you then she must accept the fact how much will be the allowance entitled. Make it clear to her that you are not the KRUNG THAI ATM machine which has unlimited funds for her to draw. I think the most difficult part will be differciating that $ and love is not together as most TGs thinks that once in love $ comes automatically.
The most important thing is that even if you have money, just "tiam tiam" dun go and show off how much you have in your bank account if not you will see the amount start to decrease like the sperm level when you get older........even you meet a girl who u think is trustworthy cos "YOU WILL NEVER KNOW".
The most important thing is that even if you have money, just "tiam tiam" dun go and show off how much you have in your bank account if not you will see the amount start to decrease like the sperm level when you get older........even you meet a girl who u think is trustworthy cos "YOU WILL NEVER KNOW".
Thanks Master, It's good advise.
I should known that she not good at manage money. At the begining, I even give her one of my ATM card, and put a couple K in the account and tell her the pin no. My intention is that, if I happen to be not around at the time she money, she always have some money. But she just keep sending it home for all that "sudden need". I just give up topping the account and let it empty
I should known that she not good at manage money. At the begining, I even give her one of my ATM card, and put a couple K in the account and tell her the pin no. My intention is that, if I happen to be not around at the time she money, she always have some money. But she just keep sending it home for all that "sudden need". I just give up topping the account and let it empty
Like that I think you are a generous lover will lots of cash to spare....kidding
Have asked yourself before did she really send the $ back home or she spend the $ herself?
This is the most common excuse that all tiraks face as I myself also kanna before. Providing financial support to her is part of the deal but it depends on what is the $ for like for. The problem is that most TGs doesn't know whether what are the dos and don'ts. You will have to educate her on this part and it's not easy. If after some point of time, you think that it's unreasonable, maybe it's time to make a decision cos in the long run you will suffer, believe me cos I'm also one of the victims. That's why I'm leaving my current gf due to the fact, I can't meet her financial demands and it's better for me to let her go cos it will be better for both of us in future. Remember like the chinese saying "CHANG TONG BU RU DUAN TONG"(short pain is better than prolong pain). If you're a real cheongster, I'm sure you can get a replacement sooner or later....
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Baby is on it way, going to be my first one. , little oldcar...Hopefully she put us first before the family..........But I think I will be still cheong, cannot retire...
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If after some point of time, you think that it's unreasonable, maybe it's time to make a decision cos in the long run you will suffer, believe me cos I'm also one of the victims. That's why I'm leaving my current gf due to the fact, I can't meet her financial demands and it's better for me to let her go cos it will be better for both of us in future. Remember like the chinese saying "CHANG TONG BU RU DUAN TONG"(short pain is better than prolong pain). If you're a real cheongster, I'm sure you can get a replacement sooner or later....
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Hope the Sith lord did not brainwash you into making that big decision. Hahahahahaha.
Just want some advise to get her family to spend less. I give $1500 for her to send home each month, that not an issue. On top, I know she also send some more from the money I give her to spend. The problem is that every couple months there will be additional "something" they need, this can be 1K or a few K. Very unpredictable.
wow... like that spring well also very fast dry up loh
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Thanks siamcutey. Don't need money help from bros . Just want some advise to get her family to spend less. I give $1500 for her to send home each month, that not an issue. On top, I know she also send some more from the money I give her to spend. The problem is that every couple months there will be additional "something" they need, this can be 1K or a few K. Very unpredictable.
This is not tirak problem. This is a problem which many people fail to understand and they thought loving a TG is only about 2 persons. To the thais, the family is a major factor to consider.
Since you have a baby coming on the way, you better talk to your wife fast. Tell her that with this kind of money u giving, its not enough for you to support. Do you give $1500 to your own parents in SG? Tell her that with a baby in the plans, the education, living expenses etc will have to save a lot more and canniot give so much to her family anymore
If your wife mai kao jai, I can only say she love her family more than you. If i am you, and after telling her she still mai kao jai and insist that you must help, nevermind, help them till the baby is borned. Take your baby with you and tell your wife, that you are bringing the baby with you. If she want, she follow, if not tell her to help her family herself. You have to be tough, if not, her family don't die first, but you die first.
$1500 is about 30K baht over. Not consider a lot but I believe must live within means. U should know your 35K baht goes to wants or needs. Cos we don't actually know how your money is being spent, all I can say is determine the source of the problem and if you want to continue, you have to shoulder all the burden.
Examples like every few months, sure will have someone accident, bail relatives out from prison, car accident and have to pay for damages, so many hidden costs I experienced before. Even cousin buy computer also become my problem.
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This is not tirak problem. This is a problem which many people fail to understand and they thought loving a TG is only about 2 persons. To the thais, the family is a major factor to consider.
Since you have a baby coming on the way, you better talk to your wife fast. Tell her that with this kind of money u giving, its not enough for you to support. Do you give $1500 to your own parents in SG? Tell her that with a baby in the plans, the education, living expenses etc will have to save a lot more and canniot give so much to her family anymore
If your wife mai kao jai, I can only say she love her family more than you. If i am you, and after telling her she still mai kao jai and insist that you must help, nevermind, help them till the baby is borned. Take your baby with you and tell your wife, that you are bringing the baby with you. If she want, she follow, if not tell her to help her family herself. You have to be tough, if not, her family don't die first, but you die first.
Hahahaha words from another Sith lord follower. Heart is hard as a rock and cock. There is hope for the darkside.
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Hahahaha words from another Sith lord follower. Heart is hard as a rock and cock. There is hope for the darkside.
My peers are putting me at the rank of Sith Lord.............
The jedis say cannot do this, cannot do that, but in actual fact, they are the ones who don't practise what they preach. Hypocrites.
There is nothing wrong with the siths, just that people prefer to be associated with the good. Then let me ask, who is on hand to define what is good and what is bad?
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Hope the Sith lord did not brainwash you into making that big decision. Hahahahahaha.
No lah!! not making any big decision. But in medium to long term, this money issue need to address. Unless I earn as much as Bill Gates, but tell her that I still drawing my peanut salary. Then this problem will not be an issue