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Originally Posted by AADD
maybe i am not 'mature' enough. i called her whore/prostitute cause that is her profession i see nothing wrong with that. i've offered her to stop many times she doesn't. anyway, she lent me money can somewhat be assumed as a reason for to justify her contacting me nonstop which is a bother since it guilts me that i am still in contact with 'A' while dating 'B'....
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Seriously bro TS. From your comments i got this feeling you are way immature. Why? Ill list it down. Im usually very candid so forgive me if you are offended.
1) stop calling the girl you have been using for sex but developed a bond a "whore". She is human. You fuck around too, should i start calling you "fucker"? If you don'tsee something is wrong with that like you suggested in your comments above, it means you have no sense of respect and civility.
2) you said there is nothing that pays better than your family business thats why you are still in it. Really? In your 30s its not always about money. Experience is more important at that age as it will benefits you in the long term plus it mightevenbenefit your family business next time when you bring in new ideas and concept to expand it. You also mentioned you are struggling financially yet you have house, car everything. Sounds like you are relying heavily on your family business. You also said your family will curse you if you leave the business. A matured man will know how to convince your family that its more beneficial for the business you gain more experience outside first. Its no excuse. There are also alot of jobs out there that earns better than business. I was earning $17k in my mid 30s before bonuses etc. Thats not a lotbut more than enough that you shouldnt be struggling financially even with house and car.
3) you don't seem to be experienced in a normal relationship. You seemed to praise your future wife to the sky and when things went bad you finally expose her true nature. That of a conceited normal singaporean girl with aspiration of a rich husband. But then again, is that what she really is or is that what you portrayed her to be? The flipside is she was simply telling you to be more independent and leave your comfort zone. Have you thought about that?
The above points aside, i find it really cheap of you to offer just $1.5k to keep the "whore". Thats so damn cheap. No offence!