I explained previously,,
Once you are infected with HSV, your body will create antibodies to fight the virus,,
So if you are newly infected, your antibodies not strong ma,,,
If you infected for a while le, your antibodies is present in your body,,
So the blood test is to test for the existence of these antibodies,,,
According to the doctor, if the test successfully tested the present of the antibodies, it means that you are infected with HSV for some time le,,
That’s what happened to us,,
My hubby got infected and confronted me,,,
I also not sure if he got it from me or got it somewhere,,,
Coz I cannot recall me having HSV,,,
That’s why to prove my “innocence” I went for the test lo
Apparently, I have the antibodies present in my body,,,
So means I am a HSV carrier all these while,,,
Just that I didn’t know,,,
Thank you for the share, Mrs Ow, albeit its something that is less spoken in the public, I thank you from the bottom of my heart on your courage to share with us your experience and that we can have a better idea on "disaster reocvery" if (touch wood) it happens to any of us here.
Understand. But after a certain period of time, antibodies would have reached full level. And a blood test may not be able to tell whether you've had Herpes for 3 months, 3 years or 30 years
So it's still possible to say it was caught before marriage
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Originally Posted by ourworld
I explained previously,,
Once you are infected with HSV, your body will create antibodies to fight the virus,,
So if you are newly infected, your antibodies not strong ma,,,
If you infected for a while le, your antibodies is present in your body,,
So the blood test is to test for the existence of these antibodies,,,
According to the doctor, if the test successfully tested the present of the antibodies, it means that you are infected with HSV for some time le,,
That’s what happened to us,,
My hubby got infected and confronted me,,,
I also not sure if he got it from me or got it somewhere,,,
Coz I cannot recall me having HSV,,,
That’s why to prove my “innocence” I went for the test lo
Apparently, I have the antibodies present in my body,,,
So means I am a HSV carrier all these while,,,
Just that I didn’t know,,,
Understand. But after a certain period of time, antibodies would have reached full level. And a blood test may not be able to tell whether you've had Herpes for 3 months, 3 years or 30 years
So it's still possible to say it was caught before marriage
The best you can do is to seek professional advice from either DSC or some clinics specializing in this field.
The best you can do is to seek professional advice from either DSC or some clinics specializing in this field.
Bedok South Ave 3
Shim Clinic!
Side note,,, the doctor seems gay to us,,
Hahaha,,,
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Originally Posted by bombweister
Mdm OW I salute you for sharing all your personal life experiences. Thank you very much. Anyway what the internet shows is just what is happening to you on the surface, if kena internal who will know unless really go and do all the test and check ups. So for the bro who keeps arguing about what you have read, pls go try to set your differences aside and listen from someone who has this kind of unpleasant experiences.
Thanks Bombweister! And thanks for visit our thread previously,,,
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Originally Posted by rapidly
Thank you for the share, Mrs Ow, albeit its something that is less spoken in the public, I thank you from the bottom of my heart on your courage to share with us your experience and that we can have a better idea on "disaster reocvery" if (touch wood) it happens to any of us here.
Welcome,,, we are very open about this,,,
It’s not as if we are unfaithful to each other,,,
Moreover,, after this, we stick closer and love deeper to each other,,
I’m glad that my hubby accepted me and didn’t abandon me,,,
Blessed to have him,,,
Just here to share so more people will benefit and importantly,,, hopefully can prevent this,,
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Originally Posted by macmillan
Thanks for the clarification Mrs Ow
Understand. But after a certain period of time, antibodies would have reached full level. And a blood test may not be able to tell whether you've had Herpes for 3 months, 3 years or 30 years
So it's still possible to say it was caught before marriage
Erm,,, you are not wrong la,,,
But if during our first breakout, you got caught by your wife
Then good luck lo,,,
Just stay faithful la,,,
It wouldn’t be good if you fool around and pass it on to her right?
But who knows,, sometime it’s the wife who infected it and pass it to the husband,,,
I also want to stay faithful. But it's damn hard now, so many years eat same food already, and she don't seem to put in that much effort sexually. Plus at my age now (probably at peak), sex drive has honestly never been higher
Mrs Ow, you mentioned that you have 3some. Did your hubby initiated it or it was you who initiated it? Do you tell the 3some partner that both of you have STD?
Mrs Ow, you mentioned that you have 3some. Did your hubby initiated it or it was you who initiated it? Do you tell the 3some partner that both of you have STD?
The first time was 2 years ago,,, during his bday,,,
I got us an escort who is bisexual,,,
That session was quite nice,,,
Subsequently we have another few session with my bestie,,,
Whom I know since pri school,,
No she doesn’t know,,, I don’t recall tell her,,
Or did I? I don’t remember le,,,
We had 4 sessions with her in tota last year,,,
Anyway hubby and I both concluded that we are not into 3some,,,
So we stop,,
The first time was 2 years ago,,, during his bday,,,
I got us an escort who is bisexual,,,
That session was quite nice,,,
Subsequently we have another few session with my bestie,,,
Whom I know since pri school,,
No she doesn’t know,,, I don’t recall tell her,,
Or did I? I don’t remember le,,,
We had 4 sessions with her in tota last year,,,
Anyway hubby and I both concluded that we are not into 3some,,,
So we stop,,
Oh dear... the 3some with the escort and your friend would have caused them to be infected! Do you think it would be better for you to alert them esp your best friend?
Oh dear... the 3some with the escort and your friend would have caused them to be infected! Do you think it would be better for you to alert them esp your best friend?
Oh no! Why didn’t we think of that!
You are so clever
Did you allow your husband to penetrate the third party?
I also want but I dunno if my Mrs will allow me to put my dick into another hole and then hers
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Originally Posted by ourworld
The first time was 2 years ago,,, during his bday,,,
I got us an escort who is bisexual,,,
That session was quite nice,,,
Subsequently we have another few session with my bestie,,,
Whom I know since pri school,,
No she doesn’t know,,, I don’t recall tell her,,
Or did I? I don’t remember le,,,
We had 4 sessions with her in tota last year,,,
Anyway hubby and I both concluded that we are not into 3some,,,
So we stop,,
@Mrs Ow thanks for sharing ur exp on herpes. Does the ulcers/lesions on penis always turn into blisters? Or could there be instances where the symptoms are just ulcers?
@Mrs Ow thanks for sharing ur exp on herpes. Does the ulcers/lesions on penis always turn into blisters? Or could there be instances where the symptoms are just ulcers?
Hi mate, I’m Mr Ow. My wife is still sleeping,
I was browsing thru the forum and saw this, didn’t know she is still active here. Lol.
Anyway for your question, I guess it was directed to me after all,
Before anything visibly appears, I will know I will be suffering from a breakout
- when my lymph nodesin the groin start to ache.
- I experienced difficulty in urinating,
- sometimes my hips would hurt, (as if I done some legs workout, like squats)
- then cluster of small blisters filled with liquid would appear, the correct term is cold sore. (The liquid can be quite contagious)
So if I didn’t take care properly, the blister will literally burst and it will turn into ulcers. And worst, the liquid might infected other areas.
But if I took care of it well, they will dry up and crust up. After a few days, the crust will drop off by itself, and my dick looks as new! Lolxx..
Usually herpes will heal very nicely, so much so you can really tell from naked eyes. But if you didn’t take care of them well, the blisters burst, then after the ulcers heals, it will leave light patches of scars.
The most contagious time is when cold sore is forming but yet to start. Meaning there is no sign, no symptoms. But the virus are active le.
That’s where you can pass it on to others without knowing.
Let’s face it, if you are having blisters on your dick, you won’t go around screwing others right? Moreover, Nobody will even wanna have sex with you too!
I read through and 1 bro here said it correctly, immune system is important.
Once I was hit by influenza virus, my immune system sort of breaks down.
Took me 2 weeks to recover.
That period I can recall, I have multiple herpes breakouts.
That was really really bad man. Lol
That really sucks. So unfortunate. I read online that most people who are infected with Herpes do not show symptoms. So what you are experiencing must be the minority I guess?
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Originally Posted by ourworld
Hi mate, I’m Mr Ow. My wife is still sleeping,
I was browsing thru the forum and saw this, didn’t know she is still active here. Lol.
Anyway for your question, I guess it was directed to me after all,
Before anything visibly appears, I will know I will be suffering from a breakout
- when my lymph nodesin the groin start to ache.
- I experienced difficulty in urinating,
- sometimes my hips would hurt, (as if I done some legs workout, like squats)
- then cluster of small blisters filled with liquid would appear, the correct term is cold sore. (The liquid can be quite contagious)
So if I didn’t take care properly, the blister will literally burst and it will turn into ulcers. And worst, the liquid might infected other areas.
But if I took care of it well, they will dry up and crust up. After a few days, the crust will drop off by itself, and my dick looks as new! Lolxx..
Usually herpes will heal very nicely, so much so you can really tell from naked eyes. But if you didn’t take care of them well, the blisters burst, then after the ulcers heals, it will leave light patches of scars.
The most contagious time is when cold sore is forming but yet to start. Meaning there is no sign, no symptoms. But the virus are active le.
That’s where you can pass it on to others without knowing.
Let’s face it, if you are having blisters on your dick, you won’t go around screwing others right? Moreover, Nobody will even wanna have sex with you too!
I read through and 1 bro here said it correctly, immune system is important.
Once I was hit by influenza virus, my immune system sort of breaks down.
Took me 2 weeks to recover.
That period I can recall, I have multiple herpes breakouts.
That was really really bad man. Lol