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Re: How to marry a Geylang WL

rite now one PRC WL wants me to buy her out !

ooooh, ?????? wat ???
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Re: How to marry a Geylang WL

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Just to make a point. Covert prostitution is legal. Clandestine prostitution is legal. Street prostitution is illegal. This means if you go on a dating site and you meet a girl who says she will only date you if buy her expensive gifts and travel, you give her the most expensive gift you can find, you buy her a plane ticket and hotel expenses, and she dates you for a few days to a week then she gets on the plane and goes to the vacation resort that you paid for.

That is just a date. It's legal to give gifts to any woman or man you date. It's legal to pay for expensive vacations. It's legal to give gold or platinum jewelry, shoes, clothes, or whatever.

There are no laws against being a sugar daddy or sugar mama. There are no laws against being a gold digger or gigolo. It's illegal to solicit sex, that is it's illegal to offer sex for a fee, in specific sex in exchange for money. So people have specific dating rituals they know but authorities don't know. The whole illegal prostitution thing is just an excuse to arrest uneducated women. If these women knew what they were doing they'd find a sugar daddy and would move up from being a hooker or low level escort to the level of courtesan or geisha.

The truth is sex is never free. We pretend like it's free in order to feel better about ourselves but ultimately everyone has to give something up to get sex. They give up time, money, usually a combination of both, and the only thing to weigh is whether or not the escort is asking for more money and time than the other opportunities you have. If the other opportunities are as physically attractive, cost about the same amount in time and money, well then who would go to the escort? But if the escort offers the best opportunities why wouldn't you go to the escort?

And if it's done right you wont even have to know that your gf is an escort/whore. You know your friend can hook you up and introduce you to the hot chick who happens to fall in love with you. Just remember to thank your friend later on.
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Re: How to marry a Geylang WL

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what do you think his family feel if other friends or relatives know that someone in the family married to a whore?
Emotions is the distorted lens through which our cognitive faculties and purviews are clouded. Giving considerations to the opinions and perceptions of judgmental human beings is nice, but that's irrelevant against the background of assessing the truth of the matter. In the context of morality, perception implies a judgement, and a judgement extols a value system; this value system is no more a concept which human beings ascribe to the social system. In a grammatically respectable sense, the thing about moral statements is that the moral act is always prefaced with "You should...", "You should not...", "One ought to...", or "One ought not to" instead of something that is of a more absolute sense, id est for instance, "Light travels in a straight line" or "The total kinetic energy is the sum of its mass halved, multiplied by its velocity".

Going back to you the focus of your premise, the act of prostitution is in and of itself a moral act, so are the acts of coercion, murder, terrorism, and et cetera.

In syllogistic expression:
Argument 1
1. If M (morality), then P(prostitution), C(coercion), M(murder), and T(terrorism).

2. C(coercion)

3. Therefore, M(morality).

Argument 2
1. If M (morality), then P(prostitution), C(coercion), M(murder), and T(terrorism).

2. P (prostitution)

3. Therefore, M(morality)

As your argument stands in relation to the foregoing line of reasoning transmuted in syllogistic expression, prostitution is par coercion, murder, terrorism and et cetera. It's fine if you want to walk down this path, but any distinctions made between all moral acts are at best, arbitrary; don't expect anyone to acknowledge the validity of your comparison.
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Re: How to marry a Geylang WL

wah lau eh ah !

are you guys lawyers ?


lawyers for sammyboy ?
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Re: How to marry a Geylang WL

this gonna b a very tough road for both of u to walk on. wish u all the best, bro!
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wah lau eh ah !

are you guys lawyers ?


lawyers for sammyboy ?
No.

I'm barely 22.

In any case, the OP's concerns and desires for wanting to be involve in an exclusive relationship with the prostitute is patently legitimate, as much as wanting to date and love a non-sex worker. Under such circumstances however, there are certain risk vs benefit analysis that must be included in the prediction and model. Most sex workers, while are willing parties in the sex trade, are nonetheless victims of socioeconomic factors.

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No.

I'm barely 22.

In any case, the OP's concerns and desires for wanting to be involve in an exclusive relationship with the prostitute is patently legitimate, as much as wanting to date and love a non-sex worker. Under such circumstances however, there are certain risk vs benefit analysis that must be included in the prediction and model. Most sex workers, while are willing parties in the sex trade, are nonetheless victims of socioeconomic factors.
bro, i really like your analyse of the matter..

kudos to your train of thought..
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Re: How to marry a Geylang WL

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I'm barely 22.
I orso wah Liao eh!
Bro, ur Engrish so good, plus maturity of thoughts at bearly 21yo, are u an Ang-mo? But you went for the FL Vern who accept Chinese and Malays only leh. In any case, I'm super impressed! Found another sammyboy idol liao... LoL

Write more!

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I orso wah Liao eh!
Bro, ur Engrish so good at bearly 21yo, are u an Ang-mo? But you went for the FL Vern who accept Chinese and Malays only leh. In any case, I'm super impressed! Found another sammyboy idol liao... LoL

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I did not went for Vern. After last sat experience, I deduced I lack the disposition towards engaging sexual activities with prostitute. First and last. Period. Singaporean Chinese.
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I did not went for Vern. After last sat experience, I deduced I lack the disposition towards engaging sexual activities with prostitute. First and last. Period. Singaporean Chinese.
Bro, first of all, welcome to SBF and the darkside
Now I see those paranoia posts on the "What is my risk level?" thread...

All I can say is that it not uncommon to find new samsters here starting off with some paranoia posts in the "Sexual Health Issues" sextion BEFORE getting some "immunity" towards those fears, if you continue to survive long enough in this forum. Time is part of that equation that leads to this eventuality.

I am one of those who made up that statistic

Stay OUT of this forum is the best option for you; The probability of your little head overcuming the will of your big head is very high, over indefinite period of time soaking in this forum

How did you land up here in the first place? I'm really curious how on earth you'll be interested in a topic like "Marrying a whore" after an attempt to make a booking for a whopping $450 pop without blinking your eyes (figuratively) at a tender age of 22 and supposedly from a very well-to-do and educated family?
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Bro, first of all, welcome to SBF and the darkside
Now I see those paranoia posts on the "What is my risk level?" thread...

All I can say is that it not uncommon to find new samsters here starting off with some paranoia posts in the "Sexual Health Issues" sextion BEFORE getting some "immunity" towards those fears, if you continue to survive long enough in this forum. Time is part of that equation that leads to this eventuality.

I am one of those who made up that statistic

Stay OUT of this forum is the best option for you; The probability of your little head overcuming the will of your big head is very high, over indefinite period of time soaking in this forum

How did you land up here in the first place? I'm really curious how on earth you'll be interested in a topic like "Marrying a whore" after an attempt to make a booking for a whopping $450 pop without blinking your eyes (figuratively) at a tender age of 22 and supposedly from a very well-to-do and educated family?
That won't happen, my logical and intuitive cognitive faculty has always overwhelm my emotions, with this current fiasco being the rara avis. In fact, it is my lack of ability to connect with anyone on an emotional level that has been the obstruction when it comes to interpersonal relationship, and as well as social and dating rituals. Extending, my topic of interest has always been contemplating on the abstract, which again unfortunately, most girls who went on a date with me never went beyond the initial sexual attraction. Personality doesn't comport. If anyone is familiar with the Myer brigs type indicator, I fall under what is defined as INTJ.

The whole experience on sat is more an experiment than lust; it is wanting to know what sex feels like that so many people has been trumpeting about. Unfortunately, I didn't felt like it was anything special. A word to describe is "nonchalant". The "marrying a whore" thread interest me because it provides a platform from which logical, philosophical and intellectual perspective can be established. Any discussions of such an architectonic structure appeals to me like what honey is to ants.

I fall under what is demographically known as the 'average income family'. I won't go on too much, I'm in a depress state knowing that my existence in time and space is potentially limited.
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That won't happen, my logical and intuitive cognitive faculty has always overwhelm my emotions, with this current fiasco being the rara avis.
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If anyone is familiar with the Myer brigs type indicator, I fall under what is defined as INTJ.
Hmm... interesting, so you're the 1%-4% population that makes up the rarest of the sixteen personality types. No wonder we find you special around here...

I quote:
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The MBTI is approximately 75% accurate according to its own manual.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/INTJ
So does that mean there's still a 25% probability that you still have a soft-spot where one of these WL can turn you on emotionally if not sexually?

Ok ok... I'm just pulling you legs trying to pit statistic and probability against you. Relax, enjoy the forum and we'll see how your "That won't happen" unfolds

BTW, you still haven't answer HOW you landed up in SBF? You searched for some keywords in google? What was that?


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I'm in a depress state knowing that my existence in time and space is potentially limited.
Now this statement is worrying. You're 22 and you feel this way? Maybe I got you wrong. Everyone has limited time and space, more so for the aged, but why would a 22yo say this? (It defy logic) This forum is for you afterall, technically after the sat sexperience, you've fallen into the demographic group "cheongster", so pour your matter of the hearts here.
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Re: How to marry a Geylang WL

To my INTJ bro, I read into this Myers Briggs theory and learn that it's just a PREFERENCE thingy; you can still use the other personality to deal with life, just like using your left-hand if you're right-handed. "You have a preference for one hand but use them both. Similarly, you have many facets to your Myers Briggs personality, prefer some but use all of them."

So I think you're over analyzing and trying to conform to your own INTJ personality (since you must have taken some test to find out), so much so that you think you just can't easily adapt socially, especially on emotional levels.

I took the questionnaire too
http://www.teamtechnology.co.uk/mmdi/questionnaire/
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You'll notice that, in the table, there is a range of numbers, from 49% to 67%. This means that there is no personality type that you are completely identical with, nor is there one that you are completely unalike. This is normal because "every individual is an exception to the rule" (C.G. Jung, Psychological Types, p.516).
Shit, I belong to NONE of the personality!!! WTF
Maybe that's why I like to balance things...

Hmm...Where is our "Power of Attraction" brother? Maybe he can say something here to help you get out of this situation

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Hmm... interesting, so you're the 1%-4% population that makes up the rarest of the sixteen personality types. No wonder we find you special around here...

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So does that mean there's still a 25% probability that you still have a soft-spot where one of these WL can turn you on emotionally if not sexually?

Ok ok... I'm just pulling you legs trying to pit statistic and probability against you. Relax, enjoy the forum and we'll see how your "That won't happen" unfolds

BTW, you still haven't answer HOW you landed up in SBF? You searched for some keywords in google? What was that?



Now this statement is worrying. You're 22 and you feel this way? Maybe I got you wrong. Everyone has limited time and space, more so for the aged, but why would a 22yo say this? (It defy logic) This forum is for you afterall, technically after the sat sexperience, you've fallen into the demographic group "cheongster", so pour your matter of the hearts here.
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To my INTJ bro, I read into this Myers Briggs theory and learn that it's just a PREFERENCE thingy; you can still use the other personality to deal with life, just like using your left-hand if you're right-handed. "You have a preference for one hand but use them both. Similarly, you have many facets to your Myers Briggs personality, prefer some but use all of them."

So I think you're over analyzing and trying to conform to your own INTJ personality (since you must have taken some test to find out), so much so that you think you just can't easily adapt socially, especially on emotional levels.

I took the questionnaire too
http://www.teamtechnology.co.uk/mmdi/questionnaire/


Shit, I belong to NONE of the personality!!! WTF
Maybe that's why I like to balance things...

Hmm...Where is our "Power of Attraction" brother? Maybe he can say something here to help you get out of this situation

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You do fall under a personality type; every one does. Basically, what MBTI assesses is the degree and frequency of which you utilize certain domains, and reflects the commonly utilized domains. There are 4 domains; introversion or extroversion, intuitive or concrete, feeling or thinking, and, judgement or perceptive. In theory, if a person is an introvert it means they have at least more than 50% preference for introversion. They would at times be extrovert but that ultimately depends on their preferences for introversion or extroversion. That said, I ranker fairly high in all domains; at least a 90% for introversion, 98% for intuitive thinking, 95% for logical thinking and analysis, and with judgement domain scoring a 80%. The result has been consistently accurate every time ever since I first took the test at 11 years old. One could only potentially conform to the said personality type if the test was not answered honestly.
The test conforms to me, not in reverse; I do not fall under the forer effect.

I do not need dating tips. My score in the looks and intellectual department surpasses the general populous. Central to my quandary in the dating ritual is my inertia towards the adherence to dating normalities and social idiosyncrasies, absolute lack of interest pertaining towards concrete discussions such as on topics revolving around one's social life and as well as insipid small talks from "who has the prettiest girlfriend" to "who has the more expensive handbags, car, et cetera. Then there is the coupe d' grace delievered; while I am easily able to tip the scale even among the natural extroverts if I choose to, it comes at the cost of being psychologically stressed. Being involved in social gathering results in me experiencing extreme cognitive dissonance.

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