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Old 19-05-2019, 03:47 PM
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Share experience of divorcing wife and get marry again.

Somehow the love has diminished....
And wife gets grumpy.
Then suddenly u met someone... but she’s a divorced with kids.
And started to do things which u have never done before. It’s not really all about sex.
Cos wife with, she doesn’t wan to do this n that.
U feel so trapped in your life with your wife.
Not sure anyone went thru this? Can share experience?
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Old 19-05-2019, 09:12 PM
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Re: Share experience of divorcing wife and get marry again.

The relationship is still new, clandestine and exciting. There is nothing bad you can say about it.

You are at a point where anything and everything seems better than staying in your marriage.

I don’t know how long this has been going on, but don’t rush into anything. Imagine you are leaving your marriage (and kids if any) and this new person isn’t there, are you sure you will still do it?
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The relationship is still new, clandestine and exciting. There is nothing bad you can say about it.

You are at a point where anything and everything seems better than staying in your marriage.

I don’t know how long this has been going on, but don’t rush into anything. Imagine you are leaving your marriage (and kids if any) and this new person isn’t there, are you sure you will still do it?
I don't know what to say. If I had the guts I would just divorce. Sadly I am in dilemma
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Re: Share experience of divorcing wife and get marry again.

Divorce with kids had a heavy price to pay in SG , are you ready to pay ?
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I don't know what to say. If I had the guts I would just divorce. Sadly I am in dilemma
Good on you for being honest. Most guys don’t even dare to admit the only reason they don’t divorce their wives is because they don’t have the fucking balls to.

Many hide the woman’s charter or kids as excuses for not ending the marriage. Just lying to themselves.

For me it was this: could I imagine living out the rest of my life with her. Even if it meant that I would be alone after that. My answer was no.

So screw the whole bad guy thing, I had to leave.

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Wow this takes lots of courage .. respect your honestly towards your wife.



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Good on you for being honest. Most guys don’t even dare to admit the only reason they don’t divorce their wives is because they don’t have the fucking balls to.

Many hide the woman’s charter or kids as excuses for not ending the marriage. Just lying to themselves.

For me it was this: could I imagine living out the rest of my life with her. Even if it meant that I would be alone after that. My answer was no.

So screw the whole bad guy thing, I had to leave.
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Old 20-05-2019, 12:29 PM
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I don't know what to say. If I had the guts I would just divorce. Sadly I am in dilemma
Hi. So u r in the same boat as me?
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Old 20-05-2019, 12:31 PM
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Divorce with kids had a heavy price to pay in SG , are you ready to pay ?
My kid is 6more years to 21. I’m okie to pay the maintenance fee since it’s my kid.
So long it’s not absurd. I understand about the women’s charter.
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Old 20-05-2019, 12:35 PM
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Good on you for being honest. Most guys don’t even dare to admit the only reason they don’t divorce their wives is because they don’t have the fucking balls to.

Many hide the woman’s charter or kids as excuses for not ending the marriage. Just lying to themselves.

For me it was this: could I imagine living out the rest of my life with her. Even if it meant that I would be alone after that. My answer was no.

So screw the whole bad guy thing, I had to leave.
This is another dilemma. I visualize future cny my wife will be visiting alone. How she face her parents and relatives.
Wife is not a bad person but can at times be controlling.
Which I don’t like.
I’ve seen how my mum in law control my Father in law.
Sadly I only see this after I married my wife.
And then my wife start to exhibit this signature.
May I know How do u settle your matter?
Thanks.
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why the fuck do you want to make the same mistake twice but fools will be fools.
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This is another dilemma. I visualize future cny my wife will be visiting alone. How she face her parents and relatives.
Wife is not a bad person but can at times be controlling.
Which I don’t like.
I’ve seen how my mum in law control my Father in law.
Sadly I only see this after I married my wife.
And then my wife start to exhibit this signature.
May I know How do u settle your matter?
Thanks.
I left my marriage.

If you are sure your child will not be too emotionally damaged by a split, then maybe you can think about it. You know your own child best.

For me, it finally reached a point where I believed I would be happier for the rest of my life if I left. That the future could be better, and I wanted it to be.

Of course not being able to be close to your child daily (in my case) will hurt a lot. And it still does.

But if you have to leave, do not leave for another woman, leave for yourself.
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Well said...thanks for the enlightenment


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But if you have to leave, do not leave for another woman, leave for yourself.
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But if you have to leave, do not leave for another woman, leave for yourself.
Meaning living a carefree life?
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why the fuck do you want to make the same mistake twice but fools will be fools.
I understand what u are referring to.
So meaning be with someone without any marriage.
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Meaning living a carefree life?
It sounds like heaven right? In some ways it can be, but losing family is also very very painful.

What I meant was if you feel you must leave, do it because you can picture a better life ahead of you no matter what.

Whether it's with this other woman, some other woman, or no woman at all.

Just be careful of leaving simply and immediately for another woman because it could be just the same as with your wife before things went bad, in which case as other bro pointed out, simply making the same mistake again. Feeling in love makes men not think straight.

And be prepared you might end up with no one at all. No woman, no family. Just yourself, and hopefully some friends.
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