husband neglect me after marriage. need advise.

[asker_01]

Seems to me maybe holiday starting somewhere....

[itsabt6x]

Originally Posted by Yardstick

Very strange... after the very first post to start the thread, TS just disappear...

Maybe the husband saw her post here & is now giving her a good screw everyday in every way.

[dark3r]

this kind reasons only got a few

work too tiring causing no drive
stress over money / uncertainties causing no mood
very unattractive / boring partner
no good shiok experience with partner

[mandyiee]

Hi all, sorrry for the late update.
These few week we have a big fight, everything goes in a mess. Now i know y he neglet me.2 week ago i caught him msg a girl frm fb ask for number and he offer her a ride hm that where we start the flight.. His heart already dont have me. And told me he is not longer interested in me. That make me break down n feel that no point being together. I have to walk out. But i told him a condition i wan the whole house.he cant have his share.since he has already no heart in this marriage y must i have him the house right? y is he so heartless? Recently we jus bought new car.i know he wan it. I nv consider much i use my own saving for the downpayment. (Mainly my money abt 20k) i treat him so well yet he treat me like gong kia. All my bro n sis n parent ask me to leave him. No longer keep him by my side he jus make use of me.but we have being together for almost 9 years. How can i say give up like that?

[daryl76]

right from start, it points to one thing isnt it?
just need a confirmation which i guess TS had gotten it

[Sjiaojiao]

you should discuss with your family and consult a lawyer to protect your rights.

If you have a job, please do perform well.

Keep it personal and within your family.

[Nickochee]

Husband want go let him go lor. As u said ur plump n maybe he likes a more attractive partner.

Go clean up ur act n find another guy la. Whats so difficult.

[Vectra]

Originally Posted by HelloAngel

Oh and yes losing some weight might be good. Guys are born visual creatures so dolling up and taking care of your body would be a positive step. All the best TS!

The rest is not as important except this

She already said she is plump and being reject for sex. How many guys would reject sex. That's the root cause

[dgsk]

It is obvious that the man married for the money.

Listen to your family and let him go.

You wasted 9 years, you want to waste another how many more years? And how much more money?

Mid-20s you still have a chance to find someone in the next few years. But you need to change your image, and your life. Stay longer and your chances drop very very fast.

[sammicheng1000]

Originally Posted by mandyiee

Hi all, sorrry for the late update.
These few week we have a big fight, everything goes in a mess. Now i know y he neglet me.2 week ago i caught him msg a girl frm fb ask for number and he offer her a ride hm that where we start the flight.. His heart already dont have me. And told me he is not longer interested in me. That make me break down n feel that no point being together. I have to walk out. But i told him a condition i wan the whole house.he cant have his share.since he has already no heart in this marriage y must i have him the house right? y is he so heartless? Recently we jus bought new car.i know he wan it. I nv consider much i use my own saving for the downpayment. (Mainly my money abt 20k) i treat him so well yet he treat me like gong kia. All my bro n sis n parent ask me to leave him. No longer keep him by my side he jus make use of me.but we have being together for almost 9 years. How can i say give up like that?

It's just a matter of time but the longer u drag the longer u are at a disadvantage. Time is not a Friend to female. If u want out better out fast. It's lucky no children, it will only make it worst. Now go out and find a new one. U already wasted 9 years. Wake up and start anew.

[HelloAngel]

Originally Posted by Vectra

The rest is not as important except this

She already said she is plump and being reject for sex. How many guys would reject sex. That's the root cause

My bf does reject sex sometimes when I tease him at night cos he said too tired so sleep first. But next morning he makes it up. Hahaaa!

I think a good relationship should be based on more than sex. Regular sex connects a couple but if together just for sex, then the relationship won't last. It's gotto be more than that. I guess TS found her answer.

[porscheclub]

Mid-twenties is so young. You have a long way ahead!

Get a new life & new body for your own happiness.

[superdupercheek]

go to a sex shop, buy a dildo, vibrator or horse dick toy.

just masturbate when hes around, watch some porn while doing so. make sure he sees you. remind him of what hes missing out on.

i dont know about other guys, but that'll probably work on me

[Vectra]

Originally Posted by HelloAngel

My bf does reject sex sometimes when I tease him at night cos he said too tired so sleep first. But next morning he makes it up. Hahaaa!

I think a good relationship should be based on more than sex. Regular sex connects a couple but if together just for sex, then the relationship won't last. It's gotto be more than that. I guess TS found her answer.

True that in a sense need more than just sex(Of course the more the merrier) but the case is so obvious that his hubby is looking for sex as main objective...


You sure your bf tired or expended his ammo outside?

[freezetheDB]

sometimes no mood, plus not turned on. For a guy to want to have sex there require his dick to be hard. If his mind if off, turn him on with a nice bbbj. If he wants to CIM let him. It is important to realign his mind to associate you with pleasure. Soon he may be thinking about how nice his cock feels in your mouth and feel turned on whenever he is alone with you, then proceed to fuck from then on.

sometimes a man's mind is bogged by work and stress that he is so tired to think about fucking someone who is not new.