Do all of you hope to get married one day?

[DemonicSS]

On my opinion, marriage IS only a piece of paper. I am on the other side of the fence on the matter. While marriage is a legal form of commitment, you can still have commitment in your relationship without it. When you find the right person, trust me, you will never think of marriage. You will not be thinking of "hey, lets commit and go and step further, lets get serious.. let's get MARRIED!!"... Find the right person and you will be thinking more of what you want to do with your partner for the next day, next week, next year...., what you want to do together and what you want to see together. In a right relationship, you wouldn't need to prove to the world you are together.

Now, why not go through the ritual? Cause the status quo and people's perception costs alot of time and money.

But hey, I'm married . But only because in Singapore, if you do not, you do not get housing grants, kids tax bonuses. Marriage also gives some legal perks as well and besides, its to keep the older generation happy. Both our lives have not changed before and after and we tend to keep it that way. If not for the first 2 reasons, we'll gladly burn the piece of paper and sing Kum Bah Yah while doing so.

In short, marry the person whom you do not think to marry with..

[Moderator88]

I am divorced coz i spent too much time in those kampongs of wetnam! I guessed this is karma that hit me with a divorce! Dont assume your wife dont know you are fooling outside, they are just pretending not to know!Now i have repent and do lots of charities in wetnam helping those poor kids!

[doctrine]

Originally Posted by cawca

Very good points and honest. I myself am married and I think marriage is more meant for those who want children.

Thanks for the kind words. =)

Originally Posted by PaulMerson

TS, no right or wrong in marriage?

Yeah no right and wrong. I am just hoping to generate some discussion on this matter, and hear the different views.

Originally Posted by HeadOn

M approaching mid 40 n still single n dun think I will ever get married too. My current lifestyle just too Gd for me

Wow. Able to elaborate more on how good it is?

[doctrine]

Originally Posted by Moderator88

I am divorced coz i spent too much time in those kampongs of wetnam! I guessed this is karma that hit me with a divorce! Dont assume your wife dont know you are fooling outside, they are just pretending not to know!Now i have repent and do lots of charities in wetnam helping those poor kids!

Hope you are leading a fulfilling life now

[pornfunfun]

I don't know whether want to marry or not. sian. Marry got what benefit? I don't know sia.I do my business well, got financial status, work out, can date a few nice girls at once. Sian liao then can find new one.

I know I damn bastard. But i sian already. I kena betray 2 times after commit 100%. dulan max.

[HeadOn]

Originally Posted by doctrine

Thanks for the kind words. =)



Yeah no right and wrong. I am just hoping to generate some discussion on this matter, and hear the different views.



Wow. Able to elaborate more on how good it is?

When u r single u have lotsa freedom to do watever u wan or dun do watever u wan. Basically the world is under ur feet. Life short y get married n tie urself down.

[HeadOn]

Originally Posted by pornfunfun

I don't know whether want to marry or not. sian. Marry got what benefit? I don't know sia.I do my business well, got financial status, work out, can date a few nice girls at once. Sian liao then can find new one.

I know I damn bastard. But i sian already. I kena betray 2 times after commit 100%. dulan max.

If u have this thinking mean u r not ready to get married. Anyway these days many pple aren't marrying n have kids. Tats y birth rate v low n govt is thinking out of the box to encourage marriage n birth

[pornfunfun]

Originally Posted by HeadOn

If u have this thinking mean u r not ready to get married. Anyway these days many pple aren't marrying n have kids. Tats y birth rate v low n govt is thinking out of the box to encourage marriage n birth

I only have this thinking because I was betrayed.

I already planned for marriage with my ex before.

No use de. She want zao means zao already. 勉强together no point.

I give up liao. Lazy commit 100% and always end up get stabbed.

[Booker]

Marriage is really for the purpose of procreation and then ensuring your off-spring grow up well, don't be a burden to the society and then carry on the cycle.
The other factor will then be the companionship and stuffs, which is what some people seeking marriage believes.
But it requires a whole lot amount of committment and reaponsibilities, as whatever happens, for good or bad, will impact not just 1 person but the family.

My personal opinion.

[HeadOn]

Originally Posted by pornfunfun

I only have this thinking because I was betrayed.

I already planned for marriage with my ex before.

No use de. She want zao means zao already. 勉强together no point.

I give up liao. Lazy commit 100% and always end up get stabbed.

Look at the positive side she left u before marriage better than during marriage. Now u r a free man to do watever u wan. Jungle too big n too interesting to stick to one tree only. Moreover the tree will get old n boring. Being single mean u can hop from trees to trees, or to many new young tress

[doctrine]

Originally Posted by HeadOn

Look at the positive side she left u before marriage better than during marriage. Now u r a free man to do watever u wan. Jungle too big n too interesting to stick to one tree only. Moreover the tree will get old n boring. Being single mean u can hop from trees to trees, or to many new young tress

My sentiments exactly! Which is why i never feel a need to get married.

I see many of my single male friends getting somewhat desperate for a girl to spend their lives with, before they become a pot-bellied and bald man. Perfectly understandable and i'm not judging them. However, there are simply too many hot ladies out there, why get desperate over them? Just relax and enjoy the ride. =)

PS: i think i sound like a basta**. No offense to anyone here.

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by doctrine

My sentiments exactly! Which is why i never feel a need to get married.

I see many of my single male friends getting somewhat desperate for a girl to spend their lives with, before they become a pot-bellied and bald man. Perfectly understandable and i'm not judging them. However, there are simply too many hot ladies out there, why get desperate over them? Just relax and enjoy the ride. =)

PS: i think i sound like a basta**. No offense to anyone here.

You're not a bastard.
You just lack maturity n insight as a 30 plus. yr old guy.

Getting married doesn't make a guy potbellied n bald.

And marriage isn't a licence for sex.
Just read the horror storys here about no sex after marriage.

Marriage is for companionship n support even if there's no love.

As u get older, all yr married friends will mix with their other married frens talking about kids. They've little time for you n its creepy for a 40 50 yr old guy mixing with guys young enough to b yr son.

And unless youre a hermit, you need someone to eat at latest restaurants, travel, go to events n movies etc.

Someone who take care of you when you have to have yr prostate removed. Or someone to talk to when you get fucked by yr boss. Or when you're fired by yr boss.

But of cos don't expect your wife to go with u to your anime convention to see some heavily make up lian in a padded bra you love so much

Even if you don't expect kids to take care of you, wad are you going to do when you od on viagra n get a stroke or die at home? Nursing homes are very expensive n your dog will more likely eat you than help you.

And as guys get older, sex is less important for you as yr libido diminish n There are more important things to you in life.

Even if you pay, you can detect the disinterest in a 20 yr old whore fucking a 50 yr old you.

And if you don't pay, you're a cliche driving a sportscar in yr spandex shirt wearing yr tag heuer chatting up a syt. And you've nothing in common with them other than wanting to. fuck them

[sensualshirley]

I hope to get married one day~!

[doctrine]

Originally Posted by sadfa

You're not a bastard.
You just lack maturity n insight as a 30 plus. yr old guy.

Getting married doesn't make a guy potbellied n bald.

And marriage isn't a licence for sex.
Just read the horror storys here about no sex after marriage.

Marriage is for companionship n support even if there's no love.

As u get older, all yr married friends will mix with their other married frens talking about kids. They've little time for you n its creepy for a 40 50 yr old guy mixing with guys young enough to b yr son.

And unless youre a hermit, you need someone to eat at latest restaurants, travel, go to events n movies etc.

Someone who take care of you when you have to have yr prostate removed. Or someone to talk to when you get fucked by yr boss. Or when you're fired by yr boss.

But of cos don't expect your wife to go with u to your anime convention to see some heavily make up lian in a padded bra you love so much

Even if you don't expect kids to take care of you, wad are you going to do when you od on viagra n get a stroke or die at home? Nursing homes are very expensive n your dog will more likely eat you than help you.

And as guys get older, sex is less important for you as yr libido diminish n There are more important things to you in life.

Even if you pay, you can detect the disinterest in a 20 yr old whore fucking a 50 yr old you.

And if you don't pay, you're a cliche driving a sportscar in yr spandex shirt wearing yr tag heuer chatting up a syt. And you've nothing in common with them other than wanting to. fuck them

Is my english bad or you misread what i wrote? I did not mention getting married will turn a guy pot-bellied and bald. LOL.

Anyway, you are entitled to have your own judgement. I shall not comment further on this.

Originally Posted by sensualshirley

I hope to get married one day~!

You are a lady right? I think most women hope to get married? And may you find your happiness soon!

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by doctrine

Is my english bad or you misread what i wrote? I did not mention getting married will turn a guy pot-bellied and bald. LOL.

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You're not smart enough to know wad you did which resulted in my reply.

You're overall not smart enough to think abt wads written or the future or wad the subject of your own thread. You're a kid in grown up shoes.