My very unexpected first ONS with a long time ex date
P was a guy that used to date me quite often after Mike. I would just say we are more like anything also can talk about buddies but no sex stuffs the most only kiss and hug.
So, after N I was a bit depress and drinking and smoking. P came by when he heard of it knowing I'd be needing someone at that time.
P bought some wine and came over. We had two bottles of wine and smoking at the balcony. I pour out whatever question marks I had and told P.
__________________ No matter how strong a person appears to be, a person is after all a human with feelings
I asked P, am I not a good girlfriend? Actually I know the answers but just want to hear a different view from a guy.
P: nah, you're a great girlfriend but it's a waste that he doesn't know and realize that.
after hearing that I felt more depress. like wtf why it happen. at times will feel like it's a trap set up. dig a big hole and wait for me to fall into it and then run away. fiak.
__________________ No matter how strong a person appears to be, a person is after all a human with feelings
off topic a bit, but can't help to realize nowadays most guys love to cheat (btw I don't mean girls don't but not so much). Is it difficult to love just one girl only? remain faithful as in you don't go around flirting or poking every hole or any hole in front of you?
__________________ No matter how strong a person appears to be, a person is after all a human with feelings
off topic a bit, but can't help to realize nowadays most guys love to cheat (btw I don't mean girls don't but not so much). Is it difficult to love just one girl only? remain faithful as in you don't go around flirting or poking every hole or any hole in front of you?
v. hard but possible sis...but only if u treat him like there is no other man around..like he is yr KING perhaps & in the process make him feel tat you r the only girl around too ...SHOWER him wif ALL the LOVE you got & supply him wif ALL his needs & wants particularly SEX, so there no need watsoever for him to look elsewhere ...all the best sis !
btw sis, frm newspaper reports the no of girls or wives cheating r oso on the rise
v. hard but possible sis...but only if u treat him like there is no other man around like he is yr KING perhaps...SHOWER him wif ALL the LOVE you got & supply him wif ALL his needs & wants particularly SEX, so there no need for him watsoever to look elsewhere ...all the best sis !
btw sis, frm newspaper reports the no of girls or wives cheating r oso on the rise
all I can say is, guys if you like someone, or you don't like, please don't betray yourself or lie to get what you want. As you know what is karma.
__________________ No matter how strong a person appears to be, a person is after all a human with feelings
all I can say is, guys if you like someone, or you don't like, please don't betray yourself or lie to get what you want. As you know what is karma.
From logical reasoning & reading of stories of couples or husbands & wives cheating on each other, the reason why they look to others to fulfill their sexual needs, desires & satisfaction is tat these r not fully met by their current partners. Best is of cos to be open &:frank wif each other abt it but no one man or woman is able to do tat cos they know no one would ever accept a 3rd party in their r/s except those special SWING couples ..so they just feel it needless & too wasteful to spoil an o/w happy r/s by telling their partners ..tis is of cos not to say tat lying is the rite thing to do...tats why it is ALWAYS IMPT in a r/s to treat each other well ALL THE TIME & wif continuing HIGH RESPECT & LOVE so things like tis never need to happen..but granted tis is always easier said than done..sigh
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