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Old 13-05-2019, 06:37 PM
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How to explain STD to wife?

As above. Just curious how others here have dealt with this situation before. I'm sure it has happened. Thanks
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As above. Just curious how others here have dealt with this situation before. I'm sure it has happened. Thanks
Say you caught from dirty toilet seat?

Some type of STD is by mere contact so still possible. Those that need sexual act a bit impossible to explain. How would your wife find out anyway? If you are regularly chionging most likely wife not interested in sex already. Won't find out.
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

Still do with wife, maybe 1x a week. Main concern is herpes and syphilis because the rest are unlikely to catch with condom use

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Say you caught from dirty toilet seat?

Some type of STD is by mere contact so still possible. Those that need sexual act a bit impossible to explain. How would your wife find out anyway? If you are regularly chionging most likely wife not interested in sex already. Won't find out.
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Old 14-05-2019, 01:08 AM
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Still do with wife, maybe 1x a week. Main concern is herpes and syphilis because the rest are unlikely to catch with condom use
Herpes is also call HSV1 or HSV2
I have and I pass it on to my hubby without me knowing,,,
It’s incurable,,,
And when the virus attached,,,, holy shit,,,
My hubby and I are having daily medication to suppress the attack,,,
And it’s costly,,,
1 box of medz,,, Vilerm 400 mg cost approximately $120,,
Last about a month,, so 2 boxes monthly for us,,,
And it’s very very very dangerous to give birth to your child naturally,,,

And please don’t give stupid excuses that you caught it via toilet seats or hotel towel,,,
It’s sexually transmitted diseases,,,,, so it is only transmitted via physical contact,,,
The HSV,, it’s a virus,,,
virus cannot survive outside be body,,
Be it on towel or let alone,,, toilet seat,,, -__-

Always be sure you have protected casual sex!
If not you regret for life!
Your spouse might divorce you!
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

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Herpes is also call HSV1 or HSV2
I have and I pass it on to my hubby without me knowing,,,
It’s incurable,,,
And when the virus attached,,,, holy shit,,,
My hubby and I are having daily medication to suppress the attack,,,
And it’s costly,,,
1 box of medz,,, Vilerm 400 mg cost approximately $120,,
Last about a month,, so 2 boxes monthly for us,,,
And it’s very very very dangerous to give birth to your child naturally,,,

And please don’t give stupid excuses that you caught it via toilet seats or hotel towel,,,
It’s sexually transmitted diseases,,,,, so it is only transmitted via physical contact,,,
The HSV,, it’s a virus,,,
virus cannot survive outside be body,,
Be it on towel or let alone,,, toilet seat,,, -__-

Always be sure you have protected casual sex!
If not you regret for life!
Your spouse might divorce you!
May I suggest you buy Vilerm in Bangkok. It cost less than $50 for one box. You can buy it in any of the pharmacies along Sukhumvit Road between soi 2 to soi 12.
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

telling the truth, instead of making up a 'cock n bull' story, might save ur marriage
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May I suggest you buy Vilerm in Bangkok. It cost less than $50 for one box. You can buy it in any of the pharmacies along Sukhumvit Road between soi 2 to soi 12.
Unless gg for bkk holiday.... And must buy in bulk(6mths - 1yr supply) to make ur trip worthwhile(savings from monthly pills can be used for holiday and air tix) ....
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

If its a permanent infection, there isn't much you can do except to 'fess up.

For curable stuff, you can claim to want to experiment with novel condoms, while you continue to do your wife, and seek treatment. Hopefully, you won't pass it to your wife that way.
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

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May I suggest you buy Vilerm in Bangkok. It cost less than $50 for one box. You can buy it in any of the pharmacies along Sukhumvit Road between soi 2 to soi 12.
Ya,, apparently we are residing in thailand now,,
Those price I quoted is Sg price,,,
We got mine from Thailand,,,
We get it directly from the distributor,,
Coz it’s made in Thailand ya! Haha
We got it relatively cheap la,,,

But have to be honest,,,
The attack still comes la,,, although a lot lesser and we recover faster,,,
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

Hi sis, sorry to hear, that really sucks. Do you know how you caught it?

Actually the reason I asked is that I do engage in protected sex for "outside encounters", but the medical articles all say condoms only slightly reduce your chance of catching herpes

Mainly because herpes can infect sites not covered by the condom

Hence my question was focused on STDs which are more likely to pass even when condoms are used

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Herpes is also call HSV1 or HSV2
I have and I pass it on to my hubby without me knowing,,,
It’s incurable,,,
And when the virus attached,,,, holy shit,,,
My hubby and I are having daily medication to suppress the attack,,,
And it’s costly,,,
1 box of medz,,, Vilerm 400 mg cost approximately $120,,
Last about a month,, so 2 boxes monthly for us,,,
And it’s very very very dangerous to give birth to your child naturally,,,

And please don’t give stupid excuses that you caught it via toilet seats or hotel towel,,,
It’s sexually transmitted diseases,,,,, so it is only transmitted via physical contact,,,
The HSV,, it’s a virus,,,
virus cannot survive outside be body,,
Be it on towel or let alone,,, toilet seat,,, -__-

Always be sure you have protected casual sex!
If not you regret for life!
Your spouse might divorce you!
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Old 14-05-2019, 09:32 AM
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

If kena Herpes, actually there are some articles online that suggest it could have been acquired prior to the marriage / relationship, and that it was dormant for years, only suddenly presenting symptoms

I believe it is a known fact that many with Herpes do not show symptoms, so above could be one way to explain away Herpes

(versus something like chlamydia / gonorrhoea which almost surely means infidelity)
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

You can find the answer in one of the section on this forum! Just read them silently!
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

Bro,

so do u have any idea how u got it? locally or oversea like JB etc.?

as for confession, over long term have to confess, just “not too long” since u still engage in weekly sex.. just prep for the worst mentally (migh tnot happened anyway) & be nice to her during this period .. & plan on life should worst scenario happened.. life still got to move on just a different this time round..

all the best!
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Re: How to explain STD to wife?

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Hi sis, sorry to hear, that really sucks. Do you know how you caught it?

Actually the reason I asked is that I do engage in protected sex for "outside encounters", but the medical articles all say condoms only slightly reduce your chance of catching herpes

Mainly because herpes can infect sites not covered by the condom

Hence my question was focused on STDs which are more likely to pass even when condoms are used



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If kena Herpes, actually there are some articles online that suggest it could have been acquired prior to the marriage / relationship, and that it was dormant for years, only suddenly presenting symptoms

I believe it is a known fact that many with Herpes do not show symptoms, so above could be one way to explain away Herpes


(versus something like chlamydia / gonorrhoea which almost surely means infidelity)


I’m 32 and I only have 2 sex partners in my whole life,,,
One is my ex and the other is my hubby,,, Hahahaha,,, (excluding 3some experiences)

I definitely got it from my ex,,,
We were dating since my uni days,,,
He was in the army,,, and he was my first,,,
I caught him engaging in prostitution once,,,
He told me he did it to learn from the “professional” so he can give me a better experience during sex,,,,
I forgive him once,,,
Then I caught him in another relationship with a PRC who turns out to be another prostitute!! I was devesated and left him,,,
After some time, I met my current hubby,,,
We have sex and it was really really good,,
Then one day he went MIA and I was really worried,,,
He appears at my void deck one night, waiting for me and confronted me of herpes!!
I totally have no idea of it,,, I have know knowledge about it too!

Then I went for a medical check,,, although the check cannot determine when I got it,,,
But it can determine the virus was present in my body for more than a certain period ( 1 month, I think)

Mine is definately more than that,,,, and my hubby is relative very new,,,
So it meant that I pass it to him,,,
I was so so so sorry for that,,,

But why I have no knowledge that I’m a HSV carrier,,
According to our doctor,,,
Once contacted,,, HSV will attack within 2 weeks (window),,,
Symptoms will arise,,,
Difficulty in urine,,, itching on the part where the virus is developing,,
Extremely pain in the hip and the groin area,,,
First few attacks are the worst,,, you could have fever too,,,
Coz your body is trying to fight off the virus attack,,,
Then small cluster of blisters start appearing,,,
It will takes about 1-2 weeks for the blisters to harden and peel off by itself,,,
Then the wound will heal as if nothing happened,,,
So the naked eyes won’t see a different before and after herpes attack,,,
But becoz I’m a female,,,
I might have contacted it inside my vaginal,,,
Which can be seen,,, symptom might presented itself but I don’t know,, Perhaps I thought I was just sick,,,

And FYI,, chlamydia and gonorrhoea are caused by some kinda bacteria,,,
Dude,, bacteria is curable,,, HSV,, it’s a virus,,, it’s Not curable
It’s totaly different,,,

Anyway whatever ends with a V means it’s a virus,,, HSV,,, HIV,,,
Virus cannot survive outside of the body,,,
So it’s absolutely impossible to contact the virus via towel or toilet seats,,,


Well when the “blisters” accidentally burst,,, the little liquid is the deadliest!
Once contacted, must quickly wash it off,,,
If not it might lead to new virus,,,
The virus will once stay on the part which contacted,,,
That’s why got it be extremely careful,,,
If you touch it unknowingly and continue to touch your face,,
The virus might end up on your face,,,

So for my hubby,,,
Once when He thought he is healing,,,
So we have sex,, he was wearing condom,,,
The next thing we know,,,
The virus spread to other part of his penis,,,
If the liquid contacted other part near your penis or vaginal,,
Like the pubic hair area,,, yes,, herpes might have a high chance of developing the virus there,,,
Which is out of the protection of the condom!

But even when the wound seems completed heal,,,
The virus might still exist on the skin surface,,,
That’s where it will transmit to another partner if engaged in sex,,,

Mouth is also dangerous if you engage in “mouth jobs” hahaha,,,
Coz if the girl has herpes virus on her pubic area,,,
Your face will surely comes in contact when you “paint” her ya,,,

So hope that answer your question,,,

Oh and lastly,,, strictly no natural birth,,, got to go for C-sec,,,
Coz you don’t know when the attack will take place,,
If it sway sway take place during the delivery,,,
The baby contacted the virus,,, it is deadly,,
The new born will not have the immune system strong enough to fight off the virus!
So ya,, C-sec when I gave birth to my 2 boys!
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I’m 32 and I only have 2 sex partners in my whole life,,,
One is my ex and the other is my hubby,,, Hahahaha,,, (excluding 3some experiences)

I definitely got it from my ex,,,
We were dating since my uni days,,,
He was in the army,,, and he was my first,,,
I caught him engaging in prostitution once,,,
He told me he did it to learn from the “professional” so he can give me a better experience during sex,,,,
I forgive him once,,,
Then I caught him in another relationship with a PRC who turns out to be another prostitute!! I was devesated and left him,,,
After some time, I met my current hubby,,,
We have sex and it was really really good,,
Then one day he went MIA and I was really worried,,,
He appears at my void deck one night, waiting for me and confronted me of herpes!!
I totally have no idea of it,,, I have know knowledge about it too!

Then I went for a medical check,,, although the check cannot determine when I got it,,,
But it can determine the virus was present in my body for more than a certain period ( 1 month, I think)

Mine is definately more than that,,,, and my hubby is relative very new,,,
So it meant that I pass it to him,,,
I was so so so sorry for that,,,

But why I have no knowledge that I’m a HSV carrier,,
According to our doctor,,,
Once contacted,,, HSV will attack within 2 weeks (window),,,
Symptoms will arise,,,
Difficulty in urine,,, itching on the part where the virus is developing,,
Extremely pain in the hip and the groin area,,,
First few attacks are the worst,,, you could have fever too,,,
Coz your body is trying to fight off the virus attack,,,
Then small cluster of blisters start appearing,,,
It will takes about 1-2 weeks for the blisters to harden and peel off by itself,,,
Then the wound will heal as if nothing happened,,,
So the naked eyes won’t see a different before and after herpes attack,,,
But becoz I’m a female,,,
I might have contacted it inside my vaginal,,,
Which can be seen,,, symptom might presented itself but I don’t know,, Perhaps I thought I was just sick,,,

And FYI,, chlamydia and gonorrhoea are caused by some kinda bacteria,,,
Dude,, bacteria is curable,,, HSV,, it’s a virus,,, it’s Not curable
It’s totaly different,,,

Anyway whatever ends with a V means it’s a virus,,, HSV,,, HIV,,,
Virus cannot survive outside of the body,,,
So it’s absolutely impossible to contact the virus via towel or toilet seats,,,


Well when the “blisters” accidentally burst,,, the little liquid is the deadliest!
Once contacted, must quickly wash it off,,,
If not it might lead to new virus,,,
The virus will once stay on the part which contacted,,,
That’s why got it be extremely careful,,,
If you touch it unknowingly and continue to touch your face,,
The virus might end up on your face,,,

So for my hubby,,,
Once when He thought he is healing,,,
So we have sex,, he was wearing condom,,,
The next thing we know,,,
The virus spread to other part of his penis,,,
If the liquid contacted other part near your penis or vaginal,,
Like the pubic hair area,,, yes,, herpes might have a high chance of developing the virus there,,,
Which is out of the protection of the condom!

But even when the wound seems completed heal,,,
The virus might still exist on the skin surface,,,
That’s where it will transmit to another partner if engaged in sex,,,

Mouth is also dangerous if you engage in “mouth jobs” hahaha,,,
Coz if the girl has herpes virus on her pubic area,,,
Your face will surely comes in contact when you “paint” her ya,,,

So hope that answer your question,,,

Oh and lastly,,, strictly no natural birth,,, got to go for C-sec,,,
Coz you don’t know when the attack will take place,,
If it sway sway take place during the delivery,,,
The baby contacted the virus,,, it is deadly,,
The new born will not have the immune system strong enough to fight off the virus!
So ya,, C-sec when I gave birth to my 2 boys!
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