Young married 30yo M looking for lookers

[sologuy777]

.. and by lookers i mean you, the viewer, who isn't a bro and is looking for someone that you are unlikely to meet outside of this forum.

My stats:
race = Chinese
looks = above average / handsome
height = 1.78 m
weight = 75 kg
age = 30 (I look younger than my age)
body = above average fitness

Non-smoking, social drinker with no tattoos.


About me:
I'm a cool guy that girls like hanging out with and have no problem getting dates.. only problem is that I'm married! To a happy wife who has a not-so-happy husband. That should give you a hint about how it is being around me.

I'm a relative newbie in this forum. Chionged a bit and stopped, kept myself DD-free and am now looking for something more.. substantial.

Don't have a strong preference for ladies' stats. Only dealbreaker for me is obesity (which is a turn off for me, like the seriously overweight kind), else anything else is cool. I always believe chemistry matters most, and plenty of times it's the girls' who have a more stringent criteria checklist.

So anyone keen to chat/meet up with a young looking guy with high sex drive, drop me a PM or something. Let's see if we can hit it off.

P.S.: Will share pics via other medium if i get comfortable with you. Pirvacy matters to me.

[masterwanker]

You not scare your wife will kick you out of the house ?

[RAMS75]

Good luck TS !!
Y.O.L.O enjoy to the fullest

[sologuy777]

Originally Posted by masterwanker

You not scare your wife will kick you out of the house ?

Gotta deal with it IF that happens 😉

[peanodood1337]

First off... got pic?

Originally Posted by sologuy777

I'm a cool guy that girls like hanging out with and have no problem getting dates..

So why are you posting here?

Originally Posted by sologuy777

...I'm married! To a happy wife who has a not-so-happy husband. That should give you a hint about how it is being around me.

The hint being that you are a cheating scumbag?

[sologuy777]

Originally Posted by peanodood1337

First off... got pic?



So why are you posting here?



The hint being that you are a cheating scumbag?

Sure, we'll talk about pics in private if you're interested. Posting here because I've never tried this venue before and am curious. Besides here means that i can find like-minded folks easier. Having to deal with girls who are always hoping that I'm single or trying to make me single can be annoying.

Also yes, I wanna be a cheating scumbag so the least i can do is be open and honest about who i am to the person i cheating with.

If you're really asking about my personality minus the seemingly judgemental sarcasm, there's are plenty of reasons why she's a happy wife. But that's not for sharing here and hence why i don't elaborate. If that didn't get across to you then it's cool.

[peanodood1337]

You are not wrong, I am being judgmental. Usually, I just lurk and get amused at posts like yours. But I don't like cheaters. Hence the comment.

But hey, at least you are gutsy and honest about your planned infidelity. So here's 2cts from someone who has actually hooked up before via SBF - lose the "cool guy" bit. Not the least bit convincing. If you are so "cool" in real life, with "no problem getting dates", and girls like hanging out with you all the time, wtf are you doing here? That's what anyone who reads your post would think.

Also, the "look younger than your age" part just reeks of desperation. You are only 30, you are not supposed to look like an old fart. There is no need to hard sell your "young" looks.

Oh, and who would outright advertise themselves as "handsome"? Seriously? Ego trip much? If you are so confident about your looks and "above average fitness" bod, why don't you post a pic?

Would usually wish people "good luck" with their search at this point. But as above, I don't like cheaters. While you didn't exactly solicit advice about matrimonial life, I hope you can sort out whatever issues you have, and go home to your wife before you fuck things up irrevocably.

Best wishes.

[FreebiezWanker]

Well said, up u 4

Originally Posted by peanodood1337

You are not wrong, I am being judgmental. Usually, I just lurk and get amused at posts like yours. But I don't like cheaters. Hence the comment.

But hey, at least you are gutsy and honest about your planned infidelity. So here's 2cts from someone who has actually hooked up before via SBF - lose the "cool guy" bit. Not the least bit convincing. If you are so "cool" in real life, with "no problem getting dates", and girls like hanging out with you all the time, wtf are you doing here? That's what anyone who reads your post would think.

Also, the "look younger than your age" part just reeks of desperation. You are only 30, you are not supposed to look like an old fart. There is no need to hard sell your "young" looks.

Oh, and who would outright advertise themselves as "handsome"? Seriously? Ego trip much? If you are so confident about your looks and "above average fitness" bod, why don't you post a pic?

Would usually wish people "good luck" with their search at this point. But as above, I don't like cheaters. While you didn't exactly solicit advice about matrimonial life, I hope you can sort out whatever issues you have, and go home to your wife before you fuck things up irrevocably.

Best wishes.

[sologuy777]

Originally Posted by peanodood1337

You are not wrong, I am being judgmental. Usually, I just lurk and get amused at posts like yours. But I don't like cheaters. Hence the comment.

But hey, at least you are gutsy and honest about your planned infidelity. So here's 2cts from someone who has actually hooked up before via SBF - lose the "cool guy" bit. Not the least bit convincing. If you are so "cool" in real life, with "no problem getting dates", and girls like hanging out with you all the time, wtf are you doing here? That's what anyone who reads your post would think.

Also, the "look younger than your age" part just reeks of desperation. You are only 30, you are not supposed to look like an old fart. There is no need to hard sell your "young" looks.

Oh, and who would outright advertise themselves as "handsome"? Seriously? Ego trip much? If you are so confident about your looks and "above average fitness" bod, why don't you post a pic?

Would usually wish people "good luck" with their search at this point. But as above, I don't like cheaters. While you didn't exactly solicit advice about matrimonial life, I hope you can sort out whatever issues you have, and go home to your wife before you fuck things up irrevocably.

Best wishes.

Life likes to be an asshole. I used to hate cheaters, but hey, now i decided to join them. So I know how you feel, and why you decided to make the post and all.

Which is why I'm not really bothered by what you had to say.

I do however, appreciate the advice on hooking up and marriage. I'm not out to be someone I'm not. I'm cool and I know it 😎 and I'm not out to get into someone's pants.

If I seemed desperate to potential partners, hey, it's cool because if someone's gonna make prejudgements of me before they even met me, so be it. Not my loss really.

Ego trip..? Not really. Just saying it as it is. No pics because of obvious reasons yo =) again if that's how people are gonna think about me before they met me, I'm fine. We don't have to cross paths.

Believe it or not, thank you. I appreciate the hard advice and understand your fiery words due to your dislike of cheaters.

Mayhap it may soothe you somewhat to know that my wife isn't exactly a "pristine wife model" person. I've shared too much details than I'd like in a public post, but passionate replies deems a proper reply in return. It's only respectful.

To each our own, and hope you have a great weekend.

[peanodood1337]

Ok in the absence of any actual evidence, I'll just take your word that you are a cool handsome guy. But nope, my general opinion of you is not changing just because your wife isn't "exactly pristine wife model". Two wrongs don't make a right. She is your wife, you should sort things out with her instead of making adulterous amorous advertisements here behind her back.

Ah well... I believe I made my point and see no further need to flog a dead horse. It's your life and you get to decide how you want to live it. So the only thing left that I find objectionable is this:

Originally Posted by sologuy777

I'm not out to get into someone's pants.

Really? Let me draw your attention to a specific portion of your original post:

Originally Posted by sologuy777

So anyone keen to chat/meet up with a young looking guy with high sex drive, drop me a PM or something. Let's see if we can hit it off.

Stop BSing people. You are indeed trying to get into someone's pants. Would you be "looking for lookers" in the "Orgies/Swinging/Fuck-Buddies/Sugar-Daddies" section of a sex discussion forum otherwise?

To each his own indeed. Good luck.

[sologuy777]

Originally Posted by peanodood1337

Ok in the absence of any actual evidence, I'll just take your word that you are a cool handsome guy. But nope, my general opinion of you is not changing just because your wife isn't "exactly pristine wife model". Two wrongs don't make a right. She is your wife, you should sort things out with her instead of making adulterous amorous advertisements here behind her back.

Ah well... I believe I made my point and see no further need to flog a dead horse. It's your life and you get to decide how you want to live it. So the only thing left that I find objectionable is this:



Really? Let me draw your attention to a specific portion of your original post:



Stop BSing people. You are indeed trying to get into someone's pants. Would you be "looking for lookers" in the "Orgies/Swinging/Fuck-Buddies/Sugar-Daddies" section of a sex discussion forum otherwise?

To each his own indeed. Good luck.

I knew you were gonna pounce on that. I shouldn't have the need to explain to you how adult relationships work and why we're here in the first place.

In fact why we're even discussing marital loyalty is puzzling enough as is.

I'm not BSing anyone. Who's forcing who to sleep with me? Id there's no sex. So be it. I have a high sex drive. I want sex. But I'm not looking to get into people's pants. If sex happens, it happens. If it doesn't, so be it.

There's a difference which you don't seem to understand. More likely you refuse to because in your perspective I'm just a scumbag cheater wannabe and hence is not worth evaluating above anything else.

Therefore, chill bro. I'm not your enemy. Look at my points: you feel happy now?

Have a good weekend.

[sologuy777]

Originally Posted by peanodood1337

Ok in the absence of any actual evidence, I'll just take your word that you are a cool handsome guy. But nope, my general opinion of you is not changing just because your wife isn't "exactly pristine wife model". Two wrongs don't make a right. She is your wife, you should sort things out with her instead of making adulterous amorous advertisements here behind her back.

Ah well... I believe I made my point and see no further need to flog a dead horse. It's your life and you get to decide how you want to live it. So the only thing left that I find objectionable is this:



Really? Let me draw your attention to a specific portion of your original post:



Stop BSing people. You are indeed trying to get into someone's pants. Would you be "looking for lookers" in the "Orgies/Swinging/Fuck-Buddies/Sugar-Daddies" section of a sex discussion forum otherwise?

To each his own indeed. Good luck.

Originally Posted by peanodood1337

Ok in the absence of any actual evidence, I'll just take your word that you are a cool handsome guy. But nope, my general opinion of you is not changing just because your wife isn't "exactly pristine wife model". Two wrongs don't make a right. She is your wife, you should sort things out with her instead of making adulterous amorous advertisements here behind her back.

Ah well... I believe I made my point and see no further need to flog a dead horse. It's your life and you get to decide how you want to live it. So the only thing left that I find objectionable is this:



Really? Let me draw your attention to a specific portion of your original post:



Stop BSing people. You are indeed trying to get into someone's pants. Would you be "looking for lookers" in the "Orgies/Swinging/Fuck-Buddies/Sugar-Daddies" section of a sex discussion forum otherwise?

To each his own indeed. Good luck.

I knew you were gonna pounce on that. I shouldn't have the need to explain to you how adult relationships work and why we're here in the first place.

In fact why we're even discussing marital loyalty is puzzling enough as is.

I'm not BSing anyone. Who's forcing who to sleep with me? Id there's no sex. So be it. I have a high sex drive. I want sex. But I'm not looking to get into people's pants. If sex happens, it happens. If it doesn't, so be it.

There's a difference which you don't seem to understand. More likely you refuse to because in your perspective I'm just a scumbag cheater wannabe and hence is not worth evaluating above anything else.

Therefore, chill bro. I'm not your enemy. Look at my points: you feel happy now?

Have a good weekend.

[sologuy777]

Originally Posted by peanodood1337

Ok in the absence of any actual evidence, I'll just take your word that you are a cool handsome guy. But nope, my general opinion of you is not changing just because your wife isn't "exactly pristine wife model". Two wrongs don't make a right. She is your wife, you should sort things out with her instead of making adulterous amorous advertisements here behind her back.

Ah well... I believe I made my point and see no further need to flog a dead horse. It's your life and you get to decide how you want to live it. So the only thing left that I find objectionable is this:



Really? Let me draw your attention to a specific portion of your original post:



Stop BSing people. You are indeed trying to get into someone's pants. Would you be "looking for lookers" in the "Orgies/Swinging/Fuck-Buddies/Sugar-Daddies" section of a sex discussion forum otherwise?

To each his own indeed. Good luck.

I knew you were gonna pounce on that. I shouldn't have the need to explain to you how adult relationships work and why we're here in the first place.

In fact why we're even discussing marital loyalty is puzzling enough as is.

I'm not BSing anyone. Who's forcing who to sleep with me? Id there's no sex. So be it. I have a high sex drive. I want sex. But I'm not looking to get into people's pants. If sex happens, it happens. If it doesn't, so be it.

There's a difference which you don't seem to understand. More likely you refuse to because in your perspective I'm just a scumbag cheater wannabe and hence is not worth evaluating above anything else.

Therefore, chill bro. I'm not your enemy. Look at my points: you feel happy now?

Have a good weekend.

[FreebiezWanker]

Originally Posted by sologuy777

Which is why I'm not really bothered by what you had to say.

You dont seem like you not bothered leh.

Newbie, go read other threads how to handle it. If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen dude.

Want free fucks u think just post n pussies all come to u? Try HWZ or Craigslist la knn.

[sologuy777]

Originally Posted by FreebiezWanker

You dont seem like you not bothered leh.

Newbie, go read other threads how to handle it. If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen dude.

Want free fucks u think just post n pussies all come to u? Try HWZ or Craigslist la knn.

So i should just ignore? If you noticed I've been civil in my replies? Have i been rude?

This is a forum to chat right? Guy seems to wanna know about me so i chat la?

And now you're pissed. Why? I make a post, people PM or not is not neither of our problem right? And free pussy by posting so easy ah? Please teach me master.

No sarcasm, because I've tried before way back before i was married or attached ok?

My question though: why are you pissed?