Option 1
Assume you are the hero that wants to help, tricky affair according to this website. http://www.aware.org.sg/information/abortion/
Basically for a domestic helper, if she has to keep it from her employer, how...
If she is only 3 weeks, there could also be chances her employer will send her back without stating she is pregant, so they won't get into trouble with MOM.
Option 2
If you are the sharp-shooter that score the shot.
Same process as listed in the website.. but most prob have to deal with the wrath of the wife.
Maybe you can start another thread asking for advice on that later.
Option 3
If the helper is only asking you for money to help her... then do us a favour, donate the money to some charitable organisation instead. If not, just donate to boss here and keep the forum going.
Option 3
If the helper is only asking you for money to help her... then do us a favour, donate the money to some charitable organisation instead. If not, just donate to boss here and keep the forum going.
Before you guys started to give all the shitty words, let me clear this first.
I just get to know this Myanmar maid via wechat. Knn, got conned by Singaporean guy to bed. And now, she is preg. based on what she said I think about 3 weeks preg.
Firstly, she doesn't want to go back Myanmar. So anyway, you experience bros, can help to do abortion in Singapore without informing MOM.
But simple minded thats y got fuck and run by bastard.
I just want to help her as much as I could. She still a parents (70s) and 4 siblings studying in Myanmar.
So please help. Although is bad karma but in a way we are generating good karma. If she send back, no work no money, all will die at home. And abortion is one life and moreover 30days, but we save the whole family.
This is not laughing matter, so please give wise words.
First time, getting into this. Also, don't good or bad. I met her 2 times, and the feeling with her is good. I am married but not into sex with her.
Thank you.
This is no laughing matter indeed....
In order to help her and not get yourself onto trouble I suggest u discuss this with your wife and see if can come up with a solution as woman should know their rights better...
Frankly speaking there's not much help can be found here.
Only thing here in Sinkieland you cannot buy the pill over the counter. Need to see a gynae to do so.
Can get the pill in neighbor country.
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Originally Posted by cupid xpress
TS, as mentioned by Bro Boarding.
There's this pill that take orally and abortion. But problem is no lobang to buy.
You can try asking around in LP, some maid got lobang there. Approx $350/pill. One is good enough.
Why am I not surprised men make the abortion pill RU486 sound like Panadol?? The RU486 pill is not easy or convenient!!!
To use RU486, there is good reasons for a doctor or gynae to see her first, and do ultrasound to check the pregnancy state.
RU486 method is actually 3 pills. After ultrasound confirmed the pregnancy, she take 1 at first, probably at a clinic and then 2 more pills the next day. This method causes miscarriage, making the foetus come out from... you know... where you also came out from. Ask your mummy.
For a week, the woman will bleed, likely very heavy bleeding and intense abdominal pain. It is like the worst period in her whole life... enough pain and inconvenience to get 1 week medical leave using this method. No work for a week or so. After that week, she must return to the clinic to ultrasound again to confirm the baby has come out of her body... through her... you know... ask your mummy where you came out from! If it was not successful, surgical method is used.
RU486 method is only about 90% effective... 10% failure chance... and only for very early detected pregnancy. It is effective for normal pregnancy up to about 7-9 weeks, and cannot be used for those abnormal or complicated pregnancy. Women periods are mostly 4 weeks, but it can change due to sickness, stress, not enough sleep, etc. She may not think anything is wrong until later... 5th or 6th week, and then decided something odd... then test for pregnancy. When found out pregnant, discuss with the man, decide what to do, how much it cost, and make a clinic appointment, she may be just in time, or too late, to use this method.
__________________ "If I told you 'bout my sex life, you'd call me a slut. When boys be talking about their bitches, no one's making a fuss. There is a glass ceiling to break." Lily Allen
Anyway I just say the methods and left TS to decide. Knowing he will not be able to procure the med here. Reason why I said need to see gynae to get.
Thks for your detail below.
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Originally Posted by wondergal
Why am I not surprised men make the abortion pill RU486 sound like Panadol?? The RU486 pill is not easy or convenient!!!
To use RU486, there is good reasons for a doctor or gynae to see her first, and do ultrasound to check the pregnancy state.
RU486 method is actually 3 pills. After ultrasound confirmed the pregnancy, she take 1 at first, probably at a clinic and then 2 more pills the next day. This method causes miscarriage, making the foetus come out from... you know... where you also came out from. Ask your mummy.
For a week, the woman will bleed, likely very heavy bleeding and intense abdominal pain. It is like the worst period in her whole life... enough pain and inconvenience to get 1 week medical leave using this method. No work for a week or so. After that week, she must return to the clinic to ultrasound again to confirm the baby has come out of her body... through her... you know... ask your mummy where you came out from! If it was not successful, surgical method is used.
RU486 method is only about 90% effective... 10% failure chance... and only for very early detected pregnancy. It is effective for normal pregnancy up to about 7-9 weeks, and cannot be used for those abnormal or complicated pregnancy. Women periods are mostly 4 weeks, but it can change due to sickness, stress, not enough sleep, etc. She may not think anything is wrong until later... 5th or 6th week, and then decided something odd... then test for pregnancy. When found out pregnant, discuss with the man, decide what to do, how much it cost, and make a clinic appointment, she may be just in time, or too late, to use this method.
Why am I not surprised men make the abortion pill RU486 sound like Panadol?? The RU486 pill is not easy or convenient!!!
To use RU486, there is good reasons for a doctor or gynae to see her first, and do ultrasound to check the pregnancy state.
RU486 method is actually 3 pills. After ultrasound confirmed the pregnancy, she take 1 at first, probably at a clinic and then 2 more pills the next day. This method causes miscarriage, making the foetus come out from... you know... where you also came out from. Ask your mummy.
For a week, the woman will bleed, likely very heavy bleeding and intense abdominal pain. It is like the worst period in her whole life... enough pain and inconvenience to get 1 week medical leave using this method. No work for a week or so. After that week, she must return to the clinic to ultrasound again to confirm the baby has come out of her body... through her... you know... ask your mummy where you came out from! If it was not successful, surgical method is used.
RU486 method is only about 90% effective... 10% failure chance... and only for very early detected pregnancy. It is effective for normal pregnancy up to about 7-9 weeks, and cannot be used for those abnormal or complicated pregnancy. Women periods are mostly 4 weeks, but it can change due to sickness, stress, not enough sleep, etc. She may not think anything is wrong until later... 5th or 6th week, and then decided something odd... then test for pregnancy. When found out pregnant, discuss with the man, decide what to do, how much it cost, and make a clinic appointment, she may be just in time, or too late, to use this method.
sis, why seems really knows the inside out of the pill, not you take the lead and talk to her 1st and help her ... of cos financially you can get help form good person here
Why am I not surprised men make the abortion pill RU486 sound like Panadol?? The RU486 pill is not easy or convenient!!!
To use RU486, there is good reasons for a doctor or gynae to see her first, and do ultrasound to check the pregnancy state.
Having an abortion, no matter at which stage, is like giving birth. The woman actually needs to rest, just like a proper confinement period after delivery, to let her body recover from the ordeal.
I know the abortion process because we were on the cusp of aborting our baby (3rd child, financial restraints) few years ago but received all the proper advice from our gynae. After mulling for a few days, we decided to keep the baby. Till this day, I am glad we made the right decision.