Can't be true leh. Any guy here will allow your wife to fuck raw? Unless he is PE. Boh leh, this couple must be sick. Fucking raw with stranger......not scare preg or disease?
He think too much and watch too much fetish porn. Next round, likely he will think of getting an old man of 80 years to fuck his wife. Maybe he should try fucking an old lady too.
Wanna gain power & point, write something more logic.
Can't be true leh. Any guy here will allow your wife to fuck raw? Unless he is PE. Boh leh, this couple must be sick. Fucking raw with stranger......not scare preg or disease?
He think too much and watch too much fetish porn. Next round, likely he will think of getting an old man of 80 years to fuck his wife. Maybe he should try fucking an old lady too.
Wanna gain power & point, write something more logic.
Did you just read the last line and replied and did you even read the whole post? Did I even say I allowed it? And didn't I mention her tubes are tied?
Idiots like you read only 1 line and blab out a bunch of garbage - and you even dare talk about logic.
Anyway, I'm not going to update this thread anymore because there's no shortage of childish folks like you.
Wife and I have been doing soft swing lifestyle for maybe 2 years now. Soft swing (or soft play) means all kinds of play, oral sex, sucking, fingering, etc. but no penetration sex. Obviously this is done with a 3rd party. Normally my wife would go for a massage, and during the massage, the playing also follows.
She have three regular masseurs and a few more irregular ones who did it only once. The massages are free since the guy also enjoy the soft play. I've always arranged for these sessions, and sometimes I wait outside the room, but for the regular ones I'm not present. I leave them alone to have the privacy. As I said, these massages have been going on quite regularly for about 2 years now.
I have a fetish of another man having sex with my wife, so whenever she goes for these massages, I encourage her to increase the hot meter, and let the guy penetrate her. She have always refused, and insisted that having sex crosses the threshold and she don't want to do that.
So it has always remained with soft play and I also have given up the idea of another man entering her.
Recently I arranged for a new guy to give her a sensual massage. His name is SS. I even have to pay SS his massage service. One of the rarer times, but this one is not free massage. This is the first session with SS and for some reason, I decided to put a spy cam in the room. And I didn't tell my wife because I wanted her to be herself and not worry that I will see what they are doing.
But when I viewed the footage, I was surprised to see that after the massage, she actually had sex with SS. My adrenaline and blood was pumping when I saw SS banging her - that I was thinking are they having sex? I viewed the footage over again, enlarged, brightened, slow-motion, etc. and yup, she was having sex with him. Hell, I was very excited. It was like a fantasy come true. I was not angry at all as I've been encouraging her all this time.
But when I asked her if they had sex, she said no. Only play and masturbate.
So I'm quite puzzled. She doesn't know I know. And come to think of it, she's probably been having sex with her other masseurs too all this time (which is a long time). She have at least a few regulars, and a few more once-off. All were arranged by me. So I actually succeeded in asking her to have sex with another man without knowing it. I feel this is so weird and twisted as it was happening right under my nose.
After the last massage, she asked me to arrange a weekly massage with SS as his service is very good. So I already know she will be having sex with SS regularly too. And to add to that, I have to pay him for his service. He agreed to a discount of his normal rates, and charged only nominal fees. But I'm still dazed at the idea of paying a guy to have sex with my wife - I thought its the other way around as she is an attractive woman. I could put up a thread for fuck buddy at a swinger's website and many guys would be in queue and do it for free.
And add to that, her work requires her to go out and meet clients. It makes me think who else is she having sex with? Why won't she tell me - afterall I've been asking her try it.
And even more weird is that I'm going to arrange for the weekly session with SS and probably sign up a monthly massage package with him. And I find it really arousing of him entering her. And I won't tell her/them that I know about it.
I was also thinking of putting a spy cam with her regular masseurs to see if it ends with sex too (actually I know it does, but seeing is always believing). Right now she's outside meeting a client. Sometimes it makes me think if there is anything more going on? I wouldn't know.
But why do you think she hides it from me (when I condone it)?
We are all weird (me included), but let's hear your thoughts. Constructively please.
Is normal.. jus tat unlike green.. esp green hat.. hahaha I pity u..
Thank you. I have to agree with you guys. Its true - to play this game, trust is so important. I've lost this trust, because I find myself asking where she's going or what she's doing - and I'm thinking is she meeting any of the guys behind my back? I even secretly installed the Friend Finder app in her iphone and I'm actually secretly tracking her physical location.
You're right too that peeping behind her back is not the right thing to do either. Sooner or later this will lead to a breakdown and its just a recipe for disaster.
I will need to rethink and seriously I haven't decide on my next move. All I know is that I want to plant a spy cam with MM first, because I want to see it to be sure. After that then I'll think about my next move - very likely, is to stop this lifestyle.
I feel its pointless to come clean with her either - because it won't change the fact that I'll always be suspicious of her. I just have to think about my next move. Really thank you for pointing this out to me.
I also tried to arrange a session with MM this weekend - but it didn't happen because of our schedules.
Btw, for those who asked, my location is KL.
And for those who think this is a fake story - then its up to you. Very honestly, what you think is the least of my concerns.
Hey,
I think this is not the way forward. This will drive you insane and make you do crazy things, I believe.
I feel you should sit her down, and have a talk with her. Trust is like glass, once broken, you will not get a vase no matter what.
Then again, hey, isn't this what you always wanted?
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I think you are exhausted with all the thinking and planning. No target in life with only work and money. And think u going to lost your companion that make you fear of lonelines.
Sex fantasies are drug to our mind. Can be addicted and hard to pull off.
Dun know why all the time in massage place. People will grow old. So do something useful today and wasting your life
I think you are exhausted with all the thinking and planning. No target in life with only work and money. And think u going to lost your companion that make you fear of lonelines.
Sex fantasies are drug to our mind. Can be addicted and hard to pull off.
Dun know why all the time in massage place. People will grow old. So do something useful today and wasting your life
Do Something useful like what.
Give some suggestions