Perennial guilt

[desmondquek]

Hi,

It's been almost two months after my first visit to an fl. The guilt is still overwhelming, a transgression of the soul comparable to that of a murderer's ineradicable sin. What if my future gf judge me? Going to university soon.. will it hinder my ability to socialise, etc.

Boss' advice would be: like a virgin solider on the frontlines, just kill more enemies, after a while one will get used to it.

And the more hoots you give about girls, the chances of you getting them are lower.

There's also the higher philosophical view that this world of samsara is absolutely wretched, and lovers that reproduce to perpetuate this divine comedy of existence once more are the traitors who prevent the end of the unprofitable business called life in general..

HPV takes around 8 months to show up.. there's no test for it (males at least). but there's the assurance that most cases heal within 2 years.

Just want to vent out. Apologise in advance.

[Big Sexy]

ffs...fucking a FL isnt a sin..

and i dont understand... it is not like you have a gf now and have been unfaithful... so what is the guilt part about? towards your future gf???? in this century...your future GF would probably have had more sex partner than u have

Originally Posted by desmondquek

Hi,

It's been almost two months after my first visit to an fl. The guilt is still overwhelming, a transgression of the soul that is comparable to that of a murderer's ineradicable sin. What if my future gf judge me? Going to university soon.. will it hinder my ability to socialise, etc.

[IAmAwesome]

Originally Posted by Big Sexy

in this century...your future GF would probably have had more sex partner than u have

I think last century already have such women, lol

[strikeback4]

Its a transaction, you pay her money for her services full stop....

Don't think so much and affect your studies....

[milktoast]

Simple, tell your parents you want to be ordain as a monk. Then enter monkhood and all your problems will be solved.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by milktoast

Simple, tell your parents you want to be ordain as a monk. Then enter monkhood and all your problems will be solved.

Monks fuck around too.

http://www.lowellsun.com/ci_23021222...rce=rss_viewed

Sex tape roils Cambodian community
Outrage over video of monk, woman involved in disputed temple project

[Big Sexy]

mate.. i see you have edited your post
we know u are turning to the forum for solace.. but really.. there are more important things in life to do or worry about..
you will do fine.. stop worrying..

Originally Posted by desmondquek

Just want to vent out. Apologise in advance.

[mikeshinodaz]

Perhaps you can think of it this way:

Every time you feel inferior or guilty/shy to socialize, just remember that you got naked and had sex with a complete stranger.. if you can do that, nothing in this world will make you feel inferior or guilty/shy because not every guy is able to do so.. you're one of a kind!!

[strikeback4]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Monks fuck around too.

http://www.lowellsun.com/ci_23021222...rce=rss_viewed

Sex tape roils Cambodian community
Outrage over video of monk, woman involved in disputed temple project

lol seriously wtf...

[Big Sexy]

that... is the cause of his worries and guilt feeling

Originally Posted by mikeshinodaz

Every time you feel inferior or guilty/shy to socialize, just remember that you got naked and had sex with a complete stranger.. if you can do that, nothing in this world will make you feel inferior or guilty/shy because not every guy is able to do so.. you're one of a kind!!

[strikeback4]

Originally Posted by Big Sexy

that... is the cause of his worries and guilt feeling

He is not feeling shy, he just feel guilty if he can answer his future GF, if he don't tell, how his GF know correct right?

If you don't think so much into it, it will not distract his studies

[Big Sexy]

did u read my post correctly? when did i say he was feeling shy??

Originally Posted by strikeback4

He is not feeling shy, he just feel guilty if he can answer his future GF, if he don't tell, how his GF know correct right?

If you don't think so much into it, it will not distract his studies

[desmondquek]

Hi all,

Thank you your replies. I certainty feel better now. Think we shouldn't take everything in life too seriously. Once again, thanks!

[strikeback4]

Originally Posted by Big Sexy

did u read my post correctly? when did i say he was feeling shy??

No la, just agreeing with you

[strikeback4]

Originally Posted by desmondquek

Hi all,

Thank you your replies. I certainty feel better now. Think we shouldn't take everything in life too seriously. Once again, thanks!

Chill man, remember just to enjoy yourself