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Old 14-05-2018, 07:51 PM
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Re: Cheating Spouse - To forgive or not?

Thank bro, your words speak right into me. I’ve been reading a lot to get self-help. It’s a very lonely and painful journey especially for the ones who got hurt. I’m really glad to have sought advices here before I go into making rash decision that would have reflected badly onto myself, as much as I have the urge to fight for my own righteousness (那口气). After cooling down, I guess there was never any rights to talk abt, I already lost in the first place.

Now I just want to be happy and spend quality time with my kid and onto myself, to be grateful for whatever comes along. If he wishes to lie thru his teeth and thinks I’m just being nice and easy and he can continue his dark side, so be it; if I found out it’s just the end between us. Painful now to think abt it but slowly I’m getting enlightened and hopefully I see the light to the tunnel soon