Curious question - please enlighten me

[scentbug]

Originally Posted by nightscreamer

Basically, I'm very simple. So long as you are financially stable and able to give me some sense of security, dote on me I'm more than happy. I don't care what you are doing outside the house. You still wanna have your fair share of fun by all means so long as you don't bring shit home ask me to clear and make it my problem and make the whole house 乌烟瘴气 due to whatever shit outside I'm pretty fine. I believe my tolerance level is kind of high enough.

nightscreamer, you are a model life partner! Love you!

[nightscreamer]

Originally Posted by scentbug

nightscreamer, you are a model life partner! Love you!

Lol... Don't love me please...

[BernardFrosty]

Originally Posted by nightscreamer

I seriously believe in myself that I don't know you. so I definitely not that gal that you know.

Come to think of your answer, do you think it's possible to have best of both world in Singapore? Which woman would be able to take it that she herself and the mistress in staying under the same roof? Given the benefit of doubt that she may not know that the lady staying under the same roof is the mistress then again which woman won't suspect if the husband is showing so much care to a tentant?

Was only kidding with you. You can't be her. She mews and don't scream. Come to think of it, maybe that's my fault.

No girl can stand a mistress. They can't even stand having a mother-in-law !!!

[Sssh]

Originally Posted by nightscreamer

1) understands who they are to you and not clingy to you
2) understands who they are to you but very clingy to you
3) a lady who's purely out for fun but expects you to treats her like a princess and expects loads of gifts and attention from you
4) a lady who's purely out for fun but not expecting anything from you
5) a lady who pretends to be out for fun but expect you to be in a relationship with her
6) a lady who pretends to be out for fun but like to 吊你胃口?
7) a lady who pretends to be neutral but in fact she's expecting something to happen
8) a lady who is neutral ( in sense that if it happens it a bonus and if it doesn't just another new friend found)
9) a childish lady who pretends to be very mature
10) a mature lady who behave childishly

I need some enlightenment as I'm really curious. This has been a topic between some of my friends and myself. I suppose this is a correct place to get some clues since I'm in a sex forum and most guys here are experience enough to have dealt with what I've mentioned. Please help me in getting some conclusion

Thanks and huggies

Honestly, one man's meat is another man's poison. However it also depends on the man's intention for the woman; to find a partner in life or to find a partner in crime. There will be sure takers for all.

[nightscreamer]

Originally Posted by BernardFrosty

Was only kidding with you. You can't be her. She mews and don't scream. Come to think of it, maybe that's my fault.

No girl can stand a mistress. They can't even stand having a mother-in-law !!!

That's very true.... Mother in law is literally equal to monster in law...
Keke... Too many friends been saying mother in law are the scariest on earth

Originally Posted by Sssh

Honestly, one man's meat is another man's poison. However it also depends on the man's intention for the woman; to find a partner in life or to find a partner in crime. There will be sure takers for all.

Hmmm... Maybe what you say is true but I'm not sure that explains why I'm asking so much...

[BiRd13]

Originally Posted by nightscreamer

Not I don't know or rather before I commit myself I just have to know if the other party is on the same wavelength with me or not right?

Basically, I'm very simple. So long as you are financially stable and able to give me some sense of security, dote on me I'm more than happy. I don't care what you are doing outside the house.

You still wanna have your fair share of fun by all means so long as you don't bring shit home ask me to clear and make it my problem and make the whole house 乌烟瘴气 due to whatever shit outside I'm pretty fine. I believe my tolerance level is kind of high enough.

Which is why I'm asking depending on what you want find/look for from the beginning. Is it just a friend, which can lead into marriage? Or a Fuck Buddy, that satisfy one needs, and probably one that can confide in, be it inside or outside.

If searching for a friend which can lead to relationship or marriage, of course chemistry counts, or like you said, same wavelength. However again, to have one who have 100% similar 'wavelength' as you, it's really difficult. There's sure bound to have differs in between. Again, depending on what your basic requirement is. (Like you mentioned, financially stable and able to give you income sense of security, dote on you, is what you require) I believe many of the bros here can do that =)

Again, if searching for FB, why care about chemistry or same wavelength? Importantly is the comfortability in between, and good in bed... No?

Originally Posted by nightscreamer

Well, you can actually use my post here to talk about guys if you wanna let them know how ladies feel about them... I'm more than willing to share this topic with you. As I've met several idiotic guys personally before. I start the ball rolling then.

Few weeks back, I went coffee with 2 gfs (name them A & S) and they got 2 guys along with them and 1 of the guy is actually the bf of A (name him X) The other guy is friend of X.
When I arrived I sat down & ordered a drink for myself, as usual was dressed very revealing as all my gfs know. So we started chatting, this STUPID friend of X is really a man 贱 mouth. He has got no looks no body no $$$$ (*disclaimer : I ain't any hot babe) & he can start commenting that me & S are not pretty and we can stop our wishful thinking of getting a good other half to settle down. Given my high tolerance level, I kept quiet till A started chiding him for saying that about us.

Somebody please tell me, do you think I should keep quiet and sit there to let him 羞辱?

Well, just heck care that person... Perhaps he's jealous that can't get hold of you? Hence say those bo liao stuff?

[nightscreamer]

Originally Posted by BiRd13

Which is why I'm asking depending on what you want find/look for from the beginning. Is it just a friend, which can lead into marriage? Or a Fuck Buddy, that satisfy one needs, and probably one that can confide in, be it inside or outside.

If searching for a friend which can lead to relationship or marriage, of course chemistry counts, or like you said, same wavelength. However again, to have one who have 100% similar 'wavelength' as you, it's really difficult. There's sure bound to have differs in between. Again, depending on what your basic requirement is. (Like you mentioned, financially stable and able to give you income sense of security, dote on you, is what you require) I believe many of the bros here can do that =)

Again, if searching for FB, why care about chemistry or same wavelength? Importantly is the comfortability in between, and good in bed... No?


Hmmm.... Yes I do agree most of them here can but definitely not for me I would say... Lol... Yes for satisfying each other's needs only looking for comfort level and bedminton skills

Well, just heck care that person... Perhaps he's jealous that can't get hold of you? Hence say those bo liao stuff?

Thanks for comforting me... Hugs

[BiRd13]

Originally Posted by nightscreamer

Thanks for comforting me... Hugs

I will prefer real hugs though... haha...
And you are most welcome... I'm just sharing my thoughts

[nightscreamer]

Originally Posted by BiRd13

I will prefer real hugs though... haha...
And you are most welcome... I'm just sharing my thoughts

Real hugs? Hmmm... Come find me I'll give you the real hugs then...

[BiRd13]

Originally Posted by nightscreamer

Real hugs? Hmmm... Come find me I'll give you the real hugs then...

pm me your add...i go find u...haha

[nightscreamer]

Originally Posted by BiRd13

pm me your add...i go find u...haha

You so funny lor....

[AmeShin]

Only no8


Anyway if its for serious relationship many factors contribute to attraction




Imo,
Sometimes confident gals are attractive, but not to the extent of arrogance

Some find cute gals who need someone to depend on or take care attractive as they feel like protecting them

While some prefer gals who.are.mature and take care of their partners more attractive instead

Whether or not a gal is attractive , other than looks, it still also depend on what traits the guy has. That may attract him or compensate.and balance the opposite or negative traits he has.


Thus attraction also depend on personality if its for relationship wise. Else for fb most likely physically factors are counted for attraction

[nightscreamer]

Originally Posted by AmeShin

Only no8


Anyway if its for serious relationship many factors contribute to attraction




Imo,
Sometimes confident gals are attractive, but not to the extent of arrogance

Some find cute gals who need someone to depend on or take care attractive as they feel like protecting them

While some prefer gals who.are.mature and take care of their partners more attractive instead

Whether or not a gal is attractive , other than looks, it still also depend on what traits the guy has. That may attract him or compensate.and balance the opposite or negative traits he has.


Thus attraction also depend on personality if its for relationship wise. Else for fb most likely physically factors are counted for attraction

For otherwise relationships such as friends with benefits, must see physical attractive or not? All this while, I thought its just the comfort level isn't it? Confused again...

[chrys]

Originally Posted by nightscreamer

Like I stated in the topic above, I'm seriously curious on what kind of ladies attract guys.

1) understands who they are to you and not clingy to you
2) understands who they are to you but very clingy to you
3) a lady who's purely out for fun but expects you to treats her like a princess and expects loads of gifts and attention from you
4) a lady who's purely out for fun but not expecting anything from you
5) a lady who pretends to be out for fun but expect you to be in a relationship with her
6) a lady who pretends to be out for fun but like to 吊你胃口?
7) a lady who pretends to be neutral but in fact she's expecting something to happen
8) a lady who is neutral ( in sense that if it happens it a bonus and if it doesn't just another new friend found)
9) a childish lady who pretends to be very mature
10) a mature lady who behave childishly

I need some enlightenment as I'm really curious. This has been a topic between some of my friends and myself. I suppose this is a correct place to get some clues since I'm in a sex forum and most guys here are experience enough to have dealt with what I've mentioned. Please help me in getting some conclusion

Thanks and huggies

Hi, just sharing my thoughts, I have seen some ladies portray multiple types in that list, depending on what their intentions are towards the guy and the duration with which she has known the guy. Same with guys going after a specific type of personality depending on their intentions for beginning a relationship with the lady. The combinations that click will be called the chemistry one feels with the other I guess.

Personally, I'd like to say that a mature lady behaving childish has its appeal to me since she knows how to take life less serious. 8. A lady who is truly neutral will break your heart should you develop feelings for her before she does for you. Been there done that.

[AmeShin]

Originally Posted by nightscreamer

For otherwise relationships such as friends with benefits, must see physical attractive or not? All this while, I thought its just the comfort level isn't it? Confused again...

Well u may be correct for fb comfort level will do

But think deeper
In order to be comfortable obviously he or she need not be super attractive type but yet also cannot be ugly or zzzzz type ma

So a minimum certain degree of attraction must be there also right?



unless this includes the exception of guys who can engage into it as long as a lady, gal engage into fb as long as he is a guy.
Rare ma

Note also many has also conclude that for guys its easier for them to engage into ons as long as they find the gal attractive

Sadly for gals when they into ons they still have higher emotional needs than of man.this may explain why its so much easier hooking up guys than gals.
( again this statement dont apply to all , as some guys also have high emotional needs while some gals also have high urges and desires)