Are our SG gals too pamerped??

[baby85]

Originally Posted by Joris

Have to agree on this, majority of them are spoilt and materialistic.
Do we really need to have 5Cs or even more?

its 7Cs ...

another 2 would be care & concern lol

[Lsy84]

Bro Xcess! Good for you! I also intend to head across the causeway to look for my potential mate sometime soon!


To reply Sis Baby85, I got to say that in today's modern society where everything has to be done fast and quick and with the need of money, sad to say that when it comes to relationship wise, most of the girls aged 18-24 yrs old nowadays can't be depended on. They only look for these in a guy (Cars, Credit Card, Type of housing, Type of job etc.. whatever you can think with reagrds to money and prestige) they will come flocking to you like bees to honey.

Sis, what guys really want from a girl is support, trust and faith in whatever they do and most important, character. Sis, do you really think girls these days are like that? I can tell you that you can find such girls when either they are older or when they are divorced. Which is why most guys find older women more attractive...

I just find it sad, that girls these days take relationships too lightly.

[jayson]

Bros,

There are actually a few types of bitches out there... those that are young and immature will demand and ask for items and even question what kinda of car you drive.

There is another type that are smarter and more dangerous. Normally they already did their research, they will lure to you to buy expensive things for them. But as soon as they did their research on another better catch, then it is bye bye to you.

Sway sway kenna 2 of those before. With the younger and less experience bitches loss at bare minimum and got my R.O.I. plus bonus. With the more experience bitch, loss money and feelings, cos they know their game well...

for example,: immature bitches 'i like the LV bag can buy for me for our 1 month anniversary?'

Smart bitches, they wont ask but somehow they will let you know what they like normally expensive stuff and you will stupid stupid buy for them... cos they know how to play the game....

[cheongsterjon]

I see some samsters here posting going across the causeway to look for potential mates which i do agree with alot. I worked before in KL for a short stint and i found out that girls/ladies there are very different from our sg girls(but this is not to say that there aren't materialistic realistic ladies over there). From my encounter with them, they don't ask you to buy this LV and that gucci bag for them, the feeling they give me is the more homely feeling, can-be-wife-type. They are also more independent and work harder for what they want.

[ryaw]

Hey bro,

Well done on your gig on those materialistic girls man....i like that,i agree with most bros as in SG gals are materialistic but like what one bro said,they are also realistic...so we should be realistic ourselves man.....be a gentleman at 1st....spend abit get to fuck them and then break off and find another one at least u get something new and u are still spending money.

In comparison,SG guys are actually quite gentlemen liao leh.The way we behave and the kind of money we would spend on women we are considered not too bad liao....

I am currently living in states and i am dating a ABC,i was very surprised that when it comes to money,these gals will actually pay more than the guys do or they will be very forward and tell u upfront that if u wan to go out for dinner tonite then u got to pay for her bcos she has no money or something like that.I think its quite cool in a sense that they are not so materialistic and to them money is not everything unlike the fuck-up SG gals that we have back home.....

With regards
RYAW

[Sting]

Allow me to share my exprience

I found that not local SG girl but girl who work long enough in SG also had this problem.

Especially those who think they look good.

I had a client who had malaysian staff who I will said not bad looking except some attitude problem. She expect don't need pay me for my service to savage her computer problem as I am supporting her company. She will exploit her beauty and charm to make thing work. From her conversation, understand that she take it as a natural thing that man should work for her free. She even had the cheek to ask me drive her here and there. Buai pie say. I had to buy her style as I need her company business.

She really know how to take advantage.

[Xccess]

Originally Posted by Lsy84

Bro Xcess! Good for you! I also intend to head across the causeway to look for my potential mate sometime soon!

Thanks bro. There's one more thing I'll like to add in and I'm sure some of you shall the same feelings. Personally I don't go way out to impress a girl like showering her with gifts, flowers etc. I've been through those days when I'm younger, now i'm 35....maybe I'm getting lazy.....lolx

Never rush into relationship, when you least expect things to happen, they just pop up infront of you. Always keep your options open, take all the girls as regular friend and observe their character/behaviour with all the time in your hand. My wife is my best buddy, we do chill out like once a week, wine and dine etc.

Once I had a close buddy who is a girl and my uncle asked me this question "Why aren't the both of you together???" I told him we are only close buddies. He said, she can be a good gf/wife becos inorder to be your close buddy, she have accepted all ur nonsense and vice versa. Very true isn't it???


Good luck in your finding, my friend.

[Zecker]

Researchers found women who rated themselves as pretty displayed a war-like streak when fighting battles to get their own way -

BBC News - Pretty women 'anger more easily'

Was reading news today and saw this article. Well I kind of agree that most girls in Sg are materialistic but I guess that have to do with our upbringing and society. We want the 5/7Cs because we feel that upon achieving those factors, we are considered successful in life. A bit of over generalisation here but girls feel that they can take the shortcut in life by just leeching off a rich/successful guy.

[alvin36]

Hello TS... is a nice discussion thread started by you. I faced the same problem when I was in my 20s. I was having a earning a decent income, but without car and I'm not good looking and not charming. Therefore always ignored by SYT, and forget about single dates with SYT. After a few years, when approaching 30, I begin to understand this fact. In life, you choose people, people also choose you. I'm sure every guy wish to have a SYT or pretty babe as gf or wife. Same goes to those SYT, they have youth and looks, they have many choice to choose, they sure want a guy with good qualities or 5Cs, or at least handsome and charming.

I got married to a decent looking lady when I was 31, my OC is not as demanding as a typical SYT. she is just a plain office lady.

Now, I'm 38 this year, I can say that in the past 10 years, I have had about 10 FBs, but they are all not pretty, most are single lonely, and waiting for guys to show them love. You see the point ? These ladies when into 30s and still single, is considered "no body want", they will enjoy the feeling of "being wanted" by guys, and therefore very easily can develop into a FB relationship.

Honestly, nowadays, if I really want a SYT, I would just pay, F and forget about it....

As for meeting female friends, I prefer to meet someone not so pretty, because they are easier to bed. I know myself, I do not have the 5Cs to fish a pretty babe, so... better dont waste my time and $

[wingman7]

Bro Xcess,
I'm also a Singaporean staying in KL more than 5 years. Like you, meeting my wife who is a Malaysian, is the best thing happened to me. She is my best buddy and friend.

May be we should meet up one day.

Good luck to all bros looking for the right one. Like bro xcess said, keep your options open

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by LeMans

Well.... last Dec X'mas.... after I got my car for a month, I rang up the 1st SYT, Vicky, n invited her for an evening car-spinning... n she immediately just agreed.....So we met up @ her house n we head towards Changi Village..... When we reached Changi Village.... I told her to get off the car, giving excuses that I need her to see the rear of my car for me to my reversing.... But actually, I did the crude n ungentlemen way of zooming off her n left her along @ Changi Village.... n not long later.... I text her an sms... telling her that it serves as a retribution for being too materialistic, bitch....

Something so small to appease you is sufficient? What's the point of doing this BEFORE you fucked her? She could easily hail a cab home and bad-mouth you forever. Not that you care about her comments. You really never thought of bedding her as a form of revenge? Give her 1 or 2 rounds of super rough sex? Cum in mouth, face, hair all over? Poke her in the arse?

[Xccess]

Originally Posted by wingman7

Bro Xcess,
I'm also a Singaporean staying in KL more than 5 years. Like you, meeting my wife who is a Malaysian, is the best thing happened to me. She is my best buddy and friend.

May be we should meet up one day.

Wahh....we both in the same boat....Lol. Maybe we can chill out someday.



Cheerz

[Lsy84]

Originally Posted by Xccess

Thanks bro. There's one more thing I'll like to add in and I'm sure some of you shall the same feelings. Personally I don't go way out to impress a girl like showering her with gifts, flowers etc. I've been through those days when I'm younger, now i'm 35....maybe I'm getting lazy.....lolx

Never rush into relationship, when you least expect things to happen, they just pop up infront of you. Always keep your options open, take all the girls as regular friend and observe their character/behaviour with all the time in your hand. My wife is my best buddy, we do chill out like once a week, wine and dine etc.

Once I had a close buddy who is a girl and my uncle asked me this question "Why aren't the both of you together???" I told him we are only close buddies. He said, she can be a good gf/wife becos inorder to be your close buddy, she have accepted all ur nonsense and vice versa. Very true isn't it???


Good luck in your finding, my friend.

Thanks bro Xccess for your reply! I totally agree with what you said! Bro, sometimes when you want things slow and easy, the other party doesn't like or reciprocate..haizz, this is what makes me so fed up about sg girls these days. You don't when they are true to you or are out to take for a ride. They tend to fool around with you like nobody's business.

Maybe I should share with you bros out there one of past experiences with such people.

I got to know this girl a few years back through a close friend of mine. Lets call her V. Initially we started out as online pals, and we became quite close. Recently we went out together on a proper 1-1 date. After that so-called date, she initially dropped me some hints that she actually liked me.

As a normal guy, of course I would not let this opportunity slip me by lah! So I began my messenging to her giving her daily quotations and sayings to brighten up her day.

In the end, she told me that she wasn't interested in me, and wanted us to be just normal phone buddies.

I just felt that she just be more direct to me initially, and told me I just want us to be normal phone buddies, I would have gotten her message clearly...haizz

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Kudos, to the 3 short encounters, 1 giant leap for Singapore Men. Cheers,

In short, many of them are P.M.S - Pampered, Materialistic, Spoilt beyond comprehension.

[Stud00]

Bro. TS,
i like your style man. leaving her in the middle of no where.
that's what i called, sweet revenge.

my take is, we just have to be ourselves whenever we date, don't have to do things to impress the other party, end of the day, if they love you, they accept your full package.

cheers