Thanks guys for the reply regardless of sarcastic or constructive.
Anw theres some typo errors: my husband and my age gap is nine years old and I downloaded the wechat app on my phone after he slept to try and find the girls but was unable to. Thus I was confused whether he saved the contacts on his own or not.
If u found out he cheats on u, then u also cheat on him la. Can msg me anytime, i am ready to be one of your fb.
Stick back to topic, have u ask yourself what answer u want? U want divorce, u want revenge or u want to install wechat? If u cannot handle the truth, the best solution is close one eye. If u cannot close one eye, here got many hungry sex deprive energiser who nv say die to serve you whenever u need revenge. Do come here often n u will know guys here aint bad guys except cock always itchy.
my husband and i are married for less than a year and our age gap is ten nine years. i will use his phone from time to time for games and some other stuff from time to time. i have the habit of closing the apps after using.
so yesterday i saw him having the wechat app while deleting my games apps as usual and i was curious so i went to the app. i was surprised to see sexy women wearing skimpy clothes with their phone numbers and location written on their page, asking people to find them at geylang. i was very shocked and angry at the same time but i din't confront or ask him. after that i downloaded wechat and tried finding the username but i cant. did he add them on his own or?
idm my husband watching porn or viewing sexual websites because i unds men have needs and its normal. but somehow i just feel very uncomfortable and uneasy. for the record our relationship is very healthy and normal.
what should i do and what can i do? any advises? please help as i have no one else to turn to....
my 5cents worth of bull
You should consider the consequences of knowing too much FIRST before getting into it
what's the use of digging if you cannot take the consequences of negative reaction
the trick is to keep him enjoying the relationship
anyway, You did not get into this relationship to scrutinize it in the first place
selected ignorance is bliss and contributes to a happy relationship
Take a step back and think if there were instances where your husband wanted a simple hug or a kiss on your cheeks yet was rejected. Or simply where there had been a lack of communication between you and him.
Or just simply, your husband previously had been finding other ladies to satisfy his inner desires before marriage and even today his most inner desires can only still be satisfied by other ladies and not yourself.
I find that many times, sg ladies fail to keep their man because they don't know how to satisfy their man in the psychological and emotional aspect, whereas ladies from other countries do.
But of course, with me saying this, you must want to repair the marriage. Else, just get a divorce if you can't accept him for who he is now.
in order to have the contacts in wechat, he probably surfed this forum, and added the contacts which he found here or from websites offering sexual services. it is very unlikely that he could find the contacts from the wechat app itself or that the contacts mysteriously appeared on his account on their own.
on the other hand, since you have only been married less than a year, he may already have added these contacts long before you got married. he may not even be contacting them at all.
in this case, do consider 'what's past, is past.' i suggest not to bring it up because he trusted you with his phone and you should trust him too. looking up his personal chats without his permission breaks that trust and as you know, trust takes years to rebuild.
i can certainly assure you that most men will not want fuck around elsewhere if their wives satisfy them. regular sex will empty him of his seed and any desire for fornication from his head. it's biology. if his dick is hard, help him soften it in the nicest way possible.
faithfully fucking him will keep him fucking you faithfully. cheers
To put it superficially, I am not very bad looking. Petite and according to my hubby, I am the kind of type he likes.
Anw like I'd said, idm him watching porn because i know it's very normal. I don't comdemn as well. I mean come on, who doesn't? I also don't restrict his freedom. We are generally leading a healthy and happy relationship but with this finding on his phone, I am at a lost and idk what can I do. Thus coming to this forum seems to be a good choice since there are more men here and seemingly know what a man thinks and want.
Also, for the record, he just downloaded wechat because previously he don't have this app on his phone.
TS, so have you found out the truth yet? What you gonna do? Divorce, seperate, close one eye, forgive n forget, install wechat n start fucking men or go duck shop? Do let us know ok.
To put it superficially, I am not very bad looking. Petite and according to my hubby, I am the kind of type he likes.
Anw like I'd said, idm him watching porn because i know it's very normal. I don't comdemn as well. I mean come on, who doesn't? I also don't restrict his freedom. We are generally leading a healthy and happy relationship but with this finding on his phone, I am at a lost and idk what can I do. Thus coming to this forum seems to be a good choice since there are more men here and seemingly know what a man thinks and want.
Also, for the record, he just downloaded wechat because previously he don't have this app on his phone.
I'm sure he is still in love u, but that doesn't mean he won't go ard piaking other girls :-) men can separate fcuk from love... We can fcuk ard outside, but still hope to have a happy family.
what you deemed healthy may not be sufficient for him. maybe he has fantasies that you do not fulfill.
do you go down on him? dress a little bit more provocative like sexy nighties? flirt with him?
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Originally Posted by kimmykim
To put it superficially, I am not very bad looking. Petite and according to my hubby, I am the kind of type he likes.
Anw like I'd said, idm him watching porn because i know it's very normal. I don't comdemn as well. I mean come on, who doesn't? I also don't restrict his freedom. We are generally leading a healthy and happy relationship but with this finding on his phone, I am at a lost and idk what can I do. Thus coming to this forum seems to be a good choice since there are more men here and seemingly know what a man thinks and want.
Also, for the record, he just downloaded wechat because previously he don't have this app on his phone.
To put it superficially, I am not very bad looking. Petite and according to my hubby, I am the kind of type he likes.
Anw like I'd said, idm him watching porn because i know it's very normal. I don't comdemn as well. I mean come on, who doesn't? I also don't restrict his freedom. We are generally leading a healthy and happy relationship but with this finding on his phone, I am at a lost and idk what can I do. Thus coming to this forum seems to be a good choice since there are more men here and seemingly know what a man thinks and want.
Also, for the record, he just downloaded wechat because previously he don't have this app on his phone.
You want to know what a man think and want, so you create an account here? Frankly, i can tell you, in this world nobody will tell you the truth. Those who told the truth, are already charge for slander or libel if written in words, n are inside the jail. Ask yourself how many men you had slept with before, none or many? Will the husband mind, Yes or no? He will never tell the truth, U will never know the truth, so why bother to know.
I'm sure he is still in love u, but that doesn't mean he won't go ard piaking other girls :-) men can separate fcuk from love... We can fcuk ard outside, but still hope to have a happy family.
18-12-2014, 10:38 PM
Re: a just married woman's woes
