To put it superficially, I am not very bad looking. Petite and according to my hubby, I am the kind of type he likes.
Anw like I'd said, idm him watching porn because i know it's very normal. I don't comdemn as well. I mean come on, who doesn't? I also don't restrict his freedom. We are generally leading a healthy and happy relationship but with this finding on his phone, I am at a lost and idk what can I do. Thus coming to this forum seems to be a good choice since there are more men here and seemingly know what a man thinks and want.
Also, for the record, he just downloaded wechat because previously he don't have this app on his phone.
Sis Kim. Like some of the Bros here have said all men wants variety. But it does not mean that betray his love for u. Sometimes i don't understand woman can forgive man for having mistress but not men going to WL and still bring $$ back for the family.
All in all man wants a good wife that love him and be a slut in bed for him!
So every night he will be satisfied and drain off and u will not have any worries of him looking for WL.
in order to have the contacts in wechat, he probably surfed this forum, and added the contacts which he found here or from websites offering sexual services. it is very unlikely that he could find the contacts from the wechat app itself or that the contacts mysteriously appeared on his account on their own.
on the other hand, since you have only been married less than a year, he may already have added these contacts long before you got married. he may not even be contacting them at all.
in this case, do consider 'what's past, is past.' i suggest not to bring it up because he trusted you with his phone and you should trust him too. looking up his personal chats without his permission breaks that trust and as you know, trust takes years to rebuild.
i can certainly assure you that most men will not want fuck around elsewhere if their wives satisfy them. regular sex will empty him of his seed and any desire for fornication from his head. it's biology. if his dick is hard, help him soften it in the nicest way possible.
faithfully fucking him will keep him fucking you faithfully. cheers
I agree with this individual, especially his last sentence.
my husband and i are married for less than a year and our age gap is ten nine years. i will use his phone from time to time for games and some other stuff from time to time. i have the habit of closing the apps after using.
so yesterday i saw him having the wechat app while deleting my games apps as usual and i was curious so i went to the app. i was surprised to see sexy women wearing skimpy clothes with their phone numbers and location written on their page, asking people to find them at geylang. i was very shocked and angry at the same time but i din't confront or ask him. after that i downloaded wechat and tried finding the username but i cant. did he add them on his own or?
idm my husband watching porn or viewing sexual websites because i unds men have needs and its normal. but somehow i just feel very uncomfortable and uneasy. for the record our relationship is very healthy and normal.
what should i do and what can i do? any advises? please help as i have no one else to turn to....
As a man myself I think if my wife uses my didi well enough I will not have energy to eat outside. Man is a visual creature. See what he visits and try the looks that he is interested in. Learn his fetishes. Give him surprises (blowjob to wake him up in the morning). Make/buy his favorite food. Any man would be loyally addicted to such a wife.
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TS better face up to reality most men do fling around. Normal. If u think they don't fcuk around u are just like ostrich buried head in the sand.anw lucky your hubby is not gay then it is more jialat
As a man myself I think if my wife uses my didi well enough I will not have energy to eat outside. Man is a visual creature. See what he visits and try the looks that he is interested in. Learn his fetishes. Give him surprises (blowjob to wake him up in the morning). Make/buy his favorite food. Any man would be loyally addicted to such a wife.
Total agree bro.
Image if my wife BJ me everynight and end up with a happy fuck. where got energy to play outside. everyday become soft leg crab liao...
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The first 5 years of marriage is usually the hardest. Two people from different backgrounds are trying to find a way to live together.
Most bros here tell you about the sex part only. I think you should explore other areas as well.
How is your relationship? Do you two still communicate often. How often do you quarrel?
The quality of your relationship, not just the sex will determine whether he wants to eat outside. No point guessing whether he has intentions to cheat. Go for the root cause.
I mean, if you two always quarrel over trivial things, or seldom communicate, or you forever bittergourd face, he see you also sian 1 half. How to even do with you?
Maybe a young man won't mind such things just to get his sex. But he is 9 years older than you, no?
All the best to you in unravelling your man. We are not too difficult to understand.
i was surprised to see sexy women wearing skimpy clothes with their phone numbers and location written on their page, asking people to find them at geylang.
Did you find these contacts in his contact list or People Nearby?
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what I'd suggest is for you to go with the flow and most importantly satisfy all his physical and sexual needs first. That will at least ensure that you are giving all you can into the relationship and he cannot put any blame on you later on. It does require that you be open-minded and adventurous in terms of what you're willing to do to satisfy him. So you may have to make some psychological adjustment if necessary. Good luck!
The first 5 years of marriage is usually the hardest. Two people from different backgrounds are trying to find a way to live together.
Most bros here tell you about the sex part only. I think you should explore other areas as well.
How is your relationship? Do you two still communicate often. How often do you quarrel?
The quality of your relationship, not just the sex will determine whether he wants to eat outside. No point guessing whether he has intentions to cheat. Go for the root cause.
I mean, if you two always quarrel over trivial things, or seldom communicate, or you forever bittergourd face, he see you also sian 1 half. How to even do with you?
Maybe a young man won't mind such things just to get his sex. But he is 9 years older than you, no?
All the best to you in unravelling your man. We are not too difficult to understand.
Hi there, as much as I appreciate all replies from everyone, it's good to see from a different point of view such as yours.
I am in my early twenties while my hubby in his early thirties. When I first discovered the app on his phone, I was stunned beyond words and mind went blank. Many may think it's exaggerating but that's my natural and first reaction. Many thoughts went through my mind, such as me hearing many girls spilt legs while their bfs are in army or younger wives tend to cheat etc. But nope, I did nothing all the above.
We rarely quarrel, we are always together, I let him has his well deserved rest and freedom because I know how hard he is at work. I cook for him and yeah all the stuff you guys mentioned here like bj etc. Some said with the app, it meant nothing much. So it's curiosity? Or what. I just wanna understand from a man's pov. Hence I thought leaving my doubt hwre may be good since most are men here.
The first 5 years of marriage is usually the hardest. Two people from different backgrounds are trying to find a way to live together.
Most bros here tell you about the sex part only. I think you should explore other areas as well.
How is your relationship? Do you two still communicate often. How often do you quarrel?
The quality of your relationship, not just the sex will determine whether he wants to eat outside. No point guessing whether he has intentions to cheat. Go for the root cause.
I mean, if you two always quarrel over trivial things, or seldom communicate, or you forever bittergourd face, he see you also sian 1 half. How to even do with you?
Maybe a young man won't mind such things just to get his sex. But he is 9 years older than you, no?
All the best to you in unravelling your man. We are not too difficult to understand.
Hi there, as much as I appreciate all replies from everyone, it's good to see from a different point of view such as yours.
I am in my early twenties while my hubby in his early thirties. When I first discovered the app on his phone, I was stunned beyond words and mind went blank. Many may think it's exaggerating but that's my natural and first reaction. Many thoughts went through my mind, such as me hearing many girls spilt legs while their bfs are in army or younger wives tend to cheat etc. But nope, I did nothing all the above.
We rarely quarrel, we are always together, I let him has his well deserved rest and freedom because I know how hard he is at work. I cook for him and yeah all the stuff you guys mentioned here like bj etc. Some said with the app, it meant nothing much. So it's curiosity? Or what. I just wanna understand from a man's pov. Hence I thought leaving my doubt hwre may be good since most are men here.
20-12-2014, 01:22 PM
Re: a just married woman's woes
