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Betrayal.... forgive but can't forget.....
This ain't no sex story, but it could happen to any married bros here.
my friend have went through some hell issues with his wife..... Would u forgive yr spouse if she was unfaithful to u.... How will u respond to it..... Furthermore wife is pregnant with another man's child.... I know the question is being more knotty now... but i would greatly appreciate if you guys can throw in more advise/view on this matter..... My friend and his wife are married for the past nine years le.... Wife is sorry abt the whole thing... hubby still accompany her to the gynae.. confirmed the wife is pregnant with another man child as they did nt have sex for at least half a year le.... The older kid is 8 years old... younger is still five... still young boys... All along the marriage is doing ok... even if there r some quarrels going on... things will soon resumed back to normal... btw... the unfaithfulness begin when my friend is away on biz trips... He is at a loss of what to do now... Guess... he have nt forgive his wife yet... For nights he have not been sleeping well.... thinking of this problem again and again... y did this thing have to happen?... There is certainly no answers to all these questions... and he really dun understand.... as a man he can withstand the temptations... even if at times he's presented with chances to stray... but he choose not to... remembering the marriage vow... but y cant she maintain this stand?!!!!.... |
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Re: Betrayal.... forgive but can't forget.....
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I am in similar case with your friend before. My ex wife strayed when I was away on a business trip. Came back to find them fucking in the bedroom... plus on our marital bed... Your friend is really good that still accompany wife to see gynae... I doubt I can even do that...
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but tink about kids? his love for his wife? innocent baby inside stomach? |
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Re: Betrayal.... forgive but can't forget.....
depends on whether the wife wants to repent ler...
if consistently make this mistake, then also hard to keep forgiving? |
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Re: Betrayal.... forgive but can't forget.....
U mean to make sure wife have a clean cut off with that guy before to forgive her?
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Re: Betrayal.... forgive but can't forget.....
ts ,
from my pov . even if your friend forgive his wife and willing to raise the kid , when times goes , i believe the thorn is still there . when things go ugly , these past issue will be brought up . no guys ( maybe not all ) will willing to stuff these things inside them self and treat nothing happen . i advise your friend to do a clean break up with his wife . no point carry on . i admits guys are selfish . we allow ourselves to stray ( we even give tons of excuse for doing it ) but when come to wifey , im sorry . its a diffrent issue already .... so , ya . if im your friend . i will bid good bye to my wife .
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Re: Betrayal.... forgive but can't forget.....
got children tough leh....
can't have clean break... |
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Re: Betrayal.... forgive but can't forget.....
Comment by my friend...
Been doing alot of reflection...... The fault does not lie with her completely... i need to take partial responsibility for the outcome today... perhaps i am unable to fulfill her emotional needs ba.... Giving that bastard a chance to be near her...... But bros what i dun understand is.... I am working hard for the family... even though i am away on biz trips... i will call her daily and keep my lines open..... i do all these for accountability purposes... she can reach me at any pt of time without the fear i will be sleeping around even when i am away.... and did i nt keep a distance from those ktv girls... As a man... would i nt be tempted.... ...YES! the ans is obvious.... esp those girls r all dressed sleazily.... but i choose NOT to stray.... to go back hotel early... y am i doing all these?.. To keep my marriage vows and stick to my principles.... But what happened in the end?... this outcome is NOT within my expectations.... Y is it so difficult to even keep to the marriage vow?.... Last edited by 5121314; 27-05-2014 at 07:08 PM. |
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Re: Betrayal.... forgive but can't forget.....
Bro, for your friend situation, he should ask how deep is his love to his wife. Once there is a crack and betrayal, you won't build back the trust. The relation will not be the same again.
When he is on another biz trip, he may think is my wife sleep without another man again? Or flirt with other man? |
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Re: Betrayal.... forgive but can't forget.....
human are the most confusing animal ( or rather creatures ) on the earth .
we always try our best to follow what we know its correct ( by right ) and yet in our heart , we always chose to follow the temptation ( which is by left ) . when things happen , one party blame the whole world ( other than him/her self ) . one party will blame ownself why this such of thing happen desipte everything he or she had done . no right or wrong . things happen for a reason . forgive N forget . let it go . when there is a first time , second time will come .
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Re: Betrayal.... forgive but can't forget.....
Thanks, hope my brother see it.
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Re: Betrayal.... forgive but can't forget.....
Ask e wife y he shld forgive her..
Man can stray without feeling But woman normally need to feel then can stray...can sex.. So can she really stay till w end.. I don't support divorce coz of e kids.. |
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Re: Betrayal.... forgive but can't forget.....
Does your friend screw behind his wife?
if he does, will he hope that his wife will forgive him if he is caught? if he doesn't, I dun think their relationship will last as he will not be able to put this behind. |
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Imagine wife find out husband impregnate his lover? Will she forgive? Agree, for ladies its 有爱才有性. |
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