Why do smart chio local girls go for English Speaking Bros?

[BoinKING]

drive up to them with a lambo and make it rain.

In any case, culturally the ones that are aiming for the jobs that allows them to "look nice" would have to be adequate in conversing in proper english because of the demo graphics.

but hor, end of the day its your personality that counts.

In the end, the question is why should they waste their time with you?
If you're boring even ugly girl also hiam you.

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by onlyhuman

Eh Seriously I am not ur bro...and I am not assuming.

What social perception...social perception is only used by guys like u who thinks these girls are out of ur league.

My point is with confidence in yourself...you can have anything u wants...
Nothing to do with what better English or etc or chicks that is out of reach..

It's basically how much u want that pretty girl. There is nothing out of reach.
Some people dream abt success while others wakes up and work towards it.

Nb, is this wat Singapore education taught u? To be a wimp and backs off when u see the girl of ur dream? To run away for difficulties because the problem is unsolvable? That's social perception for u fat boy.

PS: I pity the prc chick that's with u.

Onlyhuman

hahaha well said bro. fat boy came here start threads expecting ppl to spoon-feed him with answers. then start behaving like a spoilt brat when others gave him the answers which he wasn't expecting. typical attitude of the younger generation we encountered these days. sigh...

[AhGui85]

hey bro, ps ah.. but i just got to say this..

when i do emceeing or voice overs, or whenever i speak proper english, people will think i have a slang, but that is not true..

Whenever i speak proper english, the pronounciation becomes very important, so much so that it sounds like a slang...

but i can also speak chinese, hokkien, abit of cantonese and such...

So i dont see why people see themselves as atas when they can only speak english...

cheer up bro, u will find one soon enough

[anikisan]

Originally Posted by fatfella

Hey bros, this is just a observation. I have found most of chio young girls these days are always with ang mohs, mixed bros or local bros who speak with a slang or speak proper english without singlish.

I am a local bro. Studied locally in neighborhood school and went to NJC, NUS. I'm a very standard bro. I'm mostly a chinese oriented bro at home. Parents watch chinese shows and I like Korean dramas and chinese shows. Of course i watch english shows too but mostly chinese.

I have found it hard to date some chio local girls. It's easy to spot them. They speak proper english, no singlish. They see it as being uncouth or low class. They have good jobs - bankers, marketing, pr, media, fashion etc. They are well dressed and have a certain "smart girl" look. I think you know what i mean. Like atas!

I'm an ok looking bro but i have found i lose out to bros less attractive than me to these girls just cos they speak with a slang or "better" english. My english not bad. But i speak like a singaporean. Why is this not good enough for these girls? I dunno why there was to be a difference for them. I guess it's the same as us bros only looking for slim fair girls but i'm jealous that I have no chance. I cannot do fake accent. Sound bad and no point pretending.

I see these chio atas girls with ang mohs or locals who have fake slang - you know the type. Like our singapore DJs or just some bros who went overseas to study but all of a sudden have slang one. So funny one. But these girls seem to equate status and intelligence with how you speak. Singlish = void deck bros.

I am curious to know if you bros have faced this situation? Is there a way to pick up these girls? I am a confident bro these days. I am dating good looking girls - both PRC and locals. And they are attractive but not at this level of atas chio girls. Just want to know your experiences.

Hey brudder. Came across ur post, so I thought I'll just share my 2 cents:

To begin with, I think many girls look for clues of success to help them to find a 'good' life partner - Is he a graduate? And if so, does he hold an MBA? Got fancy job title? drive a car? brand of watch? Speak good english? (Likely to mean if he is well-educated, and hence, good financial prospect), parents stay at private housing? You get the pic.

If my observation of girls is accurate, most of them are looking out for a better life with their life partner. So, tt person will need to be financially stable at e very least. Short, fat or ugly (not hideous la), still can accept. But then, this is only e most basic level of acceptance. Think of it as a pyramid, like a food pyramid you see in those healthly diet model. At the top most level, there are the see beh rich bros who are can have almost whatever they want - model-looking women, or smart OL professionals or girl next door kind who aren't as sophisticated but still pretty decent.

Next, we have the mass affluent bros - not fricking rich, but financially stable and at least can see some light in their financial / career down the road. This kind of bros can only opt for the max smart OLs kind and the not so demanding girl next door types.

Then come the working class bros - no offense, but I'm just categorising our own species (men) as segmented pyramid. So, we have decent, average pple making an honest living. Speak average english, singlish and maybe only mandarin. Throw in some dialect in their everyday conversation. Nothing wrong, just generalisation la. So what kind of girls will this category of bros have? My view: Girl next door and below.

So, as you can see, the food chain of power (money, in this game) allows those rich bastards to bed whomever they wish, fuck gorgeous high end escorts, models etc. They just need to flash their sports car, and the girls will flash their panties. That's for the naughty ones

All in all, love between 2 persons is a powerful thing, it may transcend superficial traits a girl might look for, but at the end of the fucking day, reality bites.

This article will explain things better:
One well-educated woman, quoted by Mary Kay Magistad in a piece for Public Radio International, explains the equilibrium that results:

"There is an opinion that A quality guys will find B quality women, B quality guys will find C quality women, and C quality men will find D quality women...The people left are A quality women and D quality men."

http://www.economist.com/blogs/freee...arriage-market

[USboy]

Originally Posted by 5121314

Tink we hav to stop feeding this smart guy.
Below in red is what he pm me after i post on his thread yesterday.

Fatfella:
Dunno what;s the point of this. Both of you read something and made assumptions stupidly. And just cos two ppl are dumb, doesn't make it right. No wonder our country is laughed at these days. Full of singaporeans who think assume assume assume and no nothing. Sorry bro. Move along.

Screenshot: http://i1380.photobucket.com/albums/...ps67ee2c3c.jpg


though its a sex forum, i m more than willing to help or share information.
calling people stupidly and dumb does not makes him smarter.

Bro seems like you are the one trying to cause problems. Just relax. You obviously misunderstood and TS message you to stop. Don't be a nag bro. Relax. This is a fun place. You don't like something someone message you, deal with it separately. Flame the forum for what.

[USboy]

Originally Posted by onlyhuman

Eh Seriously I am not ur bro...and I am not assuming.

What social perception...social perception is only used by guys like u who thinks these girls are out of ur league.

My point is with confidence in yourself...you can have anything u wants...
Nothing to do with what better English or etc or chicks that is out of reach..

It's basically how much u want that pretty girl. There is nothing out of reach.
Some people dream abt success while others wakes up and work towards it.

Nb, is this wat Singapore education taught u? To be a wimp and backs off when u see the girl of ur dream? To run away for difficulties because the problem is unsolvable? That's social perception for u fat boy.

PS: I pity the prc chick that's with u.

Onlyhuman

Bro you starting fight for what? Why are you getting personal. Reading these posts, seems like you misunderstood TS. Please don't attack people. I agree with you to an extent. Confidence gets you only so far. You think you or I with all the confidence in the world can go get a Victoria's Secret supermodel? Nonsense. You're in dreamland. Good to dream tho.

[fatfella]

Originally Posted by onlyhuman

Eh Seriously I am not ur bro...and I am not assuming.

What social perception...social perception is only used by guys like u who thinks these girls are out of ur league.

My point is with confidence in yourself...you can have anything u wants...
Nothing to do with what better English or etc or chicks that is out of reach..

It's basically how much u want that pretty girl. There is nothing out of reach.
Some people dream abt success while others wakes up and work towards it.

Nb, is this wat Singapore education taught u? To be a wimp and backs off when u see the girl of ur dream? To run away for difficulties because the problem is unsolvable? That's social perception for u fat boy.

PS: I pity the prc chick that's with u.

Onlyhuman

Lol. Sorry kid, still smarter than you will ever be. It's sad that you've made a lot of stupid assumptions. Very PAP of you. Designing arguments and problems and "solutions" for them. If you want a rhetoric battle, you will lose. My advice to you is move along or you will get schooled. Like I said, since you were a bit slow to understand, is that confidence takes you only so far. Do you think you're going to go date Megan Fox or Maggie Q? Lol. Good if you think so. But no, you're a local Singaporean. And I would say most of the girls in this country are probably out of your league. Easy to talk behind a keyboard. But the fact is, none of your comments or solutions hold any water. It's moot. You didn't answer my question - Why is it that some girls believe that good english, slangs, accents etc. = better, smarter, more educated? And why is this more attractive to them? All you have spewed is rubbish. So sit down and learn. Or move along. You bore me.

[fatfella]

Originally Posted by HCKing

hahaha well said bro. fat boy came here start threads expecting ppl to spoon-feed him with answers. then start behaving like a spoilt brat when others gave him the answers which he wasn't expecting. typical attitude of the younger generation we encountered these days. sigh...

Younger generation? Lol. Spoon feed me answers? What answers? You retards didn't even read the question. And you wonder why are country is accused of creating mindless drones. Bah bah bah bah...sheep boy.

[starns]

There is a dearth of comprehension skills among the general populace. No need to get so worked up by the empty arguments of empty vessels.

To contribute to your discussion, I believe it's a social perception that engenders itself to this phenomenon. English is the commercial language and it is immediately associated with sophistication and prestige. It's presented to us this way both when we were schooling and when we working. You can't expect it not to rub off on social perception. Even your own social perception is definitely clouded. Would you speak to a new client/business partner in a singlish accent on the first day of meeting him?(assuming you didn't know him/her at all and if you are able to code switch and speak with a more neutral accent.)

[johnkim]

Originally Posted by fatfella

Lol. Good if you think so. But no, you're a local Singaporean. And I would say most of the girls in this country are probably out of your league. Easy to talk behind a keyboard. .

dear fatfella , you seemed to have your fair experience of life , going through 1 divorce, travelling regionally for work.
but...When you mentioned you had a divorce in your previous post in another thread, and you said you got nothing out of it due to prenup??? To my understanding , there is no prenup law validity in Singapore context, especially if u had physical assets in Singapore, due to the draconian marriage laws in Singapore. And any proof of adultery will even tilt the balance in your side....

Anyway...

No sane experienced professional would write such a provocative statement after the Anton Casey debacle. if you cannot maintain a facade of calmness due to such flaming, how can you even hope to attract so called smart sophisticated girls?

And i doubt you will want to have any male offspring here? you are condemning every damn male local singaporean with that rebuttal up there...
just provocative statement you are writing there.
An american or uk accent is just 1 preliminary conventional filter that so called sophisticated females used, to have marriage contracts with the successful male counterparts. In the end , its what you can do for them , and contribute to the marriage, which you had already gone through once.
And since our overglorifed Radio DJs are faking foreign slangs, why can't you do it ? just practice like a parrot. You definitely have the academic and cerebral capability to do this?

[onlyhuman]

Originally Posted by USboy

Bro you starting fight for what? Why are you getting personal. Reading these posts, seems like you misunderstood TS. Please don't attack people. I agree with you to an extent. Confidence gets you only so far. You think you or I with all the confidence in the world can go get a Victoria's Secret supermodel? Nonsense. You're in dreamland. Good to dream tho.

Misunderstood, maybe u are right to cos I don't speak proper English. All I know is that he is whining.
Personal attack on him, yes cos he is asking for it.

A tip for u on knowing VS girls:

Buy urself a ticket to the show and have confidence buys the model you wanted to chat with a drink...work ur way up her...u are a big boy I assume u knows how to do it.

PS:U never know how far confidence and guts will bring you to.

Onlyhuman

[Meow^^]

If a man who can't take any critics..I bet he really can't go far tho...

[simifly]

Originally Posted by USboy

Bro seems like you are the one trying to cause problems. Just relax. You obviously misunderstood and TS message you to stop. Don't be a nag bro. Relax. This is a fun place. You don't like something someone message you, deal with it separately. Flame the forum for what.

This is definitely a fun but open forum, most bros here are certainly sensible enough to know what's rite and wrong.
Nobody quote 5121314 post except u.
U tink we can be easily manipulated by just one post?
We are just expressing our thoughts base on wat TS start.

This is just a case of communication breakdown and expressing oneself.
One thing for sure is,
i will never call anyone stupid, dumb, retard or spewing rubbish if they misunderstand wat i mean.
Instead, i would try another way to make myself heard.
If i do what TS doing now, my family & work will be turnover by now.

Flaming the forum???
Hahahaha...never smell of any firepower yet.
Arti not here yet.
I just see bros & sis expressing our thoughts.
Anyway i dont tink he have the ability to flame the forum.
Btw fire will never start without wind.

[HCKing]

TS has gone MIA but has resorted to anonymous zap. fyi TS your power 1 zap is powerless to deduct any points. so much for calling others retarded.

[jacky43]

I get the picture finally. TS is a smart person actually. Then this is mine feelings.

English is one of the factor that draw a line btw Ah Tiong and local guy. Even if he is a boss the moment he drop the stupid PRC accent, many people will look down on him.

For brothers with average English, watch local news you might improve on it and trust me. It work. Now just to share with you guys yesterday NDP quit a winner who get herself a Fun pack. Her name is Guo X H she is mine colleague and, she is PRC with work pass.

She is somebody who tried her means to apply PR, and what make her day is when somebody said this.

You don't look and sound like FT. Still that's her weakness.