Wife & Sex - going through the motion

[Tomthefucker]

Originally Posted by Hotcoffee

My wife even told me she don't like kissing me. Cause when I kiss I produce a lot of saliva.
It hurts.............

Most of the time when I want to ML, she just tell me no mood. Worse is she also told me I cannot turn her on. CCB to her!!!!

if you think your case is bad, wait till you hear mine...my wife told me straight off that she hope that i wont find her attractive anymore so that i wont attempt to approach for intimacy..

[takashi31400]

Sigh.........I divorce my ex just to with my current gf.We has been together for almost 8 years .When we know each others for the first 5 years ,we ML anytime ,any place you name it....she was very daring.....but now we only ML once or twice a month with she just lying there let me use vibrator to make her come a few times then pumping her till i come.....

Just wonder why women dont take care of your own guy and let others women to take care for you ....i really dont wish to eat outside but.....
we has been discuess this issue for so many times but with no solution .
Most of the time i have to settle by my both hand......

[WIBlack]

It's sad to know lots of brothers here having such problems. It's not easy for woman to multi task and at end of the day, still have to serve husbands like more than once/month. Don't flame me, but I am saying from my point of view.

Most times, he won't talk to me, care about me, show me his love. I asked for his concerns, attention, a hug or a peck on cheek now and then, no response. But when he wants sex, he will come touch me, caress me. I will give it to him. When I horny, I diy myself too. Told him, he heckcare!

I did try to caress him more often, give him hj/ bj, but he wants more and after those sessions, back to inattentive mode again.

Did you bros give your partner enough attention, even care? Go out for couple date over meals or movie, or just two of you together without kids around. Listen to your partners when they plead with you for these dates. Don't just turn deaf. You may find you will get more satified in bed and more often.

I have give up on pleading but I still ML with him when he wants it. Life is short, both parties have to care and give in/ best to the ones we choose.

[Botakhead]

Originally Posted by WIBlack

It's sad to know lots of brothers here having such problems. It's not easy for woman to multi task and at end of the day, still have to serve husbands like more than once/month. Don't flame me, but I am saying from my point of view.

Most times, he won't talk to me, care about me, show me his love. I asked for his concerns, attention, a hug or a peck on cheek now and then, no response. But when he wants sex, he will come touch me, caress me. I will give it to him. When I horny, I diy myself too. Told him, he heckcare!

I did try to caress him more often, give him hj/ bj, but he wants more and after those sessions, back to inattentive mode again.

Did you bros give your partner enough attention, even care? Go out for couple date over meals or movie, or just two of you together without kids around. Listen to your partners when they plead with you for these dates. Don't just turn deaf. You may find you will get more satified in bed and more often.

I have give up on pleading but I still ML with him when he wants it. Life is short, both parties have to care and give in/ best to the ones we choose.

Hope that he truly return what you gave him, equally and fairly.

Take care.

[takashi31400]

HI Sis,,

How much i wish my gf is like you .
I did what you share ,but with no respone......

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by takashi31400

Sigh.........I divorce my ex just to with my current gf.We has been together for almost 8 years .When we know each others for the first 5 years ,we ML anytime ,any place you name it....she was very daring.....but now we only ML once or twice a month with she just lying there let me use vibrator to make her come a few times then pumping her till i come.....

Just wonder why women dont take care of your own guy and let others women to take care for you ....i really dont wish to eat outside but.....we has been discuess this issue for so many times but with no solution .
Most of the time i have to settle by my both hand......

If only there's a good answer to tis impt question...divorces will be reduced dramatically...to maybe NIL...hopefully tat day will come !..

New broom always sweeps clean..there's so much joy, fun n happiness on the wedding day n the days leading to it !...but i feel most wives get complacent somewat immediately after marriage n then begin to boss over their man, in one way or another n one matter leads to another showing their true colours tat sometimes are not seen or masked during courtship days...Tats why when i see a wedding these days, i m naturally happy for the couple, but deep in my heart, i cannot but fear tat they could be joining in the stats of the unhappy marriages sometime down the road..

You r still lucky bro, u get it once or twice a month, she is still willing to do it wif u...quite a number of bros dun get it for mths even yrs...

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by takashi31400

Sigh.........I divorce my ex just to with my current gf.We has been together for almost 8 years .When we know each others for the first 5 years ,we ML anytime ,any place you name it....she was very daring.....but now we only ML once or twice a month with she just lying there let me use vibrator to make her come a few times then pumping her till i come.....

Just wonder why women dont take care of your own guy and let others women to take care for you ....i really dont wish to eat outside but.....
we has been discuess this issue for so many times but with no solution .
Most of the time i have to settle by my both hand......

Monster empathize with your situation. Same situation as you and the best part of it all, I got better sextisfaction with ex oc then current oc. Last time ex oc still gives me bj and do 69. Current oc will have none of this. So honestly the before and after marriage sex part no one can foresee how it goes.

[303258]

omg... im gonna get married soon... i foresee my self as a typical cheater due to what most bros have shared their issue here... haiz i really dont want to eat out side also...

[BitchyBoy69]

Originally Posted by 303258

omg... im gonna get married soon... i foresee my self as a typical cheater due to what most bros have shared their issue here... haiz i really dont want to eat out side also...

ultimately it all depends on yr relationship with wife after marriage life unless u respect yr wife a lot...

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by 303258

omg... im gonna get married soon... i foresee my self as a typical cheater due to what most bros have shared their issue here... haiz i really dont want to eat out side also...

I hate to say it but we are what we are, we can only try and pretend superficially to be different but deep down inside, the monster within us all still lurks.

[takashi31400]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

I hate to say it but we are what we are, we can only try and pretend superficially to be different but deep down inside, the monster within us all still lurks.

I totally agree with you bro....Try my very best not to eat outside .The most is to get HJ....but i dont know when can i tahan.....sigh.....

[takashi31400]

Originally Posted by BitchyBoy69

ultimately it all depends on yr relationship with wife after marriage life unless u respect yr wife a lot...

Hi Bro,respect,love and lust is 3 different things....some time is really difficult to control....for my case i did share and talk to her but nothing change...

[WIBlack]

Don't envy or wish. I learnt from hard truth which hit me really hard and made me feel so useless. Leopards cannot change spots and I am sure I must have owe him in previous life.

I am learning to accept and let go, so I have let go of doing bj/hj on him. Everytime I did it or we ml, I will wonder what and how he did with that fucking woman.

Just be good to yourself and learn to let go if your partner is not willing party.

Originally Posted by takashi31400

HI Sis,,

How much i wish my gf is like you .
I did what you share ,but with no respone......

[Hotcoffee]

Originally Posted by Tomthefucker

if you think your case is bad, wait till you hear mine...my wife told me straight off that she hope that i wont find her attractive anymore so that i wont attempt to approach for intimacy..

That day she asked me is she fat or not. I told her the fatter the better.
Then she asked why, guess what's my reply...lol

[sluttymistress]

Originally Posted by takashi31400

Sigh.........I divorce my ex just to with my current gf.We has been together for almost 8 years .When we know each others for the first 5 years ,we ML anytime ,any place you name it....she was very daring.....but now we only ML once or twice a month with she just lying there let me use vibrator to make her come a few times then pumping her till i come.....

Just wonder why women dont take care of your own guy and let others women to take care for you ....i really dont wish to eat outside but.....
we has been discuess this issue for so many times but with no solution .
Most of the time i have to settle by my both hand......

that's really sad. i wonder what's wrong with the majority of women. sex is enjoyable and meant to be enjoyed.